Breaking the Endless Argument Cycle With Your Teen (Without More Consequences)
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Are you stuck in what feels like an emotional Groundhog Day with your teenâwhere the same arguments, defiance, and standoffs keep repeating? Youâre not alone. In this episode of Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam, I sit down with therapist and bestselling author Kati Morton to uncover why punishment-based parenting fails with teenagers and how to finally break these frustrating cycles.
Kati explains that adolescence is about independence-seeking, not rebellionâand when parents try to control teens with consequences, they often fuel the very behaviors they want to stop. Instead, she offers science-backed strategies that shift the focus from control to influence, using curiosity and connection to build lasting respect and trust.
From handling risky teen behaviors to creating space for authentic conversations, this episode gives you practical tools and a fresh perspective. If youâre tired of repeating the same exhausting battles, this conversation will help you hit reset and start building a calmer, more connected relationship with your teen.
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE
Why punishing your teen often makes behavior worse, not better
The game-changing shift from control to influence
How to stay calm and use âwise mindâ during heated conflicts
Simple ways to spark honest conversations without forcing it
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RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE
Kati Mortonâs upcoming book: Why Do I Keep Doing This? (Releases December 9)
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT): Emotion Mind vs. Wise Mind
Skinner Box research on punishment effectiveness
Parts work therapy for emotional responses
CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST: Kati Morton
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YouTube: Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam
Facebook: @DrCamCaswell
EPISODE CHAPTERS
00:00 Breaking the Emotional Groundhog Day Cycle
03:01 Understanding the Illusion of Control in Parenting
05:56 Navigating Independence and Communication with Teens
08:46 The Importance of Honesty and Vulnerability
11:44 Empathy and Understanding in Parenting Teens
14:50 Addressing Risky Behaviors in Teens
20:11 Understanding Risky Behaviors in Teens
21:27 The Ineffectiveness of Punishment
23:49 Curiosity Over Judgment
25:16 The Importance of Understanding Teen Behavior
27:09 Building Trust and Influence
29:21 The Role of Communication in Parenting
31:38 Repairing Relationships After Mistakes
38:40 The Power of Curiosity in Parenting
ABOUT THE SHOW
The Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam Podcast is your go-to resource for navigating the challenges of raising teenagers. Hosted by Dr. Cam Caswell, an adolescent psychologist and certified parenting coach, this podcast offers practical parenting strategies, expert advice, and real-world insights to help you build a stronger relationship with your teen and support their emotional growth. Whether youâre struggling with teenage behavior or looking to improve communication, each episode provides actionable tips to make parenting teens easier and more rewarding. Perfect for both new and seasoned parents, this podcast helps you build the confidence to handle teen challenges and thrive together.
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How to Stop Walking on Eggshells With Your Teenager: A Clinical Psychologist's Game-Changing Approach
Do you feel like youâre constantly walking on eggshells with your teenâafraid that one wrong word will set off an argument? Youâre not alone. In this episode of Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam, I sit down with Dr. Jenny Hwang, a clinical psychologist and parent coach with more than 20 years of experience helping families navigate emotional chaos and conflict.
Dr. Hwang reveals why traditional âboundariesâ backfire with teens, the surprising truth about why parents end up feeling walked over, and how to set limits in a way that actually works. Her grounded, no-nonsense approach is a game-changer for parents who are tired of power struggles and ready for peace.
If youâre ready to stop the exhausting cycle of battles and create a calmer, more respectful home, this episode is for you.
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WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE
Why most parents misunderstand what boundaries actually are
The difference between rules that control vs. boundaries that empower
How to handle disrespectful communication without losing your cool
Why your teenâs push for independence isnât rebellionâitâs healthy development
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CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST: Dr. Jenny Hwang
Instagram: @ProjectParentCoach
YouTube: @ProjectParentCoach
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CONNECT WITH YOUR HOST: Dr. Cam Caswell
Website: AskDrCam.com
Instagram: @DrCamCaswell
TikTok: @the.teen.translator
YouTube: Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam
Facebook: @DrCamCaswell
EPISODE CHAPTERS
00:00 â Understanding Boundaries with Teens
04:27 â Defining Boundaries: What Parents Need to Know
08:01 â Overstepping Boundaries: The Parent-Teen Dynamic
12:17 â Navigating Emotional Triggers and Responses
17:37 â The Importance of Mutual Respect
21:39 â Learning to Say No: Establishing Limits
25:45 â The Challenge of Control in Parenting
30:34 â The Power of Presence and Attention
35:08 â Social Media and Parenting: A New Frontier
38:43 â Key Takeaways: Empowering Parents to Set Boundaries
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ABOUT THE SHOW
The Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam Podcast is your go-to resource for navigating the challenges of raising teenagers. Hosted by Dr. Cam Caswell, an adolescent psychologist and certified parenting coach, this podcast offers practical strategies, expert advice, and real-world insights to help you build a stronger relationship with your teen and support their emotional growth.
