Chris Stefanick Catholic Show

Is the Church's teaching on sex just a list of rules — or an invitation to something better? Christopher West, the world's foremost teacher of St. John Paul II's Theology of the Body, joins Chris Stefanick for a speed-round Q&A built entirely from questions submitted by Daily Anchor subscribers. Three minutes on the clock, no script, no easy questions.

In this episode: the difference between Thomistic and phenomenological approaches to morality (and why JP2 brought them together), real advice for parents on teen dating, how to reach a young man stuck in pornography, what a long-married couple should do when desire for intimacy isn't mutual anymore, why Christopher refuses to use the term "LGBTQ," and how the word "gender" itself points to the truth about the transgender debate.

Highlights

00:00 – Cold open: the most fun episode ever filmed
03:13 – Thomistic vs. phenomenological approaches, explained with a poison analogy
10:03 – Speed round begins: advice for teen dating and healthy "eros"
14:17 – How to talk to a young man caught in pornography ("there's a banquet")
16:59 – What a married couple should do when desire for intimacy isn't mutual
21:07 – Why Christopher West won't use the term "LGBTQ"
27:09 – The real meaning of "gender" and the Church's teaching on being transgender

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Chapters

(00:00:00) - Christopher West
(00:00:54) - The Catholic Sexpert
(00:02:52) - John Paul II: The Theology of the Body
(00:07:53) - Punishment for the Sexual Revolution
(00:09:18) - Daily Inspiration
(00:09:58) - Christopher St. John's Advice for Teen Dating
(00:15:25) - Fast Food and the banquet
(00:16:57) - The Need for Sexual Intimacy in the Marriage
(00:20:32) - The LGBT Issues
(00:22:11) - Archbishop Chaput on Sexuality
(00:27:05) - The Problem with Gender Affirming Surgery
(00:31:26) - Bradley on the Culture War
(00:36:42) - Good News for the Battlefield
(00:36:59) - Pray for Christopher West and His Family

Chris Stefanick reflects on this Sunday's Gospel from a Benedictine cemetery at a Steubenville youth conference, where the monks buried there remind us that leaving the world behind isn't about the world being bad — it's about discovering something better. Drawing on Jesus' parable of the seed choked out by "the anxieties of this life," Chris breaks down the three classic sources of temptation — the world, the flesh, and the devil — and focuses on the trickiest one: the world, which we're actually meant to enjoy.

He shares two practical tools for keeping worldly desires in check, opens up about a painful financial low point early in his ministry, and points to St. Francis and Blessed Carlo Acutis as examples of what it looks like to hold this world loosely while loving it fully.

Discussion Questions

1. Chris says the world is the "trickiest" temptation because it's something we're actually meant to enjoy. Where do you find that line blurry in your own life?

2. What would it look like to "ask your own heart what you desire" this week — and to check that desire against your desire for eternal things?

3. Arthur Brooks' exercise imagines the person you'd have to become to get everything on your bucket list. What's one item on your list you might be willing to "empty out" or surrender?

4. Chris shares that he'd choose financial hardship over leaving ministry because he values eternal things more. Is there something in your own life you've had to give up — or would be willing to give up — for the sake of something eternal?

5. St. Francis gave up everything yet loved creation more deeply than most. How might letting go of something actually free you to enjoy it more, rather than less?

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Chapters

(00:00:00) - Walking around the Benedictine Cemetery
(00:00:52) - The Secret to Growing Into Greatness
(00:01:48) - 3 Sources of Temptation in the World
(00:08:01) - St. Francis: What Are You Valuing More Than Money?

