When Is It Okay To Intervene In Someone Else’s Fight?
Jordana wonders if her recent desire to stay home and not socialize, especially with new people, is normal and leans on Dr. Naomi to unpack how she is feeling lately. An eco-conscious Betch is shamed by her neighbor after he snuck a peak in her recycling bin and gave her some unsolicited refuse advice. During a recent comedy show one woman witnessed a verbal altercation that has her wondering if she should have intervened, and we may have some input from the comedian themselves. One listener is feeling burdened by the care of a sick parent and seeks an intention for how to handle the resentment she feels for her siblings' lack of help. After some back and forth with a wedding guest over a no kid policy and a lot of accommodations by a busy bride is triggered when the guest cancels on the day of the event. On the theme of wedding drama, another Betch is sidelined when her soon-to-be family members ask to use her home for free lodging during her wedding and despite the savings, cheapen out on the gift for the bride and groom.
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Are My Sex Dreams Considered Cheating?
Dr. Naomi prepares for an upcoming trip to NY for a family event and she and Jordana discuss the pains of growing up through the perspective of Dr. Naomi’s oldest daughter. A recent bride gets roped into a viral online moment after a post from her big day brings out the comment trolls and now she is sweating the situation. One Betch finds some surprise money inside a thrifted bag but is unsure about the morality of keeping the bonus cash and asks the hosts for a Betchicist. Seeking some mental peace, a married listener plagued by sex dreams with everyone but her husband, needs an intention for quelling the anxieties they bring her during the waking hours. Regretting her choice to include her mother on a recent doctor visit, a pregnant woman is triggered when her mother comments on her weight and diet to the doctor. After her sister in law stole all the photos from her wedding and tried to pass them off as her own work, a listener is feeling like she is the only person still upset by the elephant in the room and needs some validation.
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Link to Instagram Video Discussed In Episode:
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DP__w_AEUM2/?igsh=aWZnY3l5N2JyeHY3
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Does Never Fighting Mean I’m in a Bad Relationship?
Jordana kicks off the episode with a burning question for Dr. Naomi about the psychology behind planning big things and announcing them, something that has been on her mind as of late after announcing her pregnancy and surrogacy news. Still in the honeymoon phase of her relationship, a Betch overshares that she and her partner never fight and she is worried they might avoid the hard conversations in the future. In need of a Betchicist, one listener reveals that she has been spilling secrets about her nieces and nephews, despite an estranged relationship between mom and sister, and she is unsure if she’s betraying some unwritten sister code. Dr. Naomi helps a woman find an intention that helps her accept her own fears around parenting and her potential desire to not have a second child. A birthday Betch is triggered after her brother and sister in law treated her recent celiac diagnosis as a joke with a pizza themed birthday card, while another woman is feeling similar after attending a wedding where she was identified as “guest of…” her husband.
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Am I The Only One Who Hates The Holidays?
Dr. Naomi reflects on her Halloween experience now that two of her three children are older and Jordana asks her how she is feeling about being closer to an empty nester than she is to being a new mother. A listener’s babysitter has started to give her child lavish gifts, often pricier than her hourly wage, and she needs a way to politely decline the generous offers. In need of a Betchecist, one woman was asked by a “co-worker” to be a bridesmaid, even though they have spent literally zero time together outside the office, and needs to find a way to bail. After many bad experiences with Thanksgiving as a teen, a listener asks Dr. Naomi for an Intention that can allow her to get through the holiday without emotionally spiraling. A recent bride is floored when her wedding photos were used as family gifts by her sister and law, all while another Betch learns that a friend is spreading lies about her real diamond ring to others.
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How to Apologize The Correct Way
After announcing her pregnancy news, Jordana reacts to the outpouring of love she got from followers and Dr. Naomi asks her how the experience has been for her since revealing the personal update. A Betch that manages other employees is struggling with how to handle her direct report's constant oversharing on social media and the hosts debate why people reveal such intimate details on the internet. One listener calls in wondering how she can honor her Mother’s desire for validation about her appearance while setting an example for her young daughter. Struggling to potty train her toddler, a woman seeks an intention that can help her be more patient with her child’s personal timeline. Some morbid Halloween decorations in one listener’s neighborhood leave her feeling triggered and a bride to be is feeling burned by her wedding florist who left her high and dry shortly before her big day.
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Oversharing from Betches Media is all about the challenges we face in all kinds of relationships; from friendships to family, long term partnerships or even dealing with the customer service rep that makes you want to scream into a pillow. Betches co-founder and relationship enthusiast Jordana Abraham has teamed up with her big sister, licensed clinical therapist Dr. Naomi Bernstein, to answer your questions and try to get to the bottom of the things that bother us most. Think of Jordana and Dr. Naomi as your BFF and your therapist, sitting side-by-side at the brunch table trying to help you get through your problems. Each week they’re responding to listener emails, tackling difficult ethical questions, playing games, and so much more. Because sometimes we really need advice from people with no skin in the game. And let’s face it, your friends can’t stand to hear that story one more time.
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