Emotionally Unavailable Men - Reading "What Men Dont Want Women To Know" + Why men like when you're mean to them.
Emotionally unavailable men, through the lens of a verbal reading of “What men don’t want women to know”. For the woman who ever wondered why being mean made him text more, come closer, and why men enjoy “mean women” who “treat them badly”. The way dealing with these men can come with physical and mental pain, bargaining, and changing yourself to meet them where they are, and the regression that comes with that. Unpacking the lived experience of what it means to be a lover girl in the face of men who are on a quest of finding targets and victims to add to their roster. And more importantly, the misogyny that often is found in emotionally unavailable men. This opens up with therapy vibes, then pivots to a male POV of why men operate as they do with women (Reading the chapter “Double Standards”). Then cuts to a breakdown of the literature, and an analysis of why emotionally unavailable men interact with women who want serious relationships. The episode ends with a personal and semi-recent story of my brush with emotionally unavailable men. Want more content?Follow me on twitch where I record these live!Join my patreon for exclusive live stream replays + Support the podcast.My InstagramMy TiktokFleekazoid podcast on youtubeNew: I’m on substack now!
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Emotionally Unavailable Men - Reading "What Men Dont Want Women To Know" + Why men like when you're mean to them.
Emotionally unavailable men, through the lens of a verbal reading of “What men don’t want women to know”. For the woman who ever wondered why being mean made him text more, come closer, and why men enjoy “mean women” who “treat them badly”. The way dealing with these men can come with physical and mental pain, bargaining, and changing yourself to meet them where they are, and the regression that comes with that. Unpacking the lived experience of what it means to be a lover girl in the face of men who are on a quest of finding targets and victims to add to their roster. And more importantly, the misogyny that often is found in emotionally unavailable men. This opens up with therapy vibes, then pivots to a male POV of why men operate as they do with women (Reading the chapter “Double Standards”). Then cuts to a breakdown of the literature, and an analysis of why emotionally unavailable men interact with women who want serious relationships. The episode ends with a personal and semi-recent story of my brush with emotionally unavailable men. Want more content?Follow me on twitch where I record these live!Join my patreon for exclusive live stream replays + Support the podcast.My InstagramMy TiktokFleekazoid podcast on youtubeNew: I’m on substack now!
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The Boys Club - Reading “What men don’t want women to know”.
Can you tell when someone has a premium membership to the boys club? This episode contains a reading of the chapter “Men protecting men” written by Smith and Doe in 1998.Opening up a sociocultural conversation on what the boys club looks like in 2025 in the military, your work place, your relationship, your friendship circle and identifying it’s male and female members. For those affected by the benefits the boys club offers its members, this is a no sugar, straight up read, from one of the most controversial and hidden gem books on dating and men. This is a discussion on men (and sadly, sometimes women) who protect cheating/cheater types, misogynist, exploitative men, and those assisting in making sure some of the worst men you know have friends, jobs, promotions, access to money and endless opportunities despite how menacingly they move through society. Follow me on twitch where I record these live!Join my patreon for exclusive pre-access uploads of the podcast + Support the podcast.My InstagramMy TiktokFleekazoid podcast on youtubeNew: I’m on substack now!
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You don't love the man, you love the lie.
Loving the lie and not the man means the guy you created in your head, the version he showed himself early on to be (the classic first 2-3 weeks), or the person he tries to tell you he is, but actively shows you he isn’t. The lie hits like a drug whether we’re believing it, reliving it, or telling it to ourselves. This episode looks at the lies we tell ourselves and the lies we believe that are directed at us. How we find ourselves in self told lie loops, and when the lies go on for years. How they finally come to an end, and ways we can find the lies in advance.Want Early access to episodes and to see the BTS?Follow me on twitch where I record these live!Join my patreon for exclusive pre-access uploads of the podcast + Support the podcast.My InstagramMy TiktokFleekazoid podcast on youtubeNew: I’m on substack now!
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People pleasing pushes people away
Yes, people pleasing has the opposite effect you think it has. If you call yourself a people pleaser as a badge of honor, this is an episode on why you're not having the impact you want to have. A honest look at how people pleasers are perceived, avoiding being passive aggressive, why healthy conflict can be good, and all the ways people pleasing can be deeply unsettling.Follow me on twitch where I record these live!Join my patreon for exclusive pre-access uploads of the podcast + Support the podcast.My InstagramMy TiktokFleekazoid podcast on youtube I’m on substack now!
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