2762: Why Do We Like Some People but Dislike Others? By Dr. Timothy Loving with Luvze on Understanding Social Bonds and Preferences
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Episode 2762:
Dr. Timothy Loving explores the early roots of social preference, revealing that even infants favor individuals who treat similar others kindly, and show surprising support for those who harm dissimilar others. This research challenges us to consider how our social alliances form and offers a lens into understanding our evolving identity through the people we instinctively support or oppose.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.luvze.com/i-dislike-the-dog-that-likes-the-rabbit-that-i-dislike-why-d/
Quotes to ponder:
“Infants prefer individuals who share their own preferences for food, clothing, or toys over those who have expressed contrasting preferences.”
“The preference for similarity is so common that it is considered a general characteristic of the human condition.”
“Similar people make us feel better about ourselves, and who doesn’t like somebody that makes us feel better about ourselves?”
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2761: Bending Without Breaking: How to Identify Needs and Preferences When Dating by Kara Shade of Gottman
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Episode 2761:
Kara Shade challenges us to distinguish between needs and preferences in dating, revealing how clarity on this distinction can prevent heartbreak and guide us toward stronger, more intentional relationships. Backed by Gottman research and insights from relationship scientists, her piece encourages reflection, flexibility, and honesty, principles that remain just as relevant in long-term partnerships as they are in early dating.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.gottman.com/blog/bending-without-breaking-identify-needs-preferences-dating/
Quotes to ponder:
"When people show you who they are, believe them."
"Being clear and honest about your needs and asking the tough questions are critical functions of that process."
"It’s less about what you’re doing and more about how you’re doing it together."
Episode references:
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: https://www.amazon.com/Seven-Principles-Making-Marriage-Work/dp/0609805797
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2760: How to Plan Ahead Now For Pet Emergencies by Jackie Beck on Preparing Financially and Emotionally for Pet Care
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Episode 2760:
Jackie Beck highlights the financial reality of pet ownership, reminding us that emergencies are inevitable and costly. She explains why planning ahead with pet insurance, a dedicated savings fund, or delaying ownership until debt is paid off can prevent heartbreaking choices and unnecessary stress. Her advice balances love for animals with financial responsibility, offering practical steps for anyone who wants to care for pets without jeopardizing their budget.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.jackiebeck.com/pets-and-debt-dont-mix/
Quotes to ponder:
“If you have pets, you WILL have pet emergencies.”
“Hope is not a plan. An emergency fund and a realistic look at the possible expenses plus finding a way to cover them with cash is.”
“Pets and debt don’t mix.”
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2759: Why Relationships Scare Us by Dr. Lisa Firestone of Pysch Alive on Understanding the Roots of Relationship Anxiety
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Episode 2759:
Dr. Lisa Firestone explores why love can feel both deeply desired and intensely frightening, showing how early attachment patterns shape the way we give and receive closeness. By understanding whether we lean more toward avoidance or anxiousness in relationships, we can uncover healthier ways to connect, balance independence with vulnerability, and create more secure bonds.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.psychalive.org/why-relationships-scare-us/
Quotes to ponder:
“Most people have a fear of intimacy and at the same time are terrified of being alone.”
“Love is universal in that it’s something most of us strive for; it’s part of what gives our lives meaning.”
“A lot of people want someone up until the moment that someone wants them back, or they only start wanting a person when that person stops wanting them.”
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2758: 5 Secrets of a Stress-Free Parent by Jen of This Time of Mine on Practical Tips for Everyday Parenting Peace
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Episode 2758:
Jen shares five practical habits that help parents reduce stress and rediscover joy in raising kids. From carving out daily self-care to building meaningful family connections, creating morning routines, practicing gratitude, and unplugging from social media, she shows how small changes can create big emotional resilience and peace at home.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://thistimeofmine.com/stop-being-a-stressed-parent/
Quotes to ponder:
“You can’t manage stress if your cup isn’t full. Period.”
“The first hour or two sets the tone for the whole day. So make it count!”
“When you’re able to develop an attitude of gratitude you will be able to strengthen your emotional resilience and increase your capacity to handle stress.”
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Sobre Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting
Optimal Relationships Daily, steered by the insightful Greg Audino, a seasoned life coach, is a podcast dedicated to enhancing your personal connections. Greg explores the intricate dynamics of relationships, from dating to marriage and parenting. He handpicks and narrates insightful content from a variety of respected bloggers and experts, offering listeners a rich tapestry of perspectives on relationship building, communication, conflict resolution, and self-love.
Greg's approach is both compassionate and pragmatic, blending his life coaching expertise with relatable experiences and actionable advice. His warm, engaging narration makes even the most complex relationship topics accessible and understandable. By focusing on dating, marriage, and parenting, each episode provides you with the tools needed to improve your personal connections. Whether you're looking to deepen your existing relationships, navigate challenges, or understand the subtleties of human connections, Greg's guidance offers a daily dose of wisdom and inspiration to help you foster healthier, more fulfilling relationships in all areas of your life.
This podcast is designed for those passionate about dating, marriage, and parenting. It’s your go-to source for practical advice on managing your dating life, strengthening your marriage, and effective parenting. Each episode offers actionable steps to foster healthier relationships, emphasizing the importance of dating, marriage, and parenting in achieving a balanced life.
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