The Mindvalley Podcast with Vishen

What does it take to speak in a way that captivates, inspires, and truly connects? Adam Roa, a magnetic stage poet whose words seem to reach straight into your soul, shares how he turned vulnerability into his superpower. He talks about his journey from feeling emotionally shut down to commanding stages around the world with authenticity and heart. This isn’t just about performing—it’s about connecting on a level that leaves people moved and inspired. Adam gets real about how being open about his struggles has helped him create deeper relationships and connections. He breaks down how storytelling, especially the classic hero’s journey, can make your words hit differently and stick with people. Whether you’re speaking to an audience or just trying to connect better in your everyday life, you’ll walk away with ideas you can actually use. And it’s not just talk—Adam shares how his years of acting and performing shaped his stage presence and confidence. Plus, he takes it deeper with his poem “A Message From Death,” showing how embracing life’s changes can lead to profound growth. If you’ve ever felt like you had something important to say but didn’t know how to say it, this episode is your chance to learn from someone who’s mastered the art of speaking straight to the heart. Key Timestamps [00:01:34] Performance through emotional expression. [00:06:01] Death amplifies beauty. [00:09:21] Embracing change in life. [00:15:02] Creativity as a personal development tool. [00:16:33] Beauty in pain through art. [00:22:30] Finding gratitude in life's challenges. [00:25:24] Charisma and presence on stage. [00:27:41] Art as a technology. [00:32:19] Importance of intention in speaking. [00:36:08] Vulnerability and connection. [00:40:06] Hero's journey in storytelling. [00:45:00] Emotional vulnerability and connection. [00:47:31] Vulnerability as a connection tool. [00:50:23] Future Human Festival 2025. Memorable Quotes "Living is worth the cost. But make no mistake, being alive is not the same thing as living. Just like throwing something away is not the same thing as giving. So, if you haven't yet found your love of life, I suggest you keep on digging and allow yourself to feel your way through all the hurt and all the rage." – Adam Roa "I think vulnerability is the gateway to connection. And when we allow ourselves to be vulnerable, we are actually opening up the possibility for incredibly deep connection. And it's also opening up the possibility of being rejected. And so, there's an inherent fear or risk that comes with that vulnerability. But that's also what makes it inspiring. " – Adam Roa Where to Find Our Guest Website: https://adamroa.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adam.roa Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/IAmAdamRoa/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AdamRoaOfficial To stay connected and to learn more about Vishen and Mindvalley, click on the links below:  Website: https://www.mindvalley.com/about YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/vishenlakhiani Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mindvalley/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vishen/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mindvalley Subscribe to 'Mindvalley Membership' to discover 65+ transformational Mindvalley programs – at a surprisingly low annual fee here 👉 https://go.mindvalley.com/NOW  Produced by Evolved Podcasting: www.evolvedpodcasting.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sometimes, love and relationships aren’t as straightforward as we’d like them to be. This week, we sat down with Neil Strauss—a famous Writer for the Rolling Stone magazine and New York Times Bestselling Author, known for his thought-provoking works, including "The Game" and "The Truth," and for pulling back the curtain on what really goes on beneath the surface of love and connection. Neil opened up about his personal journey, from the world of pick-up artistry to his quest for something deeper and real. If you’ve ever wondered why relationships can feel so intense or why it’s hard to trust, you’re going to find so much in his story that hits home. We didn’t hold back in this episode, diving straight into the fears we all carry about love and why those fears often drive us in directions we don’t expect. Neil’s perspective on attachment styles and the impact of our past experiences is not only eye-opening but also deeply validating. You’ll hear us share our own struggles with trusting intentions in relationships, especially when the past is hard to shake. Neil’s wisdom brings a whole new understanding of how we can transform those old patterns and finally find peace with our needs. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by your own emotions in relationships or just can’t seem to find someone who “gets” you, this episode is for you. Neil’s stories, advice, and raw honesty left us inspired and ready to take on love with a fresh perspective. Join us for a deep, unforgettable conversation on love, trust, and the power of vulnerability. Key Timestamps [00:02:52] Transition from pick-up artistry. [00:05:18] Emotional safety in relationships. [00:08:30] Self-fulfilling prophecies and trauma. [00:11:28] Toxic masculinity and emotional safety. [00:15:23] Psychopaths and their control. [00:17:28] Intention versus emotional safety. [00:20:30] Attachment styles in relationships. [00:25:35] Unspoken expectations and resentments. [00:31:26] Empath women and narcissistic men. [00:35:49] Parenting styles and emotional attunement. [00:40:07] Spiritual awakening and self-discovery. [00:41:57] Healing through emotional availability. [00:47:37] Spiritual celebrity interviews. [00:49:19] Commitment vs. connection in relationships. [00:52:40] Manifestation and personal boundaries. Memorable Quotes "You can tell a trauma is at work or there's something you need to heal if you have the exact opposite result of your intention. Meaning that my intention is to make sure I don't get abandoned, but my behavior is getting me abandoned."