Feel Like You’re Failing as a Parent? Here’s What You’re Missing
If you’ve ever ended the day thinking, “Ugh, I was way too impatient… I didn’t handle that well… I need to do better,” you’re not alone. Parenting teens has a way of making even the most loving parents feel like we’re constantly falling short.
But what if you could quiet that inner critic—even just a little—and start noticing what’s actually going right?
In this heartfelt episode of Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam, counselor and author Erin Morrison—creator of @itsTheConsciousMom and author of Three Minutes for Mom—offers science-backed insight and deeply reassuring advice for parents who feel like they’re failing.
We dive into why our brains focus on the negative, how to stop taking our teen’s behavior so personally, and what it really means to be “doing enough.” Erin also shares a simple 3-minute daily mindset practice that can help you reconnect with yourself—and your teen.
If you’re constantly hard on yourself, overwhelmed by parenting pressure, or just tired of feeling like you’re not enough… this episode is your reset.
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE
Why your teen's boundary-pushing is actually a good thing
The secret to feeling like a “good parent” again (in just 3 minutes a day)
How to shift your mindset from constant criticism to quiet confidence
What you’re getting right—even if it doesn’t feel like it
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RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE
Three Minutes for Mom by Erin Morrison (Simon & Schuster)
“Catch Them Being Kind” 5-Day Challenge
The “Friend Perspective” & “It’s Not Personal, It’s Developmental” reminders
CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST: Erin Morrison
Website: https://theconsciousmom.com
Instagram: @itsthe.consciousmom
CONNECT WITH YOUR HOST: Dr. Cam Caswell
Website: AskDrCam.com
Instagram: @DrCamCaswell
TikTok: @the.teen.translator
YouTube: Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam
Facebook: @DrCamCaswell
EPISODE CHAPTERS:
00:00 The Struggles of Parenting Teens
03:05 Reframing Our Perspective on Parenting
05:42 Recognizing Wins in Parenting
08:46 The Importance of Self-Recognition
11:24 Responding vs. Reacting to Our Teens
14:25 The Impact of Parental Self-Perception
17:28 Building Positive Relationships with Teens
20:25 Practical Steps for Self-Care
23:19 Finding Balance in Parenting
26:36 Grounding in Parental Truth
29:09 Tiny Shifts for Big Changes
32:35 Balancing Business and Pleasure in Parenting
35:40 Understanding Developmental Stages
37:59 Letting Go for Connection
46:20 Ownership and Independence in Parenting
ABOUT THE SHOW
The Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam Podcast is your go-to resource for navigating the challenges of raising teenagers. Hosted by Dr. Cam Caswell, an adolescent psychologist and certified parenting coach, this podcast offers practical parenting strategies, expert advice, and real-world insights to help you build a stronger relationship with your teen and support their emotional growth. Whether you’re struggling with teenage behavior or looking to improve communication, each episode provides actionable tips to make parenting teens easier and more rewarding. Perfect for both new and seasoned parents, this podcast helps you build the confidence to handle teen challenges and thrive together.
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The 3-Step Pause That Stops Teen Meltdowns—and Parent Burnout
Ever wish you had a pause button—for your teen or yourself? When you’re caught in a meltdown, shutdown, or power struggle, it’s easy to spiral into reactivity and regret. In this episode of Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam, Jennie Phillips—coach, fitness pro, mom of four, and author of Yellow Light Moments—introduces a science-backed framework that empowers families to slow down and reset before emotions explode.
Jennie shares her 3-step “Yellow Light Moment” method (Yield-Listen-Move), giving parents the language, tools, and mindset shifts needed to manage teen stress, model emotional regulation, and create a calmer home. If your family is running on exhaustion and conflict, this episode will help you pump the brakes—with just a few intentional minutes that can shift everything.
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE
A 3-step process to prevent teen blowups before they start
How to create shared emotional language with your teen (like “caterpillar” or “question quota”)
Why your teen’s “laziness” might actually be healthy self-regulation
How guilt around self-care is secretly sabotaging your parenting
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RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE
Yellow Light Moments Book
YLM Toolbox for Teens
CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST: Jennie Phillips
Website: www.jenniephillipscoaching.com
Instagram: @jenniephillipscoaching
Facebook: Jennie Phillips Coaching
LinkedIn: Jennie Phillips
CONNECT WITH YOUR HOST: Dr. Cam Caswell
Website: AskDrCam.com
Instagram: @DrCamCaswell
TikTok: @the.teen.translator
YouTube: Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam
Facebook: @DrCamCaswell
EPISODE CHAPTERS:
00:00 The Need for a Pause
01:09 Introducing Yellow Light Moments
06:38 Understanding the Concept of Yellow Light Moments
12:27 The Importance of Pausing
20:24 Training Ourselves to Yield
25:44 Benefits of Taking a Pause
29:37 Modeling for Our Teens
33:56 Final Thoughts and Action Items
ABOUT THE SHOW
The Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam Podcast is your go-to resource for navigating the challenges of raising teenagers. Hosted by Dr. Cam Caswell, an adolescent psychologist and certified parenting coach, this podcast offers practical parenting strategies, expert advice, and real-world insights to help you build a stronger relationship with your teen and support their emotional growth. Whether you’re struggling with teenage behavior or looking to improve communication, each episode provides actionable tips to make parenting teens easier and more rewarding.
