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What exactly is a glimmer? Why do glimmers matter for outgrowing porn? Learn 3 ways to get the most out of your glimmers—maximizing moments of joy, peace, and connection. 
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Porn and Polyvagal Theory (with John Kilmer) 
Play, Awe, & Porn Addiction: A Polyvagal Perspective 
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Where is God when we suffer? How does grief intensify sexual temptation? Why do we need to "run toward the roar" of triggers and traumas instead of avoiding them? 
Hear Davey Blackburn tell the heartbreaking story of how his wife of 7 years was murdered in their home during a break-in, leaving him as a single father to their 15-month-old son. Davey also describes how God has begun to write a beautiful redemption story of healing, forgiveness, and purpose where "nothing is wasted."
Davey Blackburn (and his wife Kristi) founded Nothing is Wasted Ministries to help people partner with God to take back their story. Learn more at nothingiswasted.com
Start here: nothingiswasted.com/starthere
Buy Davey's book:
Nothing Is Wasted: A True Story of Hope, Forgiveness, and Finding Purpose in Pain. 
Listen to Davey's podcast: nothingiswasted.com/podcast
Are you a widower? Check out refugewidowers.com
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Take the Husband Material Journey...
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Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community
Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn
Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy
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What if the desires you've been suppressing are not bad, but simply underdeveloped? In this episode, Jay Stringer explores five core longings that drive us—and why we need to welcome them rather than try to conquer them or shut them down. You'll hear how desire is shaped by childhood experiences, pornography, and other forces—as well as how desire can be reshaped and resurrected.
Jay Stringer is a licensed mental health counselor, researcher, and speaker who helps people uncover the unexpected meaning hidden in life’s hardest challenges. He is the award-winning author of Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing and lives in New York City with his wife, Heather, and their two children. Learn more at jay-stringer.com
Buy Jay's new book:
Desire: The Longings Inside Us and the New Science of How We Love, Heal, and Grow
Guest interviews do not constitute an endorsement. We encourage discernment—grab what's good, drop the rest.
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Take the Husband Material Journey...
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Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community
Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn
Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy
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What is redemptive risk? Why is it essential for healing and outgrowing porn? In this episode, you'll learn why and how to embrace redemptive risk, the difference between dirty pain and clean pain, and three steps to consider as you discern your next redemptive risk:
Start with "why"
Count the cost
Own your strength
What redemptive risk(s) are you currently taking? Let us know in the Husband Material Community!
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Take the Husband Material Journey...
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Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community
Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn
Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy
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Men need men. In this episode, Tom Zuniga champions the value of brotherhood and "chosen family"—especially in a culture where romantic marriage seems like the only place where intimacy is possible. Tom shares his story of growing up feeling lonely and different, experiencing same-sex attraction, and discovering the beauty of following Jesus in community with other men.
Tom Zuniga is the Director of Your Other Brothers, a community where Christian men are navigating matters of faith, sexuality, and masculinity. Together. Check out their blogs and podcasts, or explore their retreats and other community offerings at yourotherbrothers.org
Learn more about the overarching nonprofit ministry of Your Other Family at yourotherfamily.org, as well as their new women’s community of Your Other Sisters at yourothersisters.org
Hear Tom Zuniga interview Drew Boa at https://yourotherbrothers.org/convocast/yob-convocast-104-tom-amp-drew-boa-outgrow-porn-examine-fetishes-and-do-inner-child-work
Connect with Tom at thomasmarkz.com
Disclaimer: Tom and Your Other Family offer valuable perspectives and wonderful resources, and we're honored to introduce them to you. As with any content, we encourage you to take what helps you grow and leave the rest behind.
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Take the Husband Material Journey...
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Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community
Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn
Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy
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