Whether youâre struggling with teenage behavior or looking to improve communication, each episode provides actionable tips to make parenting teens easier and more rewarding. Perfect for both new and seasoned parents, this podcast helps you build the confidence to handle teen challenges and thrive together.
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Feel Like Youâre Failing as a Parent? Hereâs What Youâre Missing
If youâve ever ended the day thinking, âUgh, I was way too impatient⊠I didnât handle that well⊠I need to do better,â youâre not alone. Parenting teens has a way of making even the most loving parents feel like weâre constantly falling short.
But what if you could quiet that inner criticâeven just a littleâand start noticing whatâs actually going right?
In this heartfelt episode of Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam, counselor and author Erin Morrisonâcreator of @itsTheConsciousMom and author of Three Minutes for Momâoffers science-backed insight and deeply reassuring advice for parents who feel like theyâre failing.
We dive into why our brains focus on the negative, how to stop taking our teenâs behavior so personally, and what it really means to be âdoing enough.â Erin also shares a simple 3-minute daily mindset practice that can help you reconnect with yourselfâand your teen.
If youâre constantly hard on yourself, overwhelmed by parenting pressure, or just tired of feeling like youâre not enough⊠this episode is your reset.
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE
Why your teen's boundary-pushing is actually a good thing
The secret to feeling like a âgood parentâ again (in just 3 minutes a day)
How to shift your mindset from constant criticism to quiet confidence
What youâre getting rightâeven if it doesnât feel like it
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RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE
Three Minutes for Mom by Erin Morrison (Simon & Schuster)
âCatch Them Being Kindâ 5-Day Challenge
The âFriend Perspectiveâ & âItâs Not Personal, Itâs Developmentalâ reminders
CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST: Erin Morrison
Website: https://theconsciousmom.com
Instagram: @itsthe.consciousmom
CONNECT WITH YOUR HOST: Dr. Cam Caswell
Website: AskDrCam.com
Instagram: @DrCamCaswell
TikTok: @the.teen.translator
YouTube: Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam
Facebook: @DrCamCaswell
EPISODE CHAPTERS:
00:00 The Struggles of Parenting Teens
03:05 Reframing Our Perspective on Parenting
05:42 Recognizing Wins in Parenting
08:46 The Importance of Self-Recognition
11:24 Responding vs. Reacting to Our Teens
14:25 The Impact of Parental Self-Perception
17:28 Building Positive Relationships with Teens
20:25 Practical Steps for Self-Care
23:19 Finding Balance in Parenting
26:36 Grounding in Parental Truth
29:09 Tiny Shifts for Big Changes
32:35 Balancing Business and Pleasure in Parenting
35:40 Understanding Developmental Stages
37:59 Letting Go for Connection
46:20 Ownership and Independence in Parenting
ABOUT THE SHOW
The Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam Podcast is your go-to resource for navigating the challenges of raising teenagers. Hosted by Dr. Cam Caswell, an adolescent psychologist and certified parenting coach, this podcast offers practical parenting strategies, expert advice, and real-world insights to help you build a stronger relationship with your teen and support their emotional growth. Whether youâre struggling with teenage behavior or looking to improve communication, each episode provides actionable tips to make parenting teens easier and more rewarding. Perfect for both new and seasoned parents, this podcast helps you build the confidence to handle teen challenges and thrive together.
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The 3-Step Pause That Stops Teen Meltdownsâand Parent Burnout
Ever wish you had a pause buttonâfor your teen or yourself? When youâre caught in a meltdown, shutdown, or power struggle, itâs easy to spiral into reactivity and regret. In this episode of Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam, Jennie Phillipsâcoach, fitness pro, mom of four, and author of Yellow Light Momentsâintroduces a science-backed framework that empowers families to slow down and reset before emotions explode.
Jennie shares her 3-step âYellow Light Momentâ method (Yield-Listen-Move), giving parents the language, tools, and mindset shifts needed to manage teen stress, model emotional regulation, and create a calmer home. If your family is running on exhaustion and conflict, this episode will help you pump the brakesâwith just a few intentional minutes that can shift everything.
