Love Strategies: Dating and Love Advice for Successful Women

You've been patient, you've asked thoughtful questions, you've tried to create the perfect moments for him to open up… and yet he still gives you the conversational shrug. That wall stays up.
But here's what's actually happening: He's not emotionally unavailable. He's emotionally unsafe. And in this episode, Dr. Gary and I break down the real psychology behind why men stay guarded - and the exact conditions that allow a man to finally let you in. It's not magic words or tricks. It's about creating space where vulnerability isn't weakness, it's welcomed.
If you want the full step-by-step process we use to help women like you build that deeper connection, go to thelovesteps.com and learn the 7 Little Love Steps. And if you're ready for personalized coaching to walk you through every stage of your love journey, head to loveapply.com to schedule your complimentary love strategy session with someone on my team.
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Listen, if you're crushing it in your career but men seem turned off, I have news for you: it's not your resume. It's the three qualities that made you successful in the first place—control, lack of trust, and perfectionism. The same drive that helped you build your career can sabotage your love life if you bring that exact energy to dating. High-character men aren't intimidated by your accomplishments. They're just turned off when you try to control everything, don't trust them, or expect perfection. The good news? You can change these behaviors and start attracting the partner you actually deserve.

If you're ready to get real help with this, head over to https://go.lovestrategies.com/begin and apply for a Love Strategy Session with my team. We'll dig into your relationship patterns and create a strategy to find your person.
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Relationships can be a rollercoaster ride, with ups and downs that can leave us uncertain and anxious. One common concern that arises is when your partner starts to pull away. In this podcast, we'll explore the various reasons why this might happen and discuss strategies to navigate this challenging situation.

Originally Aired: June 18th, 2023
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You're smart, successful, and confident—exactly what attracts great men. But here's the uncomfortable truth: those same qualities also make you a target for a specific type of parasitic guy who knows exactly how to weaponize your strengths against you.
In this episode, Gary and I break down the 5 disturbing tactics these men use—from competence mirroring to engineering false dependency—and how to spot them before they trap you. Because avoiding the worst 5-10% of guys out there will save you years of heartache and help you date more freely.
Want to understand why you keep attracting certain types of men? Take our free 9-question quiz at attractiontype.com to discover your attraction archetype and finally break the pattern.
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Are you sick of the same old dating advice? Our latest podcast shares 10 harsh truths about dating that you wish you knew sooner. Stop wasting time and start making real progress in your love life by learning these essential insights.A little tough love goes a long way.
Originally Aired: Nov. 16, 2024
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