Mommywood

Last time I asked the question. This time I have the answer. In this solo episode, I'm closing the loop on the one question I've been wondering about out loud: am I going to have another kid? The answer is no — 99.9% no. I talk about what actually changed (the exhaustion, the money math, the juggle I'm barely managing with one), the wobble moments that still ping me, and why "I have one child" is a complete sentence — there's nothing just or only about it. Mae isn't a starter kid. This isn't a draft. And I'm good here.

A few weeks ago I posted a reel about never initiating, and the comments went feral — hundreds of women saying "same," and a lot of men being brutal about it. So I brought in an actual expert. Carrie has 20+ years as a therapist and has worked with 400+ couples, and she came on to talk about what's really going on: being touched-out, spontaneous versus responsive desire, how you switch out of mom-manager mode and back into partner mode, the pressure side nobody talks about, and what actually helps.
No judgment, no neat answers — just the conversation I wish someone had handed me years ago.
Find Carrie at @carriecohencoaching

Jennafer Peery got the call for Broadway two months after finding out she was pregnant. Wicked held her spot through the pregnancy and three months postpartum. Then she went back.
We talk about what it actually costs to have two dreams come true at the same time: the daycare guilt, the exhaustion she didn't feel until she stopped, the bedtimes she missed for two years, and why the first year of motherhood is secretly the glory days. Plus her advice for anyone in the industry waiting until they're "ready" for kids (spoiler: you'll never be ready), and what she hopes her daughter learns from watching her mom fight for her dreams.

Alexandra and Landon are back! They first came on Mommywood when Alexandra was pregnant and living in LA. Two years later: they're married, they have a 2-year-old son (Aiden), and they left LA for Georgia.
We get into all of it — the UCLA benefits mix-up, the LA fires, evacuating with a baby who had RSV, and the kitchen-table moment they decided to just go. They road-tripped for three months, sold their LA townhome, and bought a house in Georgia sight unseen. (Daycare update: $1,400/month, five days a week, diapers and food included — vs. $1,600 for two days a week in LA.)
Landon taped his Matlock audition while Alexandra was having contractions. She booked an NBC pilot after they moved. And they go deep on the stuff nobody talks about: postpartum anxiety — his and hers — intrusive "zombie thoughts," preventative couples therapy, the identity valley of not feeling like an actor anymore, and how parenthood rewired their ambition completely. Landon's line: "Don't be in a rush to be busy. Be in a rush to be free."
Chapters:
00:00 — Catching up: married, baby Aiden, and "we live in Georgia"
01:21 — Why they left LA
03:20 — The fires, the evacuation, and Aiden's RSV
05:28 — Buying a house sight unseen
06:31 — Daycare: $1,400 in Georgia vs. $1,600 in LA
07:42 — Leaving LA: the ego and career fears
11:01 — Booking an NBC pilot after moving
13:04 — "I don't feel like an actor anymore"
15:57 — How parenthood changed their ambition
18:55 — Postpartum anxiety, "zombie thoughts," and couples therapy
23:04 — Landon's pivot into real estate
24:27 — Finding time for yourselves
29:04 — What surprised them most about parenthood
32:53 — "I love him so much, it hurts" — joy and grief side by side
37:36 — Unsolicited advice for new parents
40:13 — Advice for actors who want to become parents
42:19 — "Don't be in a rush to be busy. Be in a rush to be free."
45:51 — Moral of the story: everybody move to Georgia

Julie Marchiano is a Second City Chicago alum, was on Barry (HBO), and books national commercials — and she's also a mom to a 3-year-old, figuring out the same juggle we all are. In this one: the time she met Henry Winkler while folding jeans at the mall, years before booking Barry; why she never wanted kids (until she suddenly did); the real math of making it work as a working actor — including going back to a full-time job for 15 months; and why there's never a "right time" to have a baby in this industry. Honest, funny, and full of the stuff actors don't usually say out loud.