Curiosity Chronicle

There’s an old children’s fable I recently retold to my son about a farmer whose wagon wheel gets stuck in the mud.

He calls on Hercules to come to his aid. Hercules appears, but rather than lifting the wagon, he speaks: "Do you think you can move the wagon by simply looking at it? Put your shoulder to the wheel."

The farmer did so, and the wagon lurched forward as the wheel easily came unstuck.

The simple read says this is a story about effort. But it’s also a story that frames one of the most important traits in life:

It’s what I call Active Optimism: A belief that things will work out paired with a willingness to do the work to make it true.

The key distinction: Passive optimism is just belief. Active optimism is belief that begets action.

A question worth sitting with:

Where in your life are you waiting for Hercules instead of putting your shoulder to the wheel?

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Every single week, I invariably get a handful of emails from readers around the world with a similar general message.

Stuck on a path. Living a life they didn’t really choose. Scared it’s too late to make a change.

Given the frequency of these messages, I decided it warranted a deeper, more tactical guide.

Here’s exactly how I would approach reinvention (at any age or life stage):

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Have you ever noticed that growth feels like destruction?

That getting better feels like getting worse?

You're not doing something wrong. You're just experiencing something nobody told you about...

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There’s a beautiful Zen parable that goes something like this:

A man is walking across a field when a tiger leaps out from the trees and runs toward him.

Fearing for his life, the man sprints away but quickly halts at a steep cliff. Facing a terrifying drop, with the tiger bearing down on him, he grabs hold of a single vine and lowers himself over the cliff’s edge.

Looking up, he sees the tiger above. Looking down, he notices another tiger pacing on the ground below. And to make matters worse, a small mouse begins gnawing at the vine that holds him in place.

Beginning to feel hopeless, with certain demise above and below, the man sees a single wild strawberry growing on the cliffside in front of him.

He reaches out, plucks the fruit, and eats it. He smiles.

How incredibly sweet it tasted.

I just found myself rereading that parable at 30,000 feet.

Let me explain why...
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My son just turned four. One of the things I love most about the age is the unbridled curiosity with which he explores the world.

He's deep in the classic "why" phase, taking me down explanatory rabbit holes that go long past my point of comfort.

But one of the most interesting prompts he asked recently was this one:

"Tell me all about zippers."

On any given day, zipper is replaced by some basic thing that we interact with. It might be tell me all about our car, or trees, or cooking pans, or the microwave.

I have a rule that I always engage with him on these little curiosity quests, even if they come at a bad time.

In doing so, I've realized something:

I know very little about how the most basic things around me actually work.
I start confidently, but my ability to answer "tell me all about [X]" generally ends after a few seconds. I quickly reach the outer bounds of my understanding and am forced, hat in hand, to consult with the internet to go deeper.
As it turns out, there's real science behind this...

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