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WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE
A 3-step process to prevent teen blowups before they start
How to create shared emotional language with your teen (like âcaterpillarâ or âquestion quotaâ)
Why your teenâs âlazinessâ might actually be healthy self-regulation
How guilt around self-care is secretly sabotaging your parenting
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RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE
Yellow Light Moments Book
YLM Toolbox for Teens
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CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST: Jennie Phillips
Website: www.jenniephillipscoaching.com
Instagram: @jenniephillipscoaching
Facebook: Jennie Phillips Coaching
LinkedIn: Jennie Phillips
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CONNECT WITH YOUR HOST: Dr. Cam Caswell
Website: AskDrCam.com
Instagram: @DrCamCaswell
TikTok: @the.teen.translator
YouTube: Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam
Facebook: @DrCamCaswell
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EPISODE CHAPTERS:
00:00 The Need for a Pause
01:09 Introducing Yellow Light Moments
06:38 Understanding the Concept of Yellow Light Moments
12:27 The Importance of Pausing
20:24 Training Ourselves to Yield
25:44 Benefits of Taking a Pause
29:37 Modeling for Our Teens
33:56 Final Thoughts and Action Items
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ABOUT THE SHOW
The Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam Podcast is your go-to resource for navigating the challenges of raising teenagers. Hosted by Dr. Cam Caswell, an adolescent psychologist and certified parenting coach, this podcast offers practical parenting strategies, expert advice, and real-world insights to help you build a stronger relationship with your teen and support their emotional growth. Whether youâre struggling with teenage behavior or looking to improve communication, each episode provides actionable tips to make parenting teens easier and more rewarding.
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How to Protect Your Teen from Online Predators Without Controlling Their Every Move
Worried your teen might fall into the wrong hands online? Youâre not being overprotectiveâyouâre being smart. In this powerful episode of Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam, Iâm joined by Nate Lewis, founder of The Innocent, a nonprofit on a mission to protect kids from trafficking, exploitation, and abuse right here in the U.S.
A former law enforcement officer with 20+ years of global experience in anti-trafficking operations, Nate shares expert-backed, real-world strategies for protecting your teenâwithout shutting them down or locking everything down. If youâve ever felt helpless watching your teen scroll through social media or worried about whoâs DMing them behind the scenes, this episode gives you clarity and next steps.
We dig into the grooming process, why emotionally vulnerable teens are at greater risk, and what subtle online red flags parents often miss. But most importantly, we talk about how to build the kind of connection that keeps your teen safe. Because the best safety tool isnât an appâitâs trust.
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE
The #1 predictor of whether a predator can gain access to your teen
Why controlling devices can backfireâand what to do instead
How to talk to your teen about safety without triggering defensiveness
The role of male mentors and modeling in reducing vulnerability
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CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST: Nate Lewis
Website: theinnocent.org
Instagram: @theinnocent.usa
LinkedIn: Nate Lewis
TikTok: @theinnocent.usa
CONNECT WITH YOUR HOST: Dr. Cam Caswell
Website: askdrcam.com
Instagram: @DrCamCaswell
TikTok: @the.teen.translator
YouTube: Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam
Facebook: @DrCamCaswell
EPISODE CHAPTERS
00:00 Understanding the Risks of Online Predators
02:55 Nate Lewisâs Journey and Motivation
05:48 The Psychology of Grooming and Exploitation
08:45 Building Trust and Communication with Teens
11:31 Navigating Social Media Safely
14:35 Identifying Vulnerabilities in Teens
17:18 Empowering Teens Against Manipulation
20:09 The Role of Parents in Prevention
23:04 Modeling Healthy Relationships
25:55 Addressing the Issue of Consent
28:54 Supporting Teens After Trauma
31:56 Creating a Community Response
34:44 The Importance of Education and Awareness
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ABOUT THE SHOW
The Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam Podcast is your go-to resource for navigating the challenges of raising teenagers. Hosted by Dr. Cam Caswell, an adolescent psychologist and certified parenting coach, this podcast offers practical parenting strategies, expert advice, and real-world insights to help you build a stronger relationship with your teen and support their emotional growth.
Whether youâre struggling with teenage behavior or looking to improve communication, each episode provides actionable tips to make parenting teens easier and more rewarding. Perfect for both new and seasoned parents, this podcast helps you build the confidence to handle teen challenges and thrive together.
#theteentranslator #drcamcaswell #parentingteenswithdrcam #onlinepredators #teensafety
Parenting Teens Got You Stressed? đïž Dr. CamâThe Teen TranslatorâHas Answers!
Parenting Teens with Dr. Cam is the go-to podcast for parents who are ready to get real about raising teenagers. Hosted by Dr. Cam Caswellâadolescent psychologist, certified parenting coach, and mom of a teenâthis podcast is all about honest conversations that dive deep into the challenges parents face and providing actionable solutions that actually work.
Dr. Cam doesnât just talk theoriesâshe shares real-life insights and strategies based on over a decade of experience and the struggles she faces as a mom herself. Every episode offers practical, science-backed solutions to help you understand your teen, improve communication, and build a stronger relationship. Whether youâre dealing with mood swings, defiance, anxiety, or social media issues, youâll find easy-to-apply advice that makes a difference.
No interviews hereâjust authentic conversations that get to the heart of what parents are really dealing with. With a mix of expert tips and Dr. Camâs own relatable stories, youâll walk away with the tools you need to tackle even the toughest teen challenges with confidence.
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