Oprah Explores the Rising Trend of Going No Contact with Your Family
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In a groundbreaking conversation about one of the fastest-growing cultural shifts of our time: Oprah talks with leading experts and a live audience about the decision to go “no contact” with a family member. It’s estimated one third of Americans have cut off ties or is estranged from their family. Once considered taboo, family estrangement is now being openly discussed by people of all ages who are redefining what healthy boundaries look like in family relationships. In this revealing episode, Oprah and best-selling psychologists unpack this rising trend of people distancing themselves from parents, siblings, or relatives they consider toxic. Adult children and parents who have chosen to go "no contact” share their stories and their reasons behind this difficult decision. Oprah and the audience explore the emotional, cultural and psychological issues behind the movement - ranging from trauma and generational patterns to mental-health awareness and the expanded definition of abuse.
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DR. JOSHUA COLEMAN - RULES OF ESTRANGEMENT
https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/622584/rules-of-estrangement-by-joshua-coleman-phd/
DR. LINDSAY GIBSON - ADULT CHILDREN OF EMOTIONALLY IMMATURE PARENTS
How to Raise an Emotionally Mature Child by Lindsay C. Gibson, PsyD:
https://www.newharbinger.com/9781626251700/adult-children-of-emotionally-immature-parents/
NEDRA GLOVER TAWWAB - DRAMA FREE & THE BALANCING ACT
https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/706826/drama-free-by-nedra-glover-tawwab/
https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/760457/the-balancing-act-by-nedra-glover-tawwab/
Chapters:
00:01:00 - One-third of Americans are going no contact—what it means
00:02:00 - Younger generations choosing no contact for mental health
00:02:50 - Guest: Dr. Joshua Coleman, Rules of Estrangement
00:03:40 - How the concept of family has shifted
00:06:27 - Guest: Dr. Lindsay Gibson, Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents
00:09:30 - How to tell if a parent is emotionally immature
00:10:25 - Guest: Nedra Tawwab, Drama Free
00:12:20 - Dr. Coleman on his daughter cutting contact
00:14:22 - Chris shares going no contact
00:18:48 - Why Chris made the decision
00:19:30 - Talking to kids about going no contact
00:23:04 - What kids learn from cutting off difficult relatives
00:24:39 - Bristyl shares her no-contact story
00:26:20 - Will the longing for a mother–daughter bond fade?
00:29:00 - Expanded definitions of harm, neglect, trauma, abuse
00:30:00 - Bree shares her no-contact choice
00:33:37 - Is forgiveness possible?
00:37:26 - Christy shares her daughter’s estrangement
00:39:40 - Do some estranged kids lack conflict resolution skills?
00:43:20 - Kendall on going no contact with her adult son
00:44:50 - Why parents are criticized for going no contact
00:47:20 - Aaron shares his daughter cut ties with him
00:53:25 - Have we gone too far?
00:54:48 - The one thing that can save your family relationship
00:58:10 - There are separate realities in every family
01:00:17 - Hadley shares her experience as a hospice nurse
01:05:00 - Why Hadley went no contact
01:09:00 - Parent child dynamic has shifted from role to relationship
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How Loved Ones Communicate After Death - Oprah Speaks With Medium Laura Lynne Jackson
In a compelling conversation, Oprah talks with renowned psychic medium Laura Lynne Jackson about her new book Guided: The Secret Path to an Illuminated Life. Laura Lynne Jackson says she has the ability to communicate with people who have passed on to the afterlife. She believes we all have the same ability if we “stay open” to receiving messages or signs from the other side. It’s what Laura calls living an “illuminated life.” Laura says her psychic medium gift showed up for her at a very young age and she has been giving readings over the course of her life. She describes how everyone of us living on Earth “in the physical world” has a “Team of Light” or loved ones, spirit guides and even pets who have died and who are watching out for us and sending signs. Oprah and Laura Lynne Jackson are joined by several listeners who have questions and doubts about communicating with deceased loved ones. Brittany from Arizona shares how she asked for a specific sign and received it from her 7-year-old son, Bodhi, who tragically died in 2024. Do you believe in signs and messages from the afterlife? Laura Lynne Jackson is also the author of two New York Times Bestsellers, Signs: The Secret Language of The Universe and The Light Between Us: Stories from Heaven. Lessons for the Living.
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"Guided: The Secret Path to an Illuminated Life" by Laura Lynne Jackson
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Chapters
00:00:00 - Welcome Laura Lynne Jackson, author of “Guided”
00:03:07 – Discovering her psychic abilities
00:04:40 – Realizing she’s also a medium
00:06:50 – The spiritual lives of children
00:09:30 – How her brain activity differs from others
00:11:00 – Understanding our “team of light”
00:12:50 – Hearing guidance from our spirit guides
00:15:00 – Asking for signs from the other side
00:16:30 – A mother’s story of signs from her late son
00:30:40 – What happens when we pass
00:37:00 – Talking to kids about signs
00:39:58 – Learning to trust the signs
00:45:00 – Honoring loved ones who’ve passed
00:48:15 - Signs from pets
00:50:40 – What Laura Lynne wants us to know about the other side
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Ann Packer: "Some Bright Nowhere" | Oprah's Book Club
In this episode of Oprah’s Book Club: Presented by Starbucks, Oprah and Ann Packer discuss Some Bright Nowhere, Ann’s poignant new novel and Oprah’s 120th Book Club selection. This book explores what happens when a wife's dying request shatters everything her husband believed about their 35 years together. Ann’s evocative and beautifully written novel inspired a thought-provoking conversation among readers at a Starbucks coffeehouse in New York City. As our audience discussed the inherent challenges and life-changing insights that come with the privilege and responsibility of caregiving, they were warmed by a Starbucks holiday classic: the Peppermint Mocha.
