How Married Are You?

• He Saw His Old Crush on IG...Now He’s Unsure About Me?! #HMAY Ep. 270

  In this episode, we read an email from a listener who loves her boyfriend but doesn’t feel like his first choice. We talk insecurity vs. truth, attraction, healing from past relationships, and how to discern if you’re being chosen or just convenient. Plus, Chocolate Baby Storytime with a family rap session, camping trip confessions, and updates on Premarital Advantage, Father Yourself First, and the Saturday men’s group for Black men. ✨ What You’ll Hear When “I’ve got a wandering eye” is actually a confession The difference between normal attraction and shopping for better options Why journaling your story brings clarity Feeling chosen vs. feeling like a backup plan How past trauma shapes dating patterns Why inexperience can actually be a dating superpower Choosing your “hard” while still protecting your heart 📚 Resources & Links Order the book: 👉 Father Yourself First https://www.amazon.com/Father-Yourself-First-Everything-Deserves/dp/1400252555 Audiobook: 🎧 Listen to Glen read Father Yourself First wherever audiobooks are available. Tour dates & signings: 📍 Follow @beleafmel https://www.instagram.com/beleafmel Premarital Advantage: 💍 Worksheets & guidance for dating, engaged, or newlywed couples https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.mykajabi.com/offers/VAbsx8N2 Dating to Marry – “The List” (FREE): 📝 Available on the homepage https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.com Saturday Men’s Group (Black men, 7 a.m. PT) Join the Father Meet-Up on Zoom https://us02web.zoom.us/j/81971875325?pwd=cY3k96A8j1b0WMLPHF5ym0bNSNaRdj.1 Patreon Community: 🌿 Bonus convos & behind-the-scenes https://www.patreon.com/HMAY 💬 Join the ConversationHave you ever felt like someone’s option instead of their choice? What brought you clarity? Drop it in the comments. ❤️ If This Helped You Like, subscribe, and share with a friend navigating faith, dating, and emotional honesty.

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• Should I Get Back Together With My Child's Father? #HMAY Ep. 269

  We’re talking to a solo mom who wrote in real honest: should she try again with her son’s dad? We unpack trust after hurt, how healing changes what you want, and why “for the baby” is not a dating strategy. We keep it tender, tell the truth, and give some practical next steps. Plus, Chocolate Baby Storytime, cleanse life, and Lily the dog leaving sticky-note reminders like a tiny furry manager.This one is warm, real, and rooted in wisdom. Pull up a chair.✨ What You’ll Hear • Naming hurt without living in it • Signs of real change vs wishful thinking • Co-parenting well even if romance is paused • Why a no-dating season can be a reset for your soul • What a rebuild plan should include if you try again • A marriage quote that reframes starting over with the same person • Community updates, Patreon goals, and how to get plugged in📚 Resources & LinksOrder the book:👉 Father Yourself Firsthttps://www.amazon.com/Father-Yourself-First-Everything-Deserves/dp/1400252555Audiobook:🎧 Listen to Glen read Father Yourself First wherever audiobooks are available.Tour dates & signings:📍 Follow @beleafmel for ATL, NYC, LA and morehttps://www.instagram.com/beleafmelPremarital Advantage:💍 Questions and worksheets for dating, engaged, and newlywedshttps://howmarriedareyoupodcast.mykajabi.com/offers/VAbsx8N2Saturday Men’s Group (Black men, 7 a.m. PT)Join the Father Meet-Up on Zoomhttps://us02web.zoom.us/j/81971875325?pwd=cY3k96A8j1b0WMLPHF5ym0bNSNaRdj.1Patreon Community:🌿 Bonus convos and behind-the-sceneswww.patreon.com/HMAYhttps://www.patreon.com/HMAY💬 Join the ConversationWhat boundary or practice helped you heal after a breakup? Drop it in the comments. Somebody needs your wisdom.❤️ If This Helped YouLike, subscribe, and share with a friend who is navigating co-parenting, faith, and second chances.