David Latting built a TikTok ministry with over 800 million views — then got permanently banned for inviting Muslims to follow Jesus. In this raw, deeply personal conversation, David shares the mystical experiences behind his conversion that he's never talked about publicly, his harrowing two-year crisis of faith starting at age 13, the night The Passion of the Christ broke him wide open, his evangelism among Muslims in Iran, Afghanistan, and at a flea market, navigating the algorithm as an influencer without losing his soul, and why he — a Pentecostal/non-denominational evangelist — finds himself drawn to the beauty of Catholic liturgy, religion, and the question of transubstantiation. HIGHLIGHTS [00:00] Intro — David's banned TikTok ministry and what's ahead [05:48] A 13-year-old's crisis of faith: doubt, despair, and a letter opener [25:19] Watching The Passion of the Christ alone at midnight — and breaking down [35:51] "Allah is not real" — the video that got him permanently banned [42:00] Underground baptisms in Iran, Afghanistan, and Mecca [51:02] The flea market encounter that led to an 8-month friendship with a Muslim woman [1:11:00] "Religion" and "liturgy" off the naughty word list — why Gen Z is craving structure [1:28:48] If transubstantiation is true, "I have to be Catholic" ....... Sign up for The Daily Anchor to get Chris Stefanick's bite-sized reflections every morning and be entered for a chance to win a trip for two on our Pilgrimage to Beauty: https://bit.ly/4tQCXtP ........ Support the creation of this content by becoming a Missionary of Joy with a monthly gift to Real Life Catholic and get free access to 9 transformative courses: https://bit.ly/4nTHbN0 ........ The Chris Stefanick Show will soon be premiering on EWTN+ Streaming! You can start watching more great content at: EWTN.com/ondemand/

Chapters

(00:00:00) - David Lading On His Conversion To Catholicism
(00:01:29) - Chris Stefanick: Missionary of Joy
(00:02:22) - David Ladding on Talking To Christians
(00:03:54) - My Conversion to the Faith at 13
(00:08:58) - Daily Inspiration
(00:09:38) - The Tension of Gen Z
(00:14:38) - Ex-
(00:18:22) - Chris Stefanick on His Call To Ministry
(00:22:05) - Married to TikTok
(00:25:20) - The Passion of the Christ
(00:29:21) - How 'The Right Art' Converted Me
(00:32:23) - I Had A Mystical Experience On TikTok
(00:35:20) - David On TikTok Getting Pulled
(00:38:37) - TikTok Bans Christian Vlogger
(00:42:05) - Muslims: The Unveiling of Eden is the undoing of
(00:45:56) - David Brooks on Islam and His Evangelism
(00:49:36) - One woman converted to Christianity after seeing a Quran
(00:53:18) - What is it about the Islam message?
(00:55:40) - Facebook and the Lion's Den
(00:56:06) - How to Make a Video Go Viral
(00:59:54) - Are You Tired Of Social Media?
(01:02:08) - Social Media: The Good Side and Bad Side
(01:07:10) - Pete Wentworth on Good Content
(01:10:17) - Prayer for the Warfighter
(01:11:20) - The Turn of the Church
(01:15:11) - On Liturgy and Religious Liberty
(01:17:54) - Music and the Search for Beauty
(01:20:38) - The Unveiling of Iconography
(01:25:13) - Separation of Catholicism and Evangelicalism
(01:28:38) - on Transubstantiation and Apostolic succession
(01:31:32) - Paul On The Issues Of Catholic Diets
(01:34:39) - Jordan Peterson on the Tension of His Faith
(01:40:19) - Understanding the Spirit of Ecumenism
(01:41:19) - Michael Kuliana on Gen Z and His Conversion

Chris is on pilgrimage in Toulouse, France, taking you straight to the tomb of St. Thomas Aquinas — one of the most brilliant minds in the history of the Church (and the world). Known as "the Dumb Ox" by classmates who mistook his quiet nature for dullness, Aquinas went on to write the 1.8-million-word Summa Theologica, showing that faith and reason aren't enemies but, as John Paul II said, "two wings of a bird that lift up the soul." But the real story isn't his brilliance — it's what he asked Jesus for at the end of his life, and why he stopped writing altogether. Find out what the smartest man in Church history figured out about the point of all knowledge.

St. Thomas Aquinas, pray for us.

Discussion Questions

1. Chris says knowledge is meant to lead us "to the threshold of relationship," the way courtship leads to a proposal. Can you think of a time in your own life when intellectual understanding eventually had to give way to a decision of trust or commitment?