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How to Protect Your Teen from Online Predators Without Controlling Their Every Move
Worried your teen might fall into the wrong hands online? You’re not being overprotective—you’re being smart. In this powerful episode of Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam, I’m joined by Nate Lewis, founder of The Innocent, a nonprofit on a mission to protect kids from trafficking, exploitation, and abuse right here in the U.S.
A former law enforcement officer with 20+ years of global experience in anti-trafficking operations, Nate shares expert-backed, real-world strategies for protecting your teen—without shutting them down or locking everything down. If you’ve ever felt helpless watching your teen scroll through social media or worried about who’s DMing them behind the scenes, this episode gives you clarity and next steps.
We dig into the grooming process, why emotionally vulnerable teens are at greater risk, and what subtle online red flags parents often miss. But most importantly, we talk about how to build the kind of connection that keeps your teen safe. Because the best safety tool isn’t an app—it’s trust.
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE
The #1 predictor of whether a predator can gain access to your teen
Why controlling devices can backfire—and what to do instead
How to talk to your teen about safety without triggering defensiveness
The role of male mentors and modeling in reducing vulnerability
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Don’t keep it to yourself! Share your favorite episode and leave a rating and review to help other parents find the support they need. Your feedback helps me create even more episodes filled with practical tips for you and your family! Thanks so much for your support! 🙏💫
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CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST: Nate Lewis
Website: theinnocent.org
Instagram: @theinnocent.usa
LinkedIn: Nate Lewis
TikTok: @theinnocent.usa
CONNECT WITH YOUR HOST: Dr. Cam Caswell
Website: askdrcam.com
Instagram: @DrCamCaswell
TikTok: @the.teen.translator
YouTube: Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam
Facebook: @DrCamCaswell
EPISODE CHAPTERS
00:00 Understanding the Risks of Online Predators
02:55 Nate Lewis’s Journey and Motivation
05:48 The Psychology of Grooming and Exploitation
08:45 Building Trust and Communication with Teens
11:31 Navigating Social Media Safely
14:35 Identifying Vulnerabilities in Teens
17:18 Empowering Teens Against Manipulation
20:09 The Role of Parents in Prevention
23:04 Modeling Healthy Relationships
25:55 Addressing the Issue of Consent
28:54 Supporting Teens After Trauma
31:56 Creating a Community Response
34:44 The Importance of Education and Awareness
ABOUT THE SHOW
The Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam Podcast is your go-to resource for navigating the challenges of raising teenagers. Hosted by Dr. Cam Caswell, an adolescent psychologist and certified parenting coach, this podcast offers practical parenting strategies, expert advice, and real-world insights to help you build a stronger relationship with your teen and support their emotional growth.
Whether you’re struggling with teenage behavior or looking to improve communication, each episode provides actionable tips to make parenting teens easier and more rewarding. Perfect for both new and seasoned parents, this podcast helps you build the confidence to handle teen challenges and thrive together.
#theteentranslator #drcamcaswell #parentingteenswithdrcam #onlinepredators #teensafety
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Why Smart Parents Argue With Their Teens (And How to Do It Right) | Conflict Resolution Tips from a Harvard Expert
Constantly clashing with your teen? It’s not the conflict—it’s how you handle it.
But here’s the good news: conflict isn’t the problem—it’s how you handle it. Harvard Law negotiation expert Bob Bordone reveals how the same conflict resolution strategies used by world leaders can transform your parent-teen relationship.
🎧 In this episode of Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam, you’ll learn how to move from power struggles and emotional blowups to productive conversations that build trust, strengthen your bond, and teach teens lifelong skills.
Avoiding conflict might feel easier in the moment—but it actually weakens your connection over time. Bob explains how to use everyday disagreements as opportunities to teach problem-solving, perspective-taking, and emotional resilience.
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE
Why avoiding conflict with your teen may hurt more than help
The science of “affective labeling” to calm heated arguments
How to stop power struggles and spark better problem-solving
Why teens who know how to argue are more resilient and confident
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RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE
Book: Conflict Resilience by Bob Bordone
Research: Matt Lieberman (UCLA) on Affective Labeling
Judd Brewer’s “Bigger Better Offer” (BBO) on Motivation
Website: bobBordone.com
Family Activity: Try reading Conflict Resilience as a family book club to practice conflict resolution skills together!
CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST: Bob Bordone
Website: bobbordone.com
Instagram: @bobbybordone
Facebook: facebook.com/bordone
LinkedIn: Robert Bordone
X: @bobbordone
YouTube: Bob Bordone
CONNECT WITH YOUR HOST: Dr. Cam Caswell
Website: AskDrCam.com
Instagram: @DrCamCaswell
TikTok: @the.teen.translator
YouTube: Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam
Facebook: @DrCamCaswell
EPISODE CHAPTERS:
00:00 – The Power of Conflict in Parenting
05:48 – Understanding Conflict Avoidance
11:35 – Reframing Conflict as Collaboration
15:41 – Effective Communication Strategies
20:37 – Navigating Technology and Boundaries
28:03 – Building Trust in Parent-Teen Relationships
35:37 – The Journey of Conflict Resolution
ABOUT THE SHOW
The Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam Podcast is your go-to resource for navigating the challenges of raising teenagers. Hosted by Dr. Cam Caswell, an adolescent psychologist and certified parenting coach, this podcast offers practical parenting strategies, expert advice, and real-world insights to help you build a stronger relationship with your teen and support their emotional growth. Whether you’re struggling with teenage behavior or looking to improve communication, each episode provides actionable tips to make parenting teens easier and more rewarding. Perfect for both new and seasoned parents, this podcast helps you build the confidence to handle teen challenges and thrive together.
#theteentranslator #drcamcaswell #parentingteenswithdrcam #teenconflict #conflictresolution #parentingteens #teennegotiation #teentips #bobbordone #parentingstrategies #podcastforparents
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Is College the Only Road to Success? Smarter Career Paths for Teens That Don’t Involve Student Debt
Does your teen seem unmotivated, disconnected from school, or uninterested in college? You're not alone—and it doesn’t mean they’re lazy or doomed. In this powerful episode of Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam, I’m joined by Hannah Maruyama, founder of Degree Free, who’s helping parents rethink success and explore real-world alternatives to the traditional college path.
If you're tired of power struggles, student loan fear, and outdated definitions of “making it,” this conversation will give you practical tools and a fresh perspective to help your teen find their way—without unnecessary debt, pressure, or burnout. Hannah breaks down why the college industrial complex is crumbling, how to spot smarter options, and how to support your teen in creating a future that fits them.
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE
Why pushing college as the only option is backfiring on many teens
How to motivate your teen without using grades, guilt, or fear
What the job market actually values (hint: it’s not always a degree)
5 alternative paths your teen can take to succeed without student loans
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RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE
Degree Free Website
5 Pathways to Great Work (YouTube Episode)
CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST: Hannah Maruyama
🌐 Website: degreefree.com
📸 Instagram: @degreefree
🎥 YouTube: @DegreeFree
🎵 TikTok: @degreefree
CONNECT WITH YOUR HOST: Dr. Cam Caswell
🌐 Website: AskDrCam.com
📸 Instagram: @DrCamCaswell
🎵 TikTok: @the.teen.translator
📺 YouTube: Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam
📘 Facebook: @DrCamCaswell
EPISODE CHAPTERS:
00:00 Rethinking Success: The Outdated College Path
01:28 Hannah's Journey: From College to Career Freedom
04:15 The Pressure to Conform: College as the Only Option
10:10 The Financial Burden: Student Loans and Their Impact
21:19 Changing Job Market: The Shift Away from Degrees
36:36 Strategic Career Planning
42:25 Navigating Career Choices
52:13 Alternative Pathways to Success
ABOUT THE SHOW
The Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam Podcast is your go-to resource for navigating the challenges of raising teenagers. Hosted by Dr. Cam Caswell, an adolescent psychologist and certified parenting coach, this podcast offers practical parenting strategies, expert advice, and real-world insights to help you build a stronger relationship with your teen and support their emotional growth. Whether you’re struggling with teenage behavior or looking to improve communication, each episode provides actionable tips to make parenting teens easier and more rewarding.
#degreefree #parentingteenswithdrcam
Parenting Teens Got You Stressed? 🎙️ Dr. Cam—The Teen Translator—Has Answers!
Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam is the go-to podcast for parents who are ready to get real about raising teenagers. Hosted by Dr. Cam Caswell—adolescent psychologist, certified parenting coach, and mom of a teen—this podcast is all about honest conversations that dive deep into the challenges parents face and providing actionable solutions that actually work.
Dr. Cam doesn’t just talk theories—she shares real-life insights and strategies based on over a decade of experience and the struggles she faces as a mom herself. Every episode offers practical, science-backed solutions to help you understand your teen, improve communication, and build a stronger relationship. Whether you’re dealing with mood swings, defiance, anxiety, or social media issues, you’ll find easy-to-apply advice that makes a difference.
No interviews here—just authentic conversations that get to the heart of what parents are really dealing with. With a mix of expert tips and Dr. Cam’s own relatable stories, you’ll walk away with the tools you need to tackle even the toughest teen challenges with confidence.
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