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In this week’s Reddit Realness Minisode, Steph & Tia react to a shocking dilemma about a woman whose fiancée became obsessed with getting “revenge” on a childhood bully...and completely destroyed her own life in the process.

What started as unresolved school trauma spiralled into stalking, harassment, police involvement, job loss, and criminal charges. Now the listener is questioning everything she thought she knew about her partner, and whether their engagement can survive this level of obsession.

The girls unpack:

When confronting past trauma turns into dangerous behaviour

The problem with enabling therapists

Internet “revenge culture” and why it encourages people to go too far

Whether this relationship can (or should) be saved

As always, expect honest reactions, sharp takes, and classic We Just Got Here banter.

🕰️ Timestamps
0:00 – Intro
01:01 – Reddit Dilemma

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Episode 98 of We Just Got Here Podcast is a rollercoaster 😳💀

Steph & Tia kick things off asking the important question , can you actually learn how to be sexy? Before sharing life updates, including being back on Patreon, and getting into their Ls & Wins of the Week.

The conversation then turns to unconventional red flags, the subtle (and sometimes hilarious) signs we’re willing to ignore (OR NOT) for the plot.

Things take a dramatic turn during Reddit Realness, where a listener asks if she’s overreacting after finding an ultrasound photo on her husband’s phone 👀💔 and the reactions say it all.

As always, the episode wraps up with Adult Finds of the Week and classic We Just Got Here banter.

⏰ Timestamps
0:00 – Intro / Can you learn how to be sexy?
13:22 – We’re back on Patreon!
17:00 – Steph & Tia’s Ls & Wins of the Week
48:35 – Unconventional red flags
01:25:48 – Reddit Realness: Am I overreacting about an ultrasound pic on my husband’s phone?
01:38:20 – Adult Finds of the Week

Adult Finds of the Week:
Tia: https://shorturl.at/qox5Q
Steph: https://shorturl.at/UpRoG

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This week’s Reddit Realness gets a little creepy uncomfortable and unsettling 😳

A woman writes in after discovering creepy photos of her brother on his laptop; photos she was never meant to see and can’t stop thinking about. Now she’s spiralling, questioning what they mean, why he has them, and whether she should confront him or pretend she never saw anything at all.
Steph & Tia unpack the unease that comes with stumbling across something disturbing about someone you thought you knew, and talk through how to handle situations where boundaries feel crossed but the truth is murky.

From trusting your instincts to deciding whether silence is safer than confrontation, this dilemma raises a big question: what do you do when you can’t unsee something?

⏰ Timestamps
0:00 – Intro
02:56 - Dilemma

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Episode 96 of We Just Got Here Podcast is a reality check 😭💔

Steph & Tia kick things off with Ls & Wins of the Week, before getting into that painful moment when you finally realise he’s just not into you,  plus a side rant on fake TikTok doctors giving out wild advice online 😳

The girls break down the top signs he’s not into you, from mixed signals to bare-minimum energy, and dive into a Reddit thread asking:
“What are some clear signs that he’s not into you?”

To close out the episode, Reddit Realness takes a more emotional turn with a listener asking for advice on how to find her spark again after losing confidence following a toxic relationship 💔✨

As always, expect honesty, humour, and the kind of conversations that make you feel seen.

⏰ Timestamps
0:00 – Intro
03:42 – Steph & Tia’s Ls & Wins of the Week
18:29 – That Moment You Realise He’s Not Into You / Fake TikTok Doctors
35:15 – Top Signs He’s Not Into You
01:03:16 – Reddit Thread of the Week: “What are some clear signs that he’s not into you?”
01:09:30 – Reddit Realness: “How do I find my spark again?”
01:20:18 – Adult Finds of the Week

Adults Finds of The Week: 
Steph: https://shorturl.at/0ap3e
Tia: https://shorturl.at/wrs6C

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