Everyone loves to say “sex work is work” or “sex work is empowering.” And while I’ll always support sex workers, I don’t support the industry. In this episode I break down why - from the history of sex as taboo, to the illusion of empowerment on OnlyFans, to the harsh realities of survival sex work, trafficking, and stripping. We’ll talk privilege, “choice feminism,” the male gaze, and why most of this isn’t liberation - it’s survival.
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Am I Allowed to Enjoy the Male Gaze?
Last week we unpacked the male gaze - this week, we’re discussing what happens when you like it. Is using your desirability as a power tool empowering… or just patriarchal? We’re talking capitalism, beauty standards, Julia Fox, my internal patriarchy committee, and yes, the one time I had my titties out and men treated me like royalty.
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Why I Hate When Men Look at Me
A deep dive into the way the male gaze controls us - not just how we dress, but how we act, post, and even exist around other women. If you think you’ve escaped it, think again.
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We’re Raised to Be Desired. Not Respected.
We’re told to be pretty, chill, cool, desirable but never too available. Say yes, but not too fast. Want love, but never admit it. This week, we’re talking about how women are raised to perform for men, and how this creates shame, confusion, and abuse. If you’ve ever wondered why you were ghosted after sleeping with him, or felt like being “too into him” made you undateable - hit play.
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Immigration Myths & The Problem With Kurt Caz
In this episode, I break down Kurt Caz’s Rome video and explain why his cruelty and victim-blaming are not just wrong, but dangerous. From debunking myths about immigrants to exposing the real reasons cities like Rome struggle. Disclaimer: This is my personal commentary and critique of Kurt Caz’s video. The aim is to discuss the broader issues it raises, not to attack any individual personally.
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