2. St. Thomas Aquinas, after writing 1.8 million words about God, said his work "amounts to straw" compared to what he glimpsed of heaven. What do you think he meant by that, and does it change your view of his life's work?

3. Chris suggests that skeptics aren't necessarily smarter than believers — they may simply be afraid to surrender to what their own knowledge points toward. Do you agree or disagree, and why?

4. When Jesus offered Aquinas anything he desired, he asked only for more of Jesus himself rather than more knowledge or answers. If you were offered the same question today, what would your honest answer be?

5. St. Albert the Great predicted that the quiet "dumb ox" would one day be heard "throughout the entire world." Has someone ever underestimated you, or have you underestimated someone else, in a way that turned out to be very wrong?

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Chapters

(00:00:00) - St. Thomas Aquinas
(00:02:01) - St. Thomas Aquinas
(00:04:23) - The Life of Saint Thomas Aquinas

What does it really mean to be a woman—and why has no one taught us?

In this episode of the Chris Stefanick Show, Chris sits down with January Donovan, founder of Catholic Feminine Formation, for a wide-ranging and deeply practical conversation about what's been lost—and what's possible when women are truly formed.

January brings nearly 30 years of experience helping women live out their God-given genius, and she pulls no punches. She unpacks how feminism—despite some early goods it sought—ultimately robbed women of their femininity, their faith, and their family. And she makes a compelling case that the Church now has an unprecedented opportunity to offer the world something better: a new model of womanhood rooted in Our Lady.

This conversation will challenge you, inspire you, and give you real, practical tools—whether you're a woman seeking to thrive, a husband who wants to better understand his wife, or a parish leader wondering how to serve your community more deeply.

In this episode:
– Why the "fragile femininity" of 150 years ago and today's "vicious feminism" are both failures—and what comes next
– What John Paul II's "feminine genius" actually means in everyday life
– The chaos of the busy household—and how formation changes everything about how you show up
– Why 7% of communication is words, and what that means for how you love your family
– The difference between faith formation and human formation—and why women need both
– How a growth mindset is really just another word for humility
– The New Woman Masterclass: a year-long formation journey for women in small groups
– How to bring Catholic Feminine Formation to your parish

HIGHLIGHTS
0:00 – Introduction: Catholic feminine formation—and why men need to watch too
8:00 – How feminism robbed women of their femininity, faith, and family
11:10 – "Fragile femininity" vs. "vicious feminism"—and the new model the world is hungry for
13:45 – What the feminine genius actually is: nurturing humanity to its greatness
19:00 – The chaos of the busy household—and the dozen skills a woman needs in that one moment
23:00 – Tone, body language, and why 93% of communication has nothing to do with words
29:30 – Growth mindset vs. fixed mindset—and why it's really about humility
34:00 – "You can't preach joy frowning": why your thriving is your evangelization
38:30 – Why the feminine genius can't be fully lived without the masculine genius
45:10 – The New Woman Masterclass: a year-long, small-group Catholic formation journey
51:40 – How to bring Catholic Feminine Formation to your parish

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Chapters

(00:00:00) - Catholic Female Formation
(00:00:50) - Chris Stefanick: Missionaries of Joy
(00:01:42) - Filipinos: The feminine genius
(00:05:20) - Cook with Your Heart
(00:10:46) - There's a New Model of Women
(00:12:11) - What does a powerful Catholic understanding of femininity look like?
(00:18:47) - How Many Skills Do a Woman Need To Manage Her Home?
(00:22:15) - Women's spiritual formation
(00:26:34) - On Growth and the Woman
(00:32:38) - A Fixed Mindset in Relationships
(00:37:47) - Formation of the Male Mind
(00:42:13) - How to Salvage Your Marriage
(00:45:08) - The New Woman: How to Be a Woman
(00:48:10) - Wonders of the World: Marriage and Family
(00:51:36) - Catholic Fanformation: Rebuilding Culture
(00:54:52) - Chris on The Feminine Formation
(00:56:17) - Praying the Hail Mary in Cebuano