Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic: Friendship Advice for Kids (K-8)

Ep. 136 - Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic: Helping friendships last | Friendship advice for kids
Parents, check out my online workshops for kids at workshops.eileenkennedymoore.com.
FREE quiz: Is Your Child a Good Friend? https://eileenkennedymoore.ck.page/e37dcc098f
Would YOUR KID like to be featured on the podcast?
SUBMIT A QUESTION TO DR. FRIENDTASTIC at https://DrFriendtastic.com/submit (Obviously, this is not psychotherapy, and it’s not for emergency situations.)
For an easy-to-read TRANSCRIPT, go to: https://DrFriendtastic.com/podcast/
Like the podcast? Check out my books at https://EileenKennedyMoore.com.
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*** DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:
- Do you have a stuffed animal that you’ve loved for a long time? What’s its name? What does it look like? What makes this stuffed animal special to you?
- How long is the longest friendship you’ve had? How did you meet that friend? What do you do to stay connected to that friendship?
- What is your favorite thing to do with friends? Why?
- What are some ways to show friends that they matter to you?

*** You might also like these podcast episodes:
Ep. 133 - Can he be friends with people who don’t like him? (John, Age 8)
https://drfriendtastic.substack.com/p/ep133-can-he-be-friends-with-people-who-dont-like-him-john-8
Ep. 129 - Kindest way to break up with a friend (Audrey, Age 9)
https://drfriendtastic.substack.com/p/ep129-kindest-way-to-break-up-with-a-friend-audrey-age-9
Ep. 127 - Friend wants space (Sloane, Age 6)
https://drfriendtastic.substack.com/p/ep127-friend-wants-space-sloane-age-6


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Ep. 135 - Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic: Starting a friendship | Friendship advice for kids
Parents, check out my online workshops for kids at workshops.eileenkennedymoore.com.
FREE quiz: Is Your Child a Good Friend? https://eileenkennedymoore.ck.page/e37dcc098f
Would YOUR KID like to be featured on the podcast?
SUBMIT A QUESTION TO DR. FRIENDTASTIC at https://DrFriendtastic.com/submit (Obviously, this is not psychotherapy, and it’s not for emergency situations.)
For an easy-to-read TRANSCRIPT, go to: https://DrFriendtastic.com/podcast/
Like the podcast? Check out my books at https://EileenKennedyMoore.com.
Subscribe to my NEWSLETTER, https://DrFriendtastic.substack.com, to get podcast episodes sent to your email plus articles for parents.
*** DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:
- Think of a friend you know. How did your friendship begin?
- If you want to make a new friend, why is it important to choose to reach out to someone who is a good candidate for friendship? What makes someone seem like a good friendship possibility?
- What are some ways that you have shown friends (or potential friends) that you like them?
- Why is it not a good idea to try to buy someone’s friendship by giving them money or your favorite things?
- Why is it important to notice how people respond to your friendly actions? What might it mean if they respond positively? What might it mean if they respond negatively?

*** You might also like these podcast episodes:
Ep. 72 - Making friends in a new school (Nora, Age 8) 
https://drfriendtastic.substack.com/p/ep72-nora-age-8-making-friends-new-schl
Ep. 73 - Best friend stops playing with him (J.J., Age 11)
https://drfriendtastic.substack.com/p/ep73-jj-age-11-best-friend-stops-playing-with-him
Ep. 67: Choosing good friends (Paul, Age 12)
https://drfriendtastic.substack.com/p/paul-age-12-choosing-friends-who


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Ep. 134 - Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic: Friends growing up too fast? | Friendship advice for kids
Parents, check out my online workshops for kids at workshops.eileenkennedymoore.com.
FREE quiz: Is Your Child a Good Friend? https://eileenkennedymoore.ck.page/e37dcc098f
Would YOUR KID like to be featured on the podcast?
SUBMIT A QUESTION TO DR. FRIENDTASTIC at https://DrFriendtastic.com/submit (Obviously, this is not psychotherapy, and it’s not for emergency situations.)
For an easy-to-read TRANSCRIPT, go to: https://DrFriendtastic.com/podcast/
Like the podcast? Check out my books at https://EileenKennedyMoore.com.
Subscribe to my NEWSLETTER, https://DrFriendtastic.substack.com, to get podcast episodes sent to your email plus articles for parents.
*** DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:
- Have you ever done something that made another kid not like you? What happened? How did you handle that?
- What would you do if your friend group suddenly started being interested in inappropriate topics or activities?
- Do you think your grown-ups are more strict, less strict, or about the same level of strictness compared to your friends’ parents? Why?
- Why do you think adults try to limit kids’ exposure to “mature” content that is violent or focused on boyfriends and girlfriends?
- What rules do you have to follow about electronic devices? If you were a parent, what rules would you have for your kid? Why?
*** You might also like these podcast episodes:
Ep. 123 - How to Keep Friends (Eva, Age 6)
https://drfriendtastic.substack.com/p/ep123-how-to-keep-friends-eva-age-6
Ep. 109 - What does it mean to be yourself? (Charlotte, Age 11)
https://drfriendtastic.substack.com/p/ep109-what-does-it-mean-to-be-true-to-self-charlotte-age11
Ep. 89 - How to deal with an angry person (Noah, Age 7)
https://drfriendtastic.substack.com/p/ep89-noah-age-7-getting-in-trouble


