Dads And Daddies

Judson learns how to sleep in with coaching from his husband. Brian starts to feel a more distinct separation between himself and his straight friends. The two discover a kinship with the late Joel Schumacher, director of films including The Lost Boys, Batman Forever and Batman and Robin. The Hookup of the Week is so hot it almost blows the roof off of Brian’s basement and finds the listener living out many of Brian’s and Judson’s fantasies rolled into one. Before the break, Brian reveals the next Dads and Daddies Book Club selection, Kink for Dummies by Jaime M. Grant and future podcast guest, Jack Harrison-Quintana. The two are overjoyed to then welcome back to the studio, Dads and Daddies’ very own Dr. Daddy, Dr. Demetre Daskalakis, Chief Medical Officer at Callen-Lorde Community Health Center in New York City, a leader in LGBTQ+ healthcare both locally and nationally. Dr Demetre brings Brian and Judson up to speed on the developments in his life and career in the eight months since his prior appearance on the podcast, including a move from Atlanta to NYC, and taking on Callen-Lorde's medical leadership. He teaches Brian and Judson about syndemics (synergistic epidemics), what they mean for the queer community, and the initiative he introduced at Callen-Lorde to help LGBTQ+ people live their full lives in the safest ways possible. He also explains PrEP on demand, injectable PrEP, and the relationship between Undetectable and Untransmittable. He talks about Big Pharma and the queer community, and the less obvious reasons we need to make universal healthcare a reality in the United States. He also talks about his philosophy that self-care as LGBTQ+ people is the highest form of rebellion, and describes what self-care looks like for him, personally. To close, Dr. Demetre fulfills his promise and answers not one, but four medical Go Ask Your Dad questions that have been submitted since his first time on the show.

Find Dr. Demetre Daskalakis on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/drdemetre

Find Callen-Lorde on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/callenlorde/ and online at https://callen-lorde.org/ 

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Get the next Dads and Daddies Book Club selection, Kink for Dummies by Jaime M. Grant and future podcast guest, Jack Harrison-Quintana, at https://bookshop.org/p/books/kink-for-dummies-jack-harrison-quintana/fb56c7928951eda3  

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Your hosts, Dad Brian Rubin-Sowers - https://www.instagram.com/ditmasparkpapa 

and Daddy Judson Morrow - https://www.instagram.com/gunclejudson

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Judson attends his third annual trip to Austin Naked Yoga where he facilitates a “Dial Into Daddy” workshop.The Hookup of the Week comes from a listener who shares a hot session with his boyfriend who wants to try out techniques from classes he’s taken at MMX, the private wellness club for men. The two are then joined by Judson’s dear friend, star of Netflix’s “Owning Manhattan,” and the founder of Queerity — the world’s first sober LGBTQ+ social and lifestyle app — Jordan Hurt. Jordan takes them through his journey from his childhood as a self-described “punk rock kid from the gutter,” to his move to New York with little money and no prospects, to his time as a sex worker, to his incredible success as a real estate broker under the guidance of famed realtor Ryan Serhant. He goes into great detail about his sobriety journey, including his rock-bottom moment that played out in front of the cameras for the hit reality show he was a cast member on. He then tells them all about Queerity–how he came to develop it, and the ways in which sober people can use it to find friends, romance, sex, events and safe destinations. He also shares his renewed views on dating, romance and what the future may hold for his personal life. The episode ends with Jordan helping Brian and Judson respond to a Go Ask Your Dad question from a listener who wants help navigating a friendship with someone he is concerned is heading down a dangerous path with alcohol.

Find Jordan Hurt on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/jordvnhurt/ 

Find the Queerity App on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/queerityapp/ and on the web at https://queerityapp.com/ 

