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Episode 3120:

Sarah Von Bargen answers a reader who is in the middle of a breakup she did not choose. Writing from her own recent experience, she offers eight steps that are less about getting over someone quickly and more about turning the corner, from removing the ex for a while to being honest about what actually did not work.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.yesandyes.org/2009/08/how-to-get-over-break-up.html

Quotes to ponder:

"You can't control your ex's decisions, you can only control your responses to them."

"It means that they weren't the right person for you right now."

"Do so many fun things that you're too busy to think about whats-their-name."

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Episode 3119:

Alysha Jeney describes the internal argument that starts the moment she feels an emotion coming on, and the voice that tells her she is being ridiculous. She traces where that voice comes from and explains how years of avoiding her own feelings left her settling for relationships that never felt understood. Her way out starts with acceptance rather than logic.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/emotions-irrational-or-logical/

Quotes to ponder:

"Acceptance can actually become very empowering."

"When we mask our feelings and natural responses as adults, we run the risk of never being understood by anyone or ever experiencing true intimacy."

"Sometimes, you don't need to know the answer, but rather just give yourself permission to be messy."

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Episode 3118:

Courtney Ferguson shares what she and her extrovert husband learned about each other after losing their first pregnancy, and how differently the two of them processed the same loss. She offers five ways to love an introvert through grief, from giving them room to think to gently testing when they are ready for people again.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://introvertdear.com/news/how-to-love-an-introvert-who-is-grieving/

Quotes to ponder:

"Introverts process things internally, and we need time to wrap our head around something before we talk about it."

"We move slower and with deep intention, especially when navigating grief."

"Remember to ask what they need and how you can help."

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Episode 3117:

Keith Wilson revisits his own advice that grudges should be abolished after reading a philosopher's argument that holding one can be perfectly rational. He walks through what anger is actually signaling, why it is a legitimate response to injustice, and where it starts to cost the person carrying it.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://medium.com/change-becomes-you/is-holding-a-grudge-a-rational-thing-to-do-62f1609b75c6

Quotes to ponder:

"Grudges begin in anger and retain many of the characteristics of that hot emotion."

"Feeling angry is a useful indication that you're the victim of an injustice."

"She says holding a grudge is a perfectly rational thing to do."

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Episode 3116:

Kat W. Jackson shares the six steps she and her partner used to plan their entire wedding in one week on a very modest budget. From free venues and digital invitations to skipping gifts and going unplugged, she shows how cutting the extras can make the start of a marriage feel more personal rather than less.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://nosidebar.com/minimalist-wedding/

Quotes to ponder:

"I realized a traditional wedding wasn't for me and began toying with the idea of planning a minimalist wedding."

"In spite of naysayers and doubters, our minimalist wedding was a smashing success!"

"In order to avoid distracted and disengaged guests, make your wedding an unplugged affair."

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