Rewind: Challenging Our Individualistic Culture with Erin Spahr
Challenging Our Individualistic Culture with Erin Spahr @feminist.mom.therapist
In this episode, Rachael interviews Erin Spahr, a licensed therapist, mother, and maternal mental health advocate. They discuss the intersection of feminism and motherhood, the lack of support and systemic oppression faced by women and parents, and the harmful effects of comparison and external validation on social media.
Here’s what they discuss in this episode:
The importance of self-compassion and self-trust in navigating motherhood
The need for inclusive and identity-affirming care for perinatal individuals
Lack of federal paid parental leave in the US and how it is a MAJOR issue for mothers
How harmful the societal ideology of individualism and the expectation that mothers should do it all without support is
All about the tradwife movement and how it glamorizes an unrealistic and oppressive view of motherhood.
Why does feminism have a negative connotation?
And so much more!
Mentioned in this episode:
Erin’s instagram: @feminist.mom.therapist
Listen to The Feminist Mom Podcast here
Inclusive Provider Directory website: https://www.inclusiveproviders.com/
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Rachael is a mom of 3, founder of Hey, Sleepy Baby, and the host of this podcast.
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Rewind: Feeding Toddlers: Finding Joy in Family Meals with Nita and Jessica of
Feeding Toddlers: Finding Joy in Family Meals with Nita and Jessica of @happyhealthyeaters
Have you ever struggled with picky eating or stressful mealtimes? This is so common- feeding toddlers can be very challenging! In this episode, Rachael speaks with Jessica and Nita, co-founders of Happy Healthy Eaters, ALL about feeding toddlers to make mealtimes more enjoyable!
Here’s what they discuss inside this episode:
The different challenges of feeding toddlers including “picky” eating or selective eating
How and why it is important to trust your child’s eating preferences
How much food should your toddler actually eat?
Tips for keeping your child engaged and interested in mealtime
Guiding parents on allowing kids to eat when they're hungry and stop when they're full
How valuable family meals can be for modeling eating behaviors and passing on cultural traditions
Ways to adapt meals to fit each family's schedule and preferences
Tips for adapting culturally appropriate meals for babies
Facts about the food supply in North America and it’s safety
When to seek support from professionals if a child's eating habits are severely challenging or interfering with their growth and development
Jessica and Nita are co-founders of Happy Healthy Eaters - a community dedicated to supporting parents in feeling relaxed and confident about feeding their child. They are both Registered Dietitians with a combined 25+ years of education and work. They started Happy Healthy Eaters in 2020 after Nita had her second baby with the hopes of supporting parents through these exciting milestones, minus ALL the misinformation. Their online course - Starting Solids Confidently- launched first and is widely popular and now they have a second course: Feeding Toddlers Confidently- which debuted after more than two years in the making!
Mentioned in this episode:
Happy Healthy Eaters Website: https://happyhealthyeaters.com/
Happy Healthy Eaters instagram: @happyhealthyeaters
Feeding Toddlers Confidently Course here Code for No One Told Us Listeners: HHE15
How to Keep Your Toddler at the Table
Blog Post: How to Adapt Recipes to be BLW Friendly
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Rachael is a mom of 3, founder of Hey, Sleepy Baby, and the host of this podcast.
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Rewind: Managing Sensory Overwhelm in Parenthood with Larissa Geleris
Disclaimer: This episode is for entertainment and educational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice. Please seek immediate care from your physician if you have any concerns about your health.
This week, Rachael sits down with occupational therapist Larissa Geleris of @steadyparents to explore a topic that hits home for so many parents: sensory overwhelm.
Picture this: you're cooking dinner, the oven fan is on, your baby is crying, your toddler is banging a toy, and your partner is asking you a question. You’re overstimulated, overwhelmed, maybe even raging. Sound familiar? You’re not alone—and this episode is for you.
Larissa breaks down what sensory overload really is, how common it is in parenthood, and why it's a completely normal response to an overstimulating environment. She shares her personal story as a pediatric OT who experienced sensory dysfunction after a concussion—and how that shifted her focus to supporting overwhelmed parents just like you.
Here’s what they discuss inside this episode:
What sensory overwhelm is (and why it’s common in parenting)
The “touched out” feeling—why it happens and what to do
Quick, practical sensory strategies to use in the moment
How to reduce the chances of overwhelm ahead of time
Why self-compassion is key to self-regulation
How to co-regulate with your child even when you’re dysregulated
Tools to help you feel more confident and steady in your day-to-day parenting
And so much more!