Find MMX online at https://mmxnyc.com/ 

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Your hosts, Dad Brian Rubin-Sowers - https://www.instagram.com/ditmasparkpapa 

and Daddy Judson Morrow - https://www.instagram.com/gunclejudson

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Judson learns he’s a fashion inspiration for one of Brian’s daughters. Brian is witness to a past hookup of his flirting heavily with his husband, Toby. Judson seeks out and finds some much needed inspiration at work. A different sort of Hookup of the Week shared by a listener who took inspiration from the podcast to let go of past shame stirs deep emotions and moments of reflection for both Brian and Judson. The two are then joined by the founder and CEO of the Daddyhunt app, Carl Sandler. Carl shares how Daddyhunt first came to be over twenty years ago and how it has evolved with the PrEP generation as the gay community has become more open to Daddies and to open relationships. He tells the story behind the Daddyhunt serial that became a viral sensation ten years ago, and talks about its upcoming re-release this year in 4K for a post-Heated Rivalry world. Carl helps Brian and Judson think about how gay men can and should behave better towards one another, explains what he as a Daddy gets from the younger men he surrounds himself with, discusses how Daddiness at its core is about giving back and what that looks like, delves deep into the importance and benefits of gay friendships, and he issues a life-and-death warning to all sons. To close, Carl helps Brian and Judson respond to a Go Ask Your Dad question from a listener who wants to know what it takes to be a good son or sub.

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Find Carl Sandler on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/carlsandler

Find the Daddyhunt App on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/daddyhuntapp/ and on the web at https://daddyhunt.com/ 

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Your hosts, Dad Brian Rubin-Sowers - https://www.instagram.com/ditmasparkpapa 

and Daddy Judson Morrow - https://www.instagram.com/gunclejudson

Edited by Toby Rubin-Sowers

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Judson celebrates the Knicks’ victory from afar, while Brian is largely oblivious to it during a hookup that takes place outside his usual area of operations and timeframe. Judson recounts his sexy week and educates Brian on what it means to participate in Daddy-Daddy play. The Hookup of the Week comes from a listener who finds a great hookup on The Blowers while traveling, proving that it is better to give than to receive. The two are then joined by podcaster and documentarian Jess Rothschild, creator and executive producer of the GLAAD Award-nominated docu-series Finding Fire Island, now in its second season—with many episodes featuring Judson! Jess tells Brian and Judson how she came to fall in love with Fire Island, why she felt it was important to document its deep history, and asks each host to share their Fire Island origin stories. She also shares her views on 12-step programs, explains how she is attracted to women but prefers the company of gay men, and discusses the differences in how lesbians and gay men approach sex and openness. Finally, Jess helps Brian and Judson respond to a "Go Ask Your Dad" question from a listener who has found a spark with someone online but is unsure whether or not he should remind this person that they interacted years earlier—and that it ended on a sour note.

Find Jess Rothschild on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/jessxnyc/ 

Find Jess’ documentary series Finding Fire Island featuring Dads and Daddies’ own Judson Morrow at https://findingfireisland.com/ 

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Your hosts, Dad Brian Rubin-Sowers - https://www.instagram.com/ditmasparkpapa 

and Daddy Judson Morrow - https://www.instagram.com/gunclejudson

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Judson has the loveliest time at Folsom Street East. Brian spends two days at an all-men’s, clothing optional resort in Palm Springs with his husband. The Hookup of the Week also recounts a delightful experience at Folsom Street East and features a surprising twist. Brian and Judson are then joined by Emmy Award–winning writer, actor and comedian Bryan Safi! Bryan tells Brian and Judson all about his off-Broadway solo show, Are You Mad at Me?, his eight years so far on Ryan Murphy’s “9-1-1” alongside Angela Bassett, Peter Krause and Jennifer Love Hewitt, and his pioneering, near 15-year career as a podcaster. He details his obsession with grocery stores, compares notes with Brian and Judson on finding love while looking for sex online, shares the details about why his marriage ended in divorce, reveals his need for reassurance from someone in a position of authority, and talks about healing the long-contentious relationship with his conservative parents. The three also talk about some of their favorite celebs from the 80s and 90s like Joan Rivers, Mr. T, Britney Spears and both Jason Alexanders. Bryan then helps Brian and Judson respond to a Go Ask Your Dad question from a listener who is finding himself so horny that he can’t figure out how to satisfy his needs.

Find Bryan Safi on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/bryansafi 

Get tickets for Bryan’s off-Broadway show, Are You Mad at Me? at https://www.areyoumadatmeshow.com/ or https://here.org/shows/ 

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Your hosts, Dad Brian Rubin-Sowers - https://www.instagram.com/ditmasparkpapa 

and Daddy Judson Morrow - https://www.instagram.com/gunclejudson

Edited by Toby Rubin-Sowers

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