friend breakups happen. sean’s not helping you move.
Friends and SATC have so much to teach us. Talia recently learned that she wants her life to be more like the TV show Friends (Sean already knew this) and it starts with getting someone to watch her cat. How offended should you be by a friend not helping you out? We also debate Sarah Jessica Parker’s petty unwillingness to acknowledge that Samantha even exists. In this ep we discuss:
Friend breakups and why they happen - do guys have it all figured out?
Helping people move (don’t do it) and the secret to getting big favors
Talia’s new kink for a guy who talks about her in therapy
The best new show you should be watching
picky & selfish is created and hosted by Talia Lichtstein and Sean Kilby.
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1:05:11
men are lonely. sean is hard.
It’s time to talk about sexting – Talia tells us exactly what you shouldn’t say to a woman over text if you want to turn her on (and how to use punctuation. Sean also tells us which dirty word he wants us all to start saying a whole lot more. We also get listener thoughts on last week’s conversation about female hygiene. In this ep we also discuss:
A certain someone slid back into Talia’s DMs
Karen Read’s recent acquittal and why it doesn’t mean Talia was wrong
Apparently there’s a male loneliness epidemic and we can’t agree what that means
People need to go back to dating within their own league
The internet has made many guys a little too embattled (aka “Not All Men”)
Sean tells us why more people need to start taking performance enhancers for sex
picky & selfish is created and hosted by Talia Lichtstein and Sean Kilby.
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1:12:37
talia has hit rock bottom. tracey carnazzo is still digging.
Talia’s having a tough week so our friend Tracey Carnazzo stops by to help her dig an even deeper hole for herself. We talk about what it takes to get out of a rut, why it’s more fun to flirt than it is to seal the deal, and how you can actually learn to de-center men in your life. In this ep we also discuss:
Using boric acid to clean up (and the fear of smelling bad)
What dissociation really feels like
Being good at making out and how to deliver the perfect kiss
Getting used to being alone and why that’s a good thing
Tips for going down on a woman
picky & selfish is created and hosted by Talia Lichtstein and Sean Kilby.
Follow us on TikTok & IG: @pickyandselfish
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1:01:34
how to make a guy go away. what are your five compatibility non-negotiables?
Did we just discover the perfect breakup text? Talia tells us how she stumbled upon the ideal sentence designed to let a guy down easy and make him go away forever. In this ep we also discuss:
Your five non-negotiables for finding someone you’re truly compatible with
How important sex and attraction are in a relationship
Dating a man for money
Picking someone who admires you (and what you do)
The joy of wearing a blindfold during sex and why it can be hot
Why you should try dirty talk and be willing to “do it scared”
picky & selfish is created and hosted by Talia Lichtstein and Sean Kilby.
Follow us on TikTok & IG: @pickyandselfish
Follow Talia: @talialichtstein
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1:08:13
talia wasn’t invited to the influencer met gala. sean isn’t invited to serenade talia.
Talia needs to step up her influencer networking game because she wasn’t invited to Jaz and Kevin’s wedding (aka the influencer event of the season). Is Sean joking when he says he’s never heard of any of these people? Also, what’s an Etsy witch? In this ep we also discuss:
Talia got a side part and Sean didn’t notice (whoops)
We get the story of how Talia helped Serena Kerrigan get with her bf
How to be a great guest at a wedding
Dropping a clinger on a night out and helping someone in need
Keeping a nudes greatest hits folder
Singing a love song for someone after hooking up: hot or not?
Are men allowed to wear no-show socks?
picky & selfish is created and hosted by Talia Lichtstein and Sean Kilby.
Follow us on TikTok & IG: @pickyandselfish
Follow Talia: @talialichtstein
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Introducing picky and selfish with talia and sean – A show about... nothing? (Is that taken yet?)
Talia is your favorite twenty-something influencer navigating the chaotic New York social scene, and Sean is a thirty-something podcaster finally diving into the New York dating pool for the first time. These two they need each other's help. Fortunately, they’re best friends. Forget "mindful" and "demure" – it’s time to get picky and selfish. This is the podcast for women who are unapologetically putting themselves first... and for the men who want to know exactly what that looks like.
Each week, Talia and Sean dive into everything from bad hookups and f*ckboy tendencies, to annoying texting habits and why Crumbl cookies are overhyped. No boring segments, no filler – just the good stuff, every minute. Expect unfiltered conversations with their influencer squad, a parade of fascinating guests, and plenty of wild opinions. picky and selfish isn’t just a vibe – it’s a way of life. Be picky. Be selfish.
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