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Ep. 133 - Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic: Say no to one-way friendships | Friendship advice for kids
Parents, check out my online workshops for kids at workshops.eileenkennedymoore.com.
FREE quiz: Is Your Child a Good Friend? https://eileenkennedymoore.ck.page/e37dcc098f
Would YOUR KID like to be featured on the podcast?
SUBMIT A QUESTION TO DR. FRIENDTASTIC at https://DrFriendtastic.com/submit (Obviously, this is not psychotherapy, and it’s not for emergency situations.)
For an easy-to-read TRANSCRIPT, go to: https://DrFriendtastic.com/podcast/
Like the podcast? Check out my books at https://EileenKennedyMoore.com.
Subscribe to my NEWSLETTER, https://DrFriendtastic.substack.com, to get podcast episodes sent to your email plus articles for parents.
*** DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:
- Have you ever done something that made another kid not like you? What happened? How did you handle that?
- Why do you think kids sometimes want to be friends with kids who don’t like them?
- How could trying to be friends with people who don’t like you end up hurting you?
- We can’t be friends with everyone, but we do need to try to be kind to everyone. What do you think that means you should do (or not do) when you don’t like someone?
- Have you ever met a kid who just didn’t appeal to you? What led to that dislike? Looking back, do you think you were fair, or are there ways you would have liked to handle things differently?
*** You might also like these podcast episodes:
Ep. 38 - Wondering how to be popular (Richard, Age 11)
https://drfriendtastic.substack.com/p/richard-age-11-wondering-how-to-be-popular
Ep. 21 - Popularity is not the same as friendship (Eugene, Age 13)
https://drfriendtastic.substack.com/p/kids-ask-dr-friendtastic-ep-21-eugene
Ep. 20 - Why might a friend not tell you the truth? (Anna, Age 9)
https://drfriendtastic.substack.com/p/kids-ask-dr-friendtastic-ep-20-anna


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Ep. 132- Kids Ask Dr. Friendtastic: Finding the right words in a conflict | Friendship advice for kids
Parents, check out my online workshops for kids at workshops.eileenkennedymoore.com.
FREE quiz: Is Your Child a Good Friend? https://eileenkennedymoore.ck.page/e37dcc098f
Would YOUR KID like to be featured on the podcast?
SUBMIT A QUESTION TO DR. FRIENDTASTIC at https://DrFriendtastic.com/submit (Obviously, this is not psychotherapy, and it’s not for emergency situations.)
For an easy-to-read TRANSCRIPT, go to: https://DrFriendtastic.com/podcast/
Like the podcast? Check out my books at https://EileenKennedyMoore.com.
Subscribe to my NEWSLETTER, https://DrFriendtastic.substack.com, to get podcast episodes sent to your email plus articles for parents.
*** DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:
- Think of a recent conflict you had with a friend. What happened? How did you deal with it? Is there something you would like to do differently next time?
- What are some reasons why a friend might not want to talk about a problem?
- What does the statement “We can’t force someone to be friends with us” mean?
- Why is saying or implying, “I’m good; you’re bad” not a helpful way to deal with conflict? What could you do instead?
*** You might also like these podcast episodes:
Ep. 1 - Friendship ends over small thing (Naomi, Age 7) 
https://drfriendtastic.substack.com/p/kids-ask-dr-friendtastic-ep-1
Ep. 129 - Kindest way to break up with a friend (Audrey, Age 9) 
https://drfriendtastic.substack.com/p/ep129-kindest-way-to-break-up-with-a-friend-audrey-age-9
Ep. 73 - Best friend suddenly stops playing with him (J.J., Age 11) 
https://drfriendtastic.substack.com/p/ep73-jj-age-11-best-friend-stops-playing-with-him


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