Come Curious

Is subscribing to someone's OnlyFans cheating? What about texting an ex, keeping a dating app "just to look", or fantasising about someone else during sex?

In this special watershed episode, we're diving into the murky grey areas of modern relationships with a boundary-pushing cheating quiz that sparks some surprisingly revealing conversations.

Together, we unpack the behaviours that sit between loyalty and betrayal, exploring emotional affairs, secret crushes, dating apps, hidden messages, workplace flirtations, exes, social media boundaries, and what "cheating" actually means in monogamous and non-monogamous relationships.

The truth? There isn't one universal definition. What feels harmless to one person might feel devastating to another.

This episode is designed to help you better understand your own boundaries, communicate your expectations, and start the conversations many couples avoid until it's too late.

⚠️ This is a Watershed episode. Free listeners get the first half of the conversation, but if you want the full debate, all our answers, and the deeper discussions around ENM, trust, honesty and relationship agreements, you'll need to join us on Patreon.

Whether you're happily monogamous, exploring ethical non-monogamy, or simply wondering where your own line is, this episode will leave you with plenty to think about.

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We're back!

After a whirlwind few months, Florence and Reed reunite to share some huge life update and trust us, a lot has happened.

Florence opens up about her traumatic birth experience, from preeclampsia and induction to the realities of labour, recovery and becoming a mum. Meanwhile, Reed spills the tea on ending a dishonest situationship, finding a healthy new polyamorous relationship, and what dating has taught her about attachment, communication and vulnerability.

The pair also dive into some of the biggest stories affecting sexual health right now, including NHS policy changes impacting trans healthcare, breakthroughs in endometriosis and PCOS research, and why menstrual products are finally being tested with real blood.

Plus, they answer your questions on:

Sex and intimacy after having a baby

Maintaining connection during major life changes

Dating, honesty and ethical communication

Talking about penis size before sex

Women's health research and medical advocacy

Raw, funny, emotional and completely unfiltered - this is Come Curious catching up on everything you've missed.

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This week on Come Curious, Reed sits down with kink theorist, power exchange mentor and educator Tripp Terrier to unpack one of the most misunderstood roles in BDSM: the dominant.

Together they explore why true dominance isn't about control, arrogance or entitlement but instead, it's about presence, responsibility and service.

Tripp shares his unique perspective on power exchange, explaining how authority is earned through knowledge, patience and skill rather than demanded through status or ego. They discuss the importance of integrating every part of yourself including the feminine and more uncomfortable aspects of your personality, and why self-awareness is one of the most powerful tools a dominant can develop.

Inside the episode:

- Why dominance is a giving role, not a taking one- The difference between confidence and entitlement- How power exchange can become deeply transformative- Why consent is more complex than a simple "yes" or "no"- The role of humility in healthy masculinity and leadership- Supporting partners through subdrop and emotional vulnerability

Tripp also shares his essential reading list for anyone curious about kink, including The Topping Book and The Bottoming Book by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton, alongside The Heart of Dominance and The Dominance Playbook by Anton Fulmen.

Whether you're dominant, submissive, curious or simply interested in healthier models of masculinity, this conversation offers a fascinating look into power, connection and personal responsibility.

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Ever feel like everyone else is having mind-blowing Os while you're still trying to figure out what all the fuss is about? 

In this solo episode, Reed dives into one of the most common questions in seggs: why can orgasms feel so difficult to reach? 

From cl"toral Os and G-spots to nipple Os, footgasms and everything in between, Reed shares her own experiences navigating pleasure, performance pressure and learning what actually works for her body. 

She explores the biggest O blockers — including stress, overthinking, hormones, shame, medication and unrealistic expectations — and explains why chasing an O is often the fastest way to stop one from happening. 

Plus, she tackles: 

💦 Why faking Os helps nobody 

🧠 The mind-body disconnect that kills pleasure 

🔥 How solo play can transform partnered seggs 

✨ What our Curious Fckers revealed about their O habits 

⚡ The difference between pleasure and performance 

Whether you O every time, rarely get there, or are still figuring out what works for your body, this episode is a reminder that pleasure isn't one-size-fits-all.

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Is being single actually lonely… or are we just taught to fear it?

In this deeply honest solo episode, Reed opens up about the messy, liberating, emotional rollercoaster of single life — from dodgy dates and incredible seggs to heartbreak, healing, k'nk exploration and learning how to stop losing yourself in relationships.

Expect candid chats about:
💔 Codependency and self-worth
🍑 Casual seggs, k'nk, and ethical dating
🧠 Nervous systems, attachment and emotional safety
✨ Learning your boundaries through dating

AND it's a Watershed episode meaning our Patreon's get the secret second half where Reed goes in deep on fantastic sx stories… and the disappointing dates.

Raw, reflective, horny and healing all at once — this is Reed fully unfiltered.

Come get curious 💫

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