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It's so easy to start to measure our worth by what we own and how we dress rather than whose we are. I remember the first time we ever changed churches. We went from one church with a style of clothes to a different church with a drastically different type of clothes. I felt all itchy and out of place until I learned the new metrics and felt like I could fit in. I would like to say that is something that passed with childhood and adolescence, but as we record my family just moved to a new part of the city. I can't help but notice how many people in my new neighborhood wear elevated athleisure... of which I own none. When I work out, I look like a sweaty troll that escaped from a twisted fairy tale. While writing Gently Tended, I was struck by the fact that Christian simplicity isn't about owning less, or the freedom to own it all, but rather remembering the character of the one who clothes us. I've loved watching for years as Caroline takes a theme and traces it cover to cover through the Bible. She's done it with Home and Water. Now she's doing it with clothes!
Have you ever had a wardrobe malfunction, or the need to find an awesome outfit that stands out to you?
Why do you think clothes make us spiral into overthinking?
Did you have a moment, or maybe several like that, that caused you to think about clothes in the context of a Biblical theme?
Can you talk us through briefly where we see clothes and being clothed in the Bible?
If we genuinely believe that we are clothed in Christ's righteousness, how does that change the way we see what we own, and how that causes us to be viewed by others?
Do you have a time when you walked into a situation that should have set you on your heels, but knowing that truth gave you confidence to respond well?
You can find links to Caroline Saunders's book, "But What Do I Wear" and her website.
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Stewarding the relationships with our kids and their faith is one of the most important tasks handed to parents. I remember the shock and overwhelm when, at 23, my newborn baby was strapped in the car seat and sent off with us home from the hospital. We didn't even have to sign for him like you would an important package. There was no 10-hour class like hunter safety, or hands-on test like the driver's test. You're just given a baby and wished "good luck." Because of that, parents are often at a loss for what to do. We turn to whatever expert our friends found helpful to know what to do with this unpredictable little person. I've found myself sliding into permissiveness or cracking down with an authoritarian framework when that wasn't working, but someone I've found to be a very helpful, centered voice is Dr. Fay. His book "Raising Emotionally Strong Kids" was so helpful to me a couple of years ago, and I'm eager to chat with him today about how we steward our kids well.
In case someone isn't familiar with your work already, can you do a synopsis of your Love and Logic framework?
What I admire about your encouragement is that we aren't asked to force our kids to follow a set of rules, or just let them do whatever. What boundaries do we set up to help us avoid common pitfalls as parents?
I know the parents listening to this are so intentional, but also likely overwhelmed. In your years of practice, what are some lies you've noticed parents tend to believe about parenting, and by extension, stewarding their kid's behavior and faith? I think often we tie those things tightly together.
I've started realizing parenting is as much about my own spiritual formation as it is about me forming my kid. You build reflection into your work. Why is that so important as a step not to skip?
You say we can't respect someone we don't trust. How do we build that trust from a young age? What does it look like to have
I loved your book Raising Emotionally Strong Kids and am eager to read Raising Spiritually Strong Kids. I'll link both of those in the show notes. Where can people find you?
You can find links to Dr Charles Fay's books, "Raising Mentally Strong Kids" and "Raising Spiritually Strong Kids" and his website.
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During my studies this year for Gently Tended, I've realized the quality of Christian humility is elusive. We can't really "make ourselves humble." If we try to beat ourselves down, it doesn't make us more like Christ. The only way to understand humility is to see ourselves rightly in God's story. As we grow to know and love him better, we become humble because we realize how much we rely on him. My guest Jen Wilkin is the writer of theologically rich Bible studies. Last summer we chatted about a book project she was about to start working on it's just been published under the name "Dust to Dust." In it, she was studying biblical literature and the way it reveals the path to a life well lived. As I've thought about humility this year, I've kept thinking what a humbling project that would be. She's literally spent a year looking carefully at human mortality in light of God's plan and eternity.
Usually, I wind up slowly, but since we did a whole episode setting up this one, I want to dive right in. Before we get going, though, can you give a brief review of the arc of Biblical literature and how it's reflected in human life?
Why do you think it's important for Christians to understand and consider their mortality?
What has it done in your own soul this year, spending so much time thinking about being made from dust and returning to dust?
What does this human arc reveal to you about who God is?
What disorder does our anti-aging culture reveal?
Why do we need to think about this before we become old?
How does remembering our mortality help us to live and age better? How is that connected to humility?

You can find the link to Jen Wilkin's book "Dust to Dust" and her website.

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Meditation is the script that we play over and over inside our heads. Biblical meditation often starts with an acknowledgement of what is, grieves what should be, then moves to rejoicing that what is now isn't what will always be. Laura Wifler's poetry always leaves me with one or all three of those feelings. She has an incredible mental eye for seeing what most of us overlook, both the beauty and the brokenness. Then what her years of practice in Risen Motherhood gave her was the ability to see all those things through the lens of the gospel. I'm excited to chat with Laura today about internal dialogue, poetry, and how it ties into Biblical meditation. 
What have you done to train yourself to see the little things? A lot of your writing deals with joy and grief, or grief moving into promise. I'm always curious how people decide how long to sit in the lament, and when to move into rest in the promise during the messy middle. You've written about other tender things like motherhood and body image. In that it's required you to take an honest look at what you believe.
Have you been able to do that internally, or have you had to trust someone wise to point those out to you?
How have you replaced those lies you were believing about body image, or ultimate black-and-white thinking? \Does poetry help you as you process?
What does it do for your own soul? 
What experiences do you have the most trouble putting into words? 
What do you wish with your work that more people would address in their own thought lives?
What do you hope to press them to change? 
What's something you love so much you could do an ad for it? 
I'm going to link your new book of poetry, "This Side of the Sky," in my show notes. Where can people find you? 

You can find the link to Laura Wifler's book "⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You're Only Human⁠" on her Instagram.

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