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00:00:00 - Welcome Ann Packer, author of ‘Some Bright Nowhere’
00:02:40 - Thando shares her feelings about the main characters
00:04:50 - How Ann created the story
00:06:50 - Ann knew the ending before she started
00:07:38 - Recurring theme in Ann’s books
00:10:35 - Ann takes on hard questions
00:14:50 - How Ann wrote from the male perspective
00:17:07 - Support for male caregivers
00:25:30 - Male and female caregiving differences
00:30:38 - The difficulty of speaking your truth
00:31:54 - The power of a dying wish
00:33:48 - What cancer takes away from people
00:39:29 - What can be learned from loss
00:40:32 - Ann wants to normalize talking about death
00:42:50 - How it feels to hit send on your finished book
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Oprah & Will Guidara, The Remarkable Power of Giving People More Than They Expect
Oprah talks with world-renowned restaurateur Will Guidara about his New York Times bestselling book, Unreasonable Hospitality that has sold over 1 million copies. Will’s abiding belief is that focusing on providing excellent service to others can transform not only your business, but your entire life. Recorded with a live audience in New York City, this episode also features Will’s longtime friend and mentor, Chef Daniel Boulud of New York’s legendary restaurant Daniel. Presented by Walmart, this podcast is an invitation to use your unique gifts and talent to elevate the lives of those around you. You can find Will’s book, Unreasonable Hospitality, at Walmart.com. Will’s upcoming book Unreasonable Hospitality: The Field Guide is also available for preorder.
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Unreasonable Hospitality: The Remarkable Power of Giving People More Than They Expect, published by Optimism Press and written by Will Guidara, is available wherever books are sold. Unreasonable Hospitality: The Field Guide is available for preorder.
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00:00:00 - Welcome Will Guidara, author of ‘Unreasonable Hospitality’
00:03:35 - Handling last place at the World’s 50 Best Restaurants
00:07:45 - Setting the goal to become No. 1
00:08:45 - Will’s first fine dining experience
00:13:46 - The impact we have on others
00:16:30 - Living with intention
00:18:09 - The nobility of service
00:20:50 - Meeting Chef Daniel Boulud
00:23:00 - Taking his father to Daniel’s after his mother’s passing
00:25:19 - Chef Daniel Boulud
00:27:45 - What Chef Boulud learned from Will
00:31:30 - Examples of unreasonable hospitality
00:35:20 - Caring for difficult people
00:36:45 - The charitable assumption
00:41:20 - Mindsets and practices
00:43:40 - Oprah and Will have this in common
00:45:00 - The best gift Will ever received
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Gray Divorce (after 50) & Adult Children: The Fallout for the Family, with Oprah and Leading Experts
Oprah is joined by a live audience in New York City for a candid conversation about the soaring rates of divorce for people over the age of 50, what experts are calling "gray divorce.” Even though the overall divorce rate is on the decline, the divorce rate for people over 50 has doubled and more than tripled for those over 65. Oprah is joined by Susan Guthrie, a family law attorney and host of the popular podcast, Divorce and Beyond®. Joining the conversation are Lori Gottlieb, psychotherapist, and author of the New York Times bestselling book, Maybe You Should Talk to Someone and Dr. Susan L. Brown, co-author of the studies identifying this national phenomenon, and a Distinguished Professor at Bowling Green State University. We also hear from several women who are in the early stages of gray divorce, have gone through gray divorce and adult children of parents who divorced after age 50.
00:00:00 - Rising divorce rates after 50 (“gray divorce”)
00:02:00 - Expert insights with Dr. Susan Brown
00:03:18 - Why gray divorce is on the rise
00:04:09 - Guest: Family law attorney Susan Guthrie
00:06:20 - Guest: Lori Gottlieb, author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone
00:11:00 - Why divorce feels shameful
00:14:30 - Men’s surprise at women’s “invisible work”
00:16:22 - Is divorce always terrible?
00:19:02 - Divorce as grief and loss
00:26:45 - First steps after divorce
00:30:58 - Impact on older children
00:36:58 - Why few expect to remarry
00:41:50 - When parent-child roles reverse
00:47:32 - Knowing when to move on
Additional Resources:
Susan Guthrie, The Divorce & Beyond Podcast
https://divorceandbeyondpod.com/
Dr. Susan L. Brown, National Center for Family and Marriage Research at BGSU
BGSU.edu/ncfmr
"Maybe You Should to Someone: A Therapist, Her Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed” by Lori Gottlieb, is published by Harper Collins and available wherever books are sold.
https://www.harpercollins.com/products/maybe-you-should-talk-to-someone-lori-gottlieb?variant=40828383363106
Addison Aloian’s Women's Health piece, 'My Parents Got Divorced When I Was An Adult. Why Do I Feel So Weird Now That They've Moved On?
https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/a63799212/adult-child-of-divorce/
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