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• Should I Get Back Together With My Child's Father? #HMAY Ep. 269

  We’re talking to a solo mom who wrote in real honest: should she try again with her son’s dad? We unpack trust after hurt, how healing changes what you want, and why “for the baby” is not a dating strategy. We keep it tender, tell the truth, and give some practical next steps. Plus, Chocolate Baby Storytime, cleanse life, and Lily the dog leaving sticky-note reminders like a tiny furry manager.This one is warm, real, and rooted in wisdom. Pull up a chair.✨ What You’ll Hear • Naming hurt without living in it • Signs of real change vs wishful thinking • Co-parenting well even if romance is paused • Why a no-dating season can be a reset for your soul • What a rebuild plan should include if you try again • A marriage quote that reframes starting over with the same person • Community updates, Patreon goals, and how to get plugged in📚 Resources & LinksOrder the book:👉 Father Yourself Firsthttps://www.amazon.com/Father-Yourself-First-Everything-Deserves/dp/1400252555Audiobook:🎧 Listen to Glen read Father Yourself First wherever audiobooks are available.Tour dates & signings:📍 Follow @beleafmel for ATL, NYC, LA and morehttps://www.instagram.com/beleafmelPremarital Advantage:💍 Questions and worksheets for dating, engaged, and newlywedshttps://howmarriedareyoupodcast.mykajabi.com/offers/VAbsx8N2Saturday Men’s Group (Black men, 7 a.m. PT)Join the Father Meet-Up on Zoomhttps://us02web.zoom.us/j/81971875325?pwd=cY3k96A8j1b0WMLPHF5ym0bNSNaRdj.1Patreon Community:🌿 Bonus convos and behind-the-sceneswww.patreon.com/HMAYhttps://www.patreon.com/HMAY💬 Join the ConversationWhat boundary or practice helped you heal after a breakup? Drop it in the comments. Somebody needs your wisdom.❤️ If This Helped YouLike, subscribe, and share with a friend who is navigating co-parenting, faith, and second chances.

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• Nothing Was Wasted #HMAY Ep. 268

  She wrote in heartbroken: six months in, different faith practices, sex after planning to wait, and an “I love you” he stopped saying. Then her dad talked to the boyfriend who admitted he didn’t plan to marry her and wanted to “see what else is out there.” We respond with care and clarity: nothing was wasted, learn the lesson, forgive, and choose wisely next time.We also talk sibling dynamics at home, privileged kids and holiday expectations, Glen’s new book release, and practical ways to discern alignment before you get too far in.✨ What You’ll Hear💭 “Nothing was wasted” reframed: hurt, anger, embarrassment, and self-compassion💬 Saying “I love you” too soon vs living it with actions🙏🏾 Dating with different faith practices and holiday habits❤️ Why alignment on core values matters before marriage🧠 Premarital questions that save time, money, and heartbreak📖 Father Yourself First book release and tour👥 Community for Black men who need a safe place to land📚 Resources & LinksOrder the book:👉 Father Yourself Firsthttps://www.amazon.com/Father-Yourself-First-Everything-Deserves/dp/1400252555Audiobook:🎧 Listen to Glen read Father Yourself First wherever audiobooks are available.Tour dates & signings:📍 Check Glen’s Instagram for ATL, NYC, LA + more — @beleafmelhttps://www.instagram.com/beleafmelPremarital Advantage:💍 Questions and worksheets for dating, engaged, and newlyweds.https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.mykajabi.com/offers/VAbsx8N2Saturday Men’s Group (Black men, 7 a.m. PT):Join the Father Meet-Up on Zoom 👇🏾https://us02web.zoom.us/j/81971875325?pwd=cY3k96A8j1b0WMLPHF5ym0bNSNaRdj.1Patreon Community:🌿 Access bonus convos and behind-the-scenes content — www.patreon.com/HMAYhttps://www.patreon.com/HMAY💬 Join the ConversationWhat is one lesson you learned from a relationship that didn’t work out? Drop it in the comments below.❤️ If This Helped YouLike the video, subscribe, and share it with someone who needs wise counsel on dating, faith, and commitment.

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• He Wants to Marry Her But She Wants Him to Pay For Everything #HMAY Ep. 267

  📘 ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY!A listener writes in about the woman he loves—smart, beautiful, and ready for marriage… except she believes a man should pay for everything while she saves her own money “for security.” She says a woman shouldn’t spend on an able-bodied man. He calls it an escape route. Now he’s wondering: is this financial boundary a red flag or just her way of protecting herself after trauma?We talk:💬 “You can’t build a marriage while keeping one foot out the door.” — Glen breaks down why financial distrust is often emotional distrust in disguise.💰 How “wife allowance” culture and social media talking points are warping partnership into transaction.❤️ The difference between protecting yourself and refusing to be a team.🧱 Why unhealed trauma around money can become the foundation of your marriage — and eventually its fault line.🙏🏾 Yvette shares how witnessing her own mother’s financial vulnerability shaped her drive for independence—and how healthy transparency healed that fear in marriage.Would you marry someone who refuses to combine money with you? 🤔 Episode 267 of How Married Are You? is live—tap in and share your thoughts!

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