Mentioned in this episode:
Larissa’s Instagram: @steadyparents
Larissa’s program: Sensing Your Needs in Parenthood
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Rewind: Helping Kids Learn to Read (And Love It) with Miss Beth from Big City Readers
In this episode, Rachael sits down with literacy expert and beloved educator Beth Gaskill, known by her community as Miss Beth, to talk all about how children learn to read. From the science of reading (yep, it’s a science!) to why fun is essential in the process, this episode is packed with practical strategies for parents who want to support their kids' literacy journeys.
They also chat about what it means to "redshirt" kindergarten, how to foster early literacy skills at home, and how to talk to your kids after school in a way that builds connection (not frustration). Plus, Rachael shares her own perspective as a former public school teacher and current parent navigating her child’s first year in the school system.
Inside this episode:
What the science of reading actually means
The Orton-Gillingham approach and multisensory literacy
Why reading should be fun (and how to make it that way)
How to support your child's learning style
Understanding Kindergarten "redshirting"
What to say when your child won’t tell you about their day
Rachael’s reflections from 10+ years teaching reading
Why advocacy matters and how to be your child’s best advocate
And so much more!
Mentioned in this episode:
Big City Readers On-Demand Courses for babies, toddlers, and kids
Beth’s podcast: Play on Words
Podcast: Sold a Story
Follow Miss Beth: @bigcityreaders
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Rachael is a mom of 3, founder of Hey, Sleepy Baby, and the host of this podcast.
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Rewind: Independent Play: Practical Strategies for Simplifying Play with Lizzie Assa
Should parents play with their children? Or should children only play independently? Independent Play is such a polarizing topic! That’s why this week, Rachael and Lizzie Assa, founder of the Workspace for Children, talk all about the importance of play for children and how parents can foster the desire for a healthy balance between playing with children and encouraging independent play.
Here’s what they discuss inside this helpful episode:
the benefits of independent play, starting from birth!
HOW to begin fostering independent play skills
the latest debate on social media: Should we play with our kids or not!?
practical strategies for parents to create a conducive environment for play
independent play is not about specific toys or aesthetics, but about understanding and connecting with each child's unique personality and interests
the fear and guilt that parents can feel when their children are playing independently
how parents can reduce “I’m bored!” pushback and avoid burnout
Tips for using independent play to have a “quiet time” once your child stops napping
And so much more!
Lizzie is the founder of The Workspace for Children, and has become a go-to strategist for parents seeking guidance in fostering independent play for their children. With a Master’s in early childhood education and a passion for simplicity and consistency in play, she offers practical solutions to avoid burnout and promote healthy development. Lizzie's insights have been featured on The Good Inside Podcast, Parent's Magazine, NY Times Parenting, Time, and The Wall Street Journal. She is set to release her forthcoming book, "But I'm Bored!": The Complete Guide to Independent Play for Kids Ages 1-8, which promises to revolutionize the way parents approach their children's playtime.
Mentioned in this episode:
Lizzie’s Audio Course and Companion Workbook: https://twfc.kartra.com/page/sales
Lizzie’s Instagram: @theworkspaceforchildren
Lizzie’s website: https://www.workspaceforchildren.com/
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Rachael is a mom of 3, founder of Hey, Sleepy Baby, and the host of this podcast.
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No One Told Us the truth about parenthood. WHY?!
Welcome to No One Told Us, the podcast where we uncover the raw, unfiltered truths about parenthood. I'm your host, Rachael Shepard-Ohta, mom of three and founder of Hey, Sleepy Baby. Each week, join me as we dive deep into the joys, challenges, and surprises of raising children with a mix of expert insights, personal anecdotes, and candid conversations.
From navigating postpartum anxiety to mastering the art of making mom friends, and from introducing solids to tackling tantrums, we cover it all. Whether you're a first-time parent or a seasoned pro, this podcast is your go-to resource for honest advice, relatable stories, and plenty of laughs along the way.
Join me as I sit down with experts in their fields, as well as friends, family, celebrities, and influencers, to share their experiences and wisdom on everything from sleepless nights to rocky relationships. No topic is off-limits, and no story goes untold on No One Told Us.
So grab a cup of coffee, pop in your headphones and join the conversation. This is the podcast everyone needed before they had kids- because now that those little ones are here, there's a lot to unpack. So let's pull back the curtain on becoming a first-time mom (or dad!) to share the good, the bad and the ugly. A little education, a little fun, and a whole lot of heart goes into each and every episode of No One Told Us to have you feeling less alone and way more empowered.