DBT and Me

Kate and Michelle answer listener questions about worrying whether or not a family member wants you to live with them, talking to a friend who is self-harming about DBT, CBT vs. DBT, practicing mindfulness with ADHD, coping with stonewalling from an ex, wanting a friend to celebrate an achievement with you, fearing getting into a relationship, and coping with limerence.

TRIGGER WARNING: Material that may be triggering is discussed from 9:17-16:13

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Check out our Etsy shop for DBT-inspired items and our journaling workbook (only $7.50!): https://www.etsy.com/shop/dbtandme
Our book, "DBT for Everyone" is available! Order your copy on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/Dbt-Everyone-Pitfalls-Possibilities-Better/dp/1839975881/
Consider providing ongoing support to the podcast by becoming a patron at https://www.patreon.com/dbtandme
You can join our facebook community here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dbtandmepodcast
Check out our other podcast, The Couch and The Chair, on Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-couch-and-the-chair/id1554159244) or on Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/3MZ8aZPoRKxGmLtFcR4S4O)
If you need support/have questions, email us at dbtandmepodcast@gmail.com

It's time for a re-do! When Kate and Michelle first recorded this episode, it was during COVID which resulted in poor sound quality as they adjusted to recording virtually.

In this special re-recorded episode, they explain opposite action all over again, providing new personal examples to help explain the skill.

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If you want to sign up for Kate's free DBT peer support group, you can sign up here: 
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Check out our Etsy shop for DBT-inspired items and our journaling workbook (only $7.50!): https://www.etsy.com/shop/dbtandme
Our book, "DBT for Everyone" is available! Order your copy on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/Dbt-Everyone-Pitfalls-Possibilities-Better/dp/1839975881/
Consider providing ongoing support to the podcast by becoming a patron at https://www.patreon.com/dbtandme
You can join our facebook community here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dbtandmepodcast
Check out our other podcast, The Couch and The Chair, on Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-couch-and-the-chair/id1554159244) or on Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/3MZ8aZPoRKxGmLtFcR4S4O)
If you need support/have questions, email us at dbtandmepodcast@gmail.com

Kate and Michelle answer listener questions about when to learn coping skills for anger, questioning if DBT can work when there's resistance, obsessing over unresolved situations, and coping with getting fired from a job.

Want to get 15% off of ALL Guilford Press titles? Use this link (code is DBTME at checkout): https://www.guilford.com/dbtme
If you want to sign up for Kate's free DBT peer support group, you can sign up here: 
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/dbt-discussion-group-tickets-518237601617
Check out our Etsy shop for DBT-inspired items and our journaling workbook (only $7.50!): https://www.etsy.com/shop/dbtandme
Our book, "DBT for Everyone" is available! Order your copy on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/Dbt-Everyone-Pitfalls-Possibilities-Better/dp/1839975881/
Consider providing ongoing support to the podcast by becoming a patron at https://www.patreon.com/dbtandme
You can join our facebook community here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dbtandmepodcast
Check out our other podcast, The Couch and The Chair, on Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-couch-and-the-chair/id1554159244) or on Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/3MZ8aZPoRKxGmLtFcR4S4O)
If you need support/have questions, email us at dbtandmepodcast@gmail.com

Kate and Michelle answer listener questions about moving past hurt feelings, disrespectful in-laws, betrayal by multiple people, finding a "gray area" with harmful behavior, how to get to know yourself, hypervigilance about a partner's change in tone, seeing a friend who has blocked you, and skills for being in a struggling marriage.

TRIGGER WARNING: Material that may be triggering is discussed from 42:39-42:41.

Want to get 15% off of ALL Guilford Press titles? Use this link (code is DBTME at checkout): https://www.guilford.com/dbtme
If you want to sign up for Kate's free DBT peer support group, you can sign up here: 
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/dbt-discussion-group-tickets-518237601617
Check out our Etsy shop for DBT-inspired items and our journaling workbook (only $7.50!): https://www.etsy.com/shop/dbtandme
Our book, "DBT for Everyone" is available! Order your copy on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/Dbt-Everyone-Pitfalls-Possibilities-Better/dp/1839975881/
Consider providing ongoing support to the podcast by becoming a patron at https://www.patreon.com/dbtandme
You can join our facebook community here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dbtandmepodcast
Check out our other podcast, The Couch and The Chair, on Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-couch-and-the-chair/id1554159244) or on Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/3MZ8aZPoRKxGmLtFcR4S4O)
If you need support/have questions, email us at dbtandmepodcast@gmail.com

Kate and Michelle are joined by fellow therapist Sara Abbott, host of the Bold Beautiful Borderline podcast, to discuss her journey with being diagnosed with BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder). Sara talks about early childhood experiences, difficulties with relationships as an adult, and what's helped her the most with finding her wise mind. Sara shares inspirational reminders and advice that will be helpful to anyone who is finding it challenging to accept their mental health struggles.
TRIGGER WARNING: Material that may be triggering is discussed from 16:11-18:15 and from 33:33-34:10.
Sara's podcast website: https://www.boldbeautifulborderline.com/

Follow her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boldbeautifulborderline

Listen to Sara interview Kate and Michelle on her podcast by going to Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bold-beautiful-borderline/id1523899329) or Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/4dIQIIngQGADkDJAXglRnH); episode release dates are April 5, 2026 and April 12, 2026.
Want to get 15% off of ALL Guilford Press titles? Use this link (code is DBTME at checkout): https://www.guilford.com/dbtme
If you want to sign up for Kate's free DBT peer support group, you can sign up here: 
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/dbt-discussion-group-tickets-518237601617
Check out our Etsy shop for DBT-inspired items and our journaling workbook (only $7.50!): https://www.etsy.com/shop/dbtandme
Our book, "DBT for Everyone" is available! Order your copy on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/Dbt-Everyone-Pitfalls-Possibilities-Better/dp/1839975881/
Consider providing ongoing support to the podcast by becoming a patron at https://www.patreon.com/dbtandme
You can join our facebook community here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dbtandmepodcast
Check out our other podcast, The Couch and The Chair, on Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-couch-and-the-chair/id1554159244) or on Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/3MZ8aZPoRKxGmLtFcR4S4O)
If you need support/have questions, email us at dbtandmepodcast@gmail.com