

2867: You Have Two Choices: Choose Better Men or Treat Men Better by Evan Marc Katz on Dating Awareness
13/1/2026 | 7min
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2867: Evan Marc Katz explores the emotional aftermath of dating disappointments through the story of Paul, a good man hardened by repeated heartbreak. Katz challenges women to reflect on their own dating patterns, suggesting that true relationship success lies in both choosing better partners and embodying the generosity they wish to receive. The takeaway is clear: give wisely, love openly, and walk away from those who can't reciprocate. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/understanding-men/you-have-two-choices-choose-better-men-or-treat-men-better Quotes to ponder: "You can literally change the way he acts towards you just by being happier, more playful, more generous and less judgmental towards him." "It's not HIS fault he's taking advantage of you. It's YOUR fault for choosing him and staying with him, the same as it's Paul's fault for perpetually choosing selfish women over givers." "Have you been the 'giver' in relationships and concluded that you're never going to be that way again?"

2866: [Part 2] How to Get off the Emotional Roller Coaster and Date from a Centered Place by Melissa Josue of Melissa the Love Coach
12/1/2026 | 8min
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2866: Melissa Josue explores how attachment to dating outcomes fuels anxiety and emotional instability, urging a shift toward inner wholeness and self-trust. By practicing detachment, cultivating possibility over expectation, and reconnecting with your true self, you reclaim your power and date from a place of grounded confidence and peace. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://melissathelovecoach.com/get-off-emotional-roller-coaster-date-centered-place/ Quotes to ponder: "When you're attached to an outcome, you feel at the mercy of your circumstances and in constant fear of loss." "Rather than being in the energy of expectation and being attached to an outcome, shift to being in the energy of possibility." "You realize that no one can ever rob you of yourself. You are safe. There is nothing to lose that cannot be replaced and nothing to gain that adds to who you are."

2865: [Part 1] How to Get off the Emotional Roller Coaster and Date from a Centered Place by Melissa Josue of Melissa the Love Coach
11/1/2026 | 6min
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2865: Melissa Josue explores the emotional highs and lows that often accompany modern dating and reveals how attachment to specific outcomes can leave us feeling anxious and out of control. By learning to let go and practice healthy detachment, not indifference, we can date from a grounded, centered place that fosters genuine connection and emotional clarity. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://melissathelovecoach.com/get-off-emotional-roller-coaster-date-centered-place/ Quotes to ponder: "One of the most challenging issues that many of my clients and blog readers struggle with in dating is feeling like they're on an emotional roller coaster." "When you're attached, you're riding between the thrill of having something and the threat of losing it." "It's about having a much deeper awareness of your human experience, but from a place of being centered and a place of profound openness, not attachment." Episode references: The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success by Deepak Chopra: https://www.amazon.com/Seven-Spiritual-Laws-Success-Pocketbook/dp/1878424114

2864: Mindful Self-Management Strategies: How to Regulate Your Emotions in an Increasingly Complex and Chaotic World by Kylee Lessard
11/1/2026 | 11min
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2864: Kylee Lessard shares transformative insights from the Inner MBA program at NYU, offering practical tools to regulate emotions and shift from stress to presence in daily life. By exploring Professor Jeremy Hunter's concept of mindful self-management, listeners gain accessible strategies, like self-dialogue, cold exposure, and nervous system awareness, to reclaim calm, energy, and clarity amid the chaos. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.ablueskymind.com/blog/mindful-self-management-strategies Quotes to ponder: "Self-management, in the modern world, is all about managing the flow of your attention and the way your nervous system responds to the flow of your attention." "Where attention goes, energy flows." "Your nervous system dictates how much you struggle by bringing either accepting or resisting energy to pain that arises." Episode references: Inner MBA by NYU: https://innermbaprogram.com

2863: Feeling Unloved: "You Don't Love Me, Nobody Loves Me" by Vironika Tugaleva on Self Worth
10/1/2026 | 8min
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2863: Vironika explores how our feelings of being unloved often stem not from others' actions, but from deep, unresolved inner wounds and self-rejection. Her powerful story traces the journey from external blame to self-awareness, ultimately revealing that true healing begins when we decide to treat ourselves with compassion. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.vironika.org/nobody-loves-me/ Quotes to ponder: "I thought other people were causing me pain. In reality, they were just accidentally clicking 'play' on already existing tapes inside my mind." "The thing about hating myself was that I didn't realize I was doing it." "My relationships with others became defined by their ability either to save me from my misery or to hurt me by perpetuating it."



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