How To Not Raise Entitled Kids (No Matter How Much you Bless Them)
One of the most common questions I get is, "how do we raise our kids who aren't entitled...especially if we've had success in some aspects of life?" And it makes sense. Most of us are who we are because of the struggles we've had to endure to get here. We value what we have, we aren't entitled. But...so many kids (and adults) these days are. Why? It turns out there's one very basic (but countercultural) thing you can do that will allow you to bless your kids to the moon and back without them becoming entitled. Listen in as Jeremy and April teach us how to make sure our kids turn out like the Sea of Galilee (abundant, full of life), not the Dead Sea (salty and dead!). On this episode, we talk about: 0:00 Intro 3:23 The one move that ensures your kids will not become entitled, no matter how much you bless them 11:43 Answering the biggest critique 23:49 What it's like having your daughters embrace motherhood right away 32:21 "It is as it should be." Follow Family Teams: Facebook: https://facebook.com/famteams Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/familyteams Website: https://www.familyteams.com Resources Mentioned: How To Raise Kids Who Want To Be Parents: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GqiY6WkKH7U --- Hi, welcome to the Family Teams podcast! Our goal here is to help your family become a multigenerational team on mission by providing you with Biblically rooted concepts, tools and rhythms! Your hosts are Jeremy Pryor and Jefferson Bethke. Make sure to subscribe on Apple, Spotify, or YouTube so you don't miss out on future episodes!
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Conquer Family Chaos With This Unexpected Tool
What if you could take the most chaotic thing in your life and turn it into something that actually creates peace in your home? This month in the Family Teams Accelerator, we're talking about how to use this one unexpected tool usually found in the most boring parts of a business, to turn chaos into clarity at home. That tool? Standar Operating Procedures (SOPs). This is how you train your kids to do what you want them to do. It's how you lead them into actually rising to the level of high expectations. It's how you take the chaos and uncertainty out of teaching them how to behave and how to perform the tasks you want them to perform. And it's way simpler than you think (otherwise there's no way we'd do it!). In this episode Jeremy sits down with Blake and Chandler Smith, next month's community coaches inside the Accelerator, to give you a taste of what's to come. Make sure to sign up to join us in the Accelerator this month to get help applying this in your home: https://courses.familyteams.com/accelerator On this episode, we talk about: 0:00 Intro 3:55 SOPs are not just boring business things 7:58 Embracing work tools in the home? 14:00 Example SOP (Getting The Kids Ready To Go And In The Car) 19:22 The importance of practice and drills 24:12 Should you really introduce SOPs into your home? Follow Family Teams: Facebook: https://facebook.com/famteams Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/familyteams Website: https://www.familyteams.com Resources Mentioned: Join The Accelerator: https://courses.familyteams.com/accelerator Free Family SOP Playbook to Combat Chaos: https://familyteams.com/sop --- Hi, welcome to the Family Teams podcast! Our goal here is to help your family become a multigenerational team on mission by providing you with Biblically rooted concepts, tools and rhythms! Your hosts are Jeremy Pryor and Jefferson Bethke. Make sure to subscribe on Apple, Spotify, or YouTube so you don't miss out on future episodes!
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The Only Way To Build A Healthy Family Culture
It's the problem we see most often...an active, engaged mom who's trying to lead the family, and a passive dad who's abdicated his leadership. This does NOT work. Mom MUST use her gifts to complementarily help Dad lead. Dad MUST step up and start leading. This shared vision is crucial for family culture and how your kids (and marriage) turn out. Jeremy and April break this idea down by reacting to a couple of clips that show the importance of dad leading for the greater, common good. This will challenge you, but after so many years helping so many families, this is THE way to build your family, because it is GOD'S way to build your family. On this episode, we talk about: 0:00 Intro 1:43 Accelerator OPEN! (Family SOPs to Conquer Chaos) 4:37 Homeschool mom talks about family culture 13:58 Active Mom, Passive Dad Dynamic 19:28 Authority = Responsibility 29:02 First Wave Feminists Against Female Suffrage? Follow Family Teams: Facebook: https://facebook.com/famteams Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/familyteams Website: https://www.familyteams.com Resources Mentioned: Free Family SOP Guide: https://familyteams.com/sop Sarah Mackenzie on Lila Rose: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HZ-atgK-yoU Nancy Pearcy The Toxic War On Masculinity: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fEr-Qf-2WH4 --- Hi, welcome to the Family Teams podcast! Our goal here is to help your family become a multigenerational team on mission by providing you with Biblically rooted concepts, tools and rhythms! Your hosts are Jeremy Pryor and Jefferson Bethke. Make sure to subscribe on Apple, Spotify, or YouTube so you don't miss out on future episodes!
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The One Metric To Heal The Broken Western Family
What if there was one, single, metric we could track to tell whether or not we were actually on track to restoring God's vision for family? There's a lot of noise, a lot of competing priorities in the world, BUT... I think we've found one metric. We call it: 3 Generations, 1 Table, Every Week. If you can build this rhythm into your family, it's almost inevitable that you'll become a multi-generational family team. This episode covers exactly what this metric is, and how to achieve it. On this episode, we talk about: 0:00 Intro 1:10 The One Metric To Track When Restoring Biblical Family Blueprint 5:36 Practical Step For Starting a Multigenerational Weekly Meal 10:37 The Use of a Single Metric 19:25 Ripple Effects of This Meal 22:19 An Answer To Demographic Decline? Follow Family Teams: Facebook: https://facebook.com/famteams Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/familyteams Website: https://www.familyteams.com --- Hi, welcome to the Family Teams podcast! Our goal here is to help your family become a multigenerational team on mission by providing you with Biblically rooted concepts, tools and rhythms! Your hosts are Jeremy Pryor and Jefferson Bethke. Make sure to subscribe on Apple, Spotify, or YouTube so you don't miss out on future episodes!
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Intentional Fatherhood Rhythms with Maury Wood
Today's guest and I both want fathers to be more intentional. And, like most things, it doesn't take a crazy amount of planning or effort to show up a little bit more for your wife and kids. Maury Wood joins me to talk intentional rhythms, and shares a few really useful, and easy-to-implement rhythms and lessons that any dad can benefit from. On this episode, we talk about: 0:00 Intro 1:23 Why Grit & Wit 4:37 Wrestling With Legacy 11:35 The Family Walk 14:22 No Consequences Questions 19:30 Cop to Coaching Phase 26:00 Measure Twice, Learn Once Follow Family Teams: Facebook: https://facebook.com/famteams Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/familyteams Website: https://www.familyteams.com Resources Mentioned: Grit & Wit: https://gritandwit.substack.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/themaurywood/ --- Hi, welcome to the Family Teams podcast! Our goal here is to help your family become a multigenerational team on mission by providing you with Biblically rooted concepts, tools and rhythms! Your hosts are Jeremy Pryor and Jefferson Bethke. Make sure to subscribe on Apple, Spotify, or YouTube so you don't miss out on future episodes!
A place to get equipped and encouraged as you opt out of the western family experiment and say yes to building a multi-generational family team on mission.
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