how to make a guy go away. what are your five compatibility non-negotiables?
Did we just discover the perfect breakup text? Talia tells us how she stumbled upon the ideal sentence designed to let a guy down easy and make him go away forever. In this ep we also discuss:
Your five non-negotiables for finding someone you’re truly compatible with
How important sex and attraction are in a relationship
Dating a man for money
Picking someone who admires you (and what you do)
The joy of wearing a blindfold during sex and why it can be hot
Why you should try dirty talk and be willing to “do it scared”
picky & selfish is created and hosted by Talia Lichtstein and Sean Kilby.
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1:08:13
talia wasn’t invited to the influencer met gala. sean isn’t invited to serenade talia.
Talia needs to step up her influencer networking game because she wasn’t invited to Jaz and Kevin’s wedding (aka the influencer event of the season). Is Sean joking when he says he’s never heard of any of these people? Also, what’s an Etsy witch? In this ep we also discuss:
Talia got a side part and Sean didn’t notice (whoops)
We get the story of how Talia helped Serena Kerrigan get with her bf
How to be a great guest at a wedding
Dropping a clinger on a night out and helping someone in need
Keeping a nudes greatest hits folder
Singing a love song for someone after hooking up: hot or not?
Are men allowed to wear no-show socks?
picky & selfish is created and hosted by Talia Lichtstein and Sean Kilby.
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1:03:47
clout chasing dead celebs. what do married people talk about.
What’s the longest you’ve ever spent sitting in a public bathroom? We discuss our strategies for getting it over with (and discover some things about how we may be doing it wrong). In this ep we also talk about:
Celebrity deaths and posting on social media for attention (RIP George Wendt)
Talia’s plan for how to call out clout chasers if she ever suffers an untimely death
The secret to being a good listener in a relationship
What people in long term relationships actually discuss when they’re at dinner
An ingenious idea for sending nudes privately and a horror story from college
picky & selfish is created and hosted by Talia Lichtstein and Sean Kilby.
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1:19:53
the renaiSeance. talia’s tragedy anthem.
Sorry this episode is late, Sean was on vacation. He’s been on a renaiSeance tour for the past year and we talk about what he’s learned. Plus, we hear the AI song his friends made for his birthday (remember: he’s kissed a girl before) and we ask AI to write Talia her own anthem in real time. On this ep we also discuss:
Talia’s mea culpa on the Karen Read trial
Learning to deal with disappointment
FaceTime sex and how to take good butt pics
Talia wants a boyfriend who will let her practice makeup on him
Showing gratitude for good friends
picky & selfish is created and hosted by Talia Lichtstein and Sean Kilby.
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1:17:08
gorillas vs six-year-olds. fixing the group text (sorority-style).
What’s with men wanting to fight gorillas? Talia and Sean take issue with the latest viral debate and tell us who would be easier to take down: one gorilla or 100 six-year olds. Also discussed on this episode:
A detailed (and flawed) summary of the Karen Reid trial
How to deal with an interloper at a friend-dinner
Fixing your group text when too many people have been added
Talia’s “Sorority Process” for culling people from the group
Setting up your own friend exec board
picky & selfish is created and hosted by Talia Lichtstein and Sean Kilby.
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Introducing picky and selfish with talia and sean – A show about... nothing? (Is that taken yet?)
Talia is your favorite twenty-something influencer navigating the chaotic New York social scene, and Sean is a thirty-something podcaster finally diving into the New York dating pool for the first time. These two they need each other's help. Fortunately, they’re best friends. Forget "mindful" and "demure" – it’s time to get picky and selfish. This is the podcast for women who are unapologetically putting themselves first... and for the men who want to know exactly what that looks like.
Each week, Talia and Sean dive into everything from bad hookups and f*ckboy tendencies, to annoying texting habits and why Crumbl cookies are overhyped. No boring segments, no filler – just the good stuff, every minute. Expect unfiltered conversations with their influencer squad, a parade of fascinating guests, and plenty of wild opinions. picky and selfish isn’t just a vibe – it’s a way of life. Be picky. Be selfish.
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