– Neil Strauss "Sadness, pain, anger, hurt, love, all those things are feelings, but a thought would be betrayed. Like, what is the feeling of being betrayed? When you're betrayed, when you imagine, when you make up that you're betrayed, you feel sad. So, you want to be careful not to make accusations as feelings, like betrayed and disrespected. A lot of times someone might feel disrespected, but the person didn't tend to disrespect." – Neil Strauss Where to Find Our Guest Website: https://www.neilstrauss.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/neil_strauss/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/neilstrauss Twitter (X): https://x.com/neilstrauss To stay connected and to learn more about Vishen and Mindvalley, click on the links below:  Website: https://www.mindvalley.com/about YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/vishenlakhiani Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mindvalley/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vishen/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mindvalley Subscribe to 'Mindvalley Membership' to discover 65+ transformational Mindvalley programs – at a surprisingly low annual fee here 👉 https://go.mindvalley.com/NOW  Produced by Evolved Podcasting: www.evolvedpodcasting.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Intimacy can be transformative, but what happens when we make it sacred? This episode dives into the raw, transformative power of sacred sexuality through the stories of three couples who’ve been through it all—breakups, reunions, and those messy, beautiful moments that define a relationship. They’re sharing how rituals and shared practices have not only strengthened their bonds but helped them navigate conflict in a way that feels... well, sacred. Whether you're coupled up or just curious about deeper love, this one will make you see connection in a whole new light. When it comes to conflict, these couples are refreshingly honest, offering a glimpse into the ways they tackle tough times together. They’ll talk you through some seriously cool approaches to handling disagreements—think “calls to greatness” instead of arguments. It’s all about building something that feels safe, respected, and still exciting. They’re not just sharing tips—they’re giving a genuine look at what it takes to build trust, feel seen, and truly support each other. It’s the kind of understanding that goes beyond advice and into the heart of what makes love last. And, in perhaps the most beautiful part, they explore what “home” means in a relationship—a feeling of joy, safety, and shared purpose that isn’t easy to put into words but is felt deeply. Whether you’re partnered or single, these stories will get you thinking about love, connection, and how we all crave that deeper sense of belonging.  Key Timestamps: [00:01:43] Sacred sexuality and relationships. [00:03:54] Energy fluency and kundalini activation. [00:09:06] Common expressions during orgasm. [00:15:07] Evolution in relationships. [00:18:31] Compromise versus settling in relationships. [00:20:28] Relationship ethos and values. [00:31:14] Parenthood deepens love and commitment. [00:37:58] Communication in relationships. [00:39:27] Safe words in conflict resolution. [00:52:23] Relationship priorities and dynamics. [00:55:20] Gender dynamics in relationships. [01:00:12] The power of feminine love. [01:08:29] Energy creation in relationships. [01:12:58] Scheduling intimacy in relationships. [01:17:24] Peak life experience. Memorable Quotes: "Get rid of the idea that sex is only about pleasure because sex is about life itself. And so if you want full spectrum aliveness, you have to open yourself into a portal of sexuality that allows you to express the fullness of your being."– Layla Martin "Sacred sexuality is… instead of needing to look outside for that aliveness, you really get to find it in your partnership—and it's because of the partnership, and the safety of your partnership that you get to then go so deep." – Johann Urb "Once your kids... your children come into the world, then you understand the word compromise—because your life changes for them, as well as for each other, because you have to help make each other better parents and be there for each other." –  Richard Schiff Where to Find Our Guests: Layla Martin’s Website: https://laylamartin.com/ Dr. Baback Amen’s Website: https://www.dramenfunctional.com/ Sheila Kelley’s Website: https://bysheilakelley.com/ Richard Schiff’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therichardschiff Rachel Pringle Urb’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/positivepringle Johann Urb’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/urbjohann To stay connected and to learn more about Vishen and Mindvalley, click on the links below:  Website: https://www.mindvalley.com/about YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/vishenlakhiani Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mindvalley/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vishen/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mindvalley Subscribe to 'Mindvalley Membership' to discover 65+ transformational Mindvalley programs – at a surprisingly low annual fee here 👉 https://go.mindvalley.com/NOW  Produced by Evolved Podcasting: www.evolvedpodcasting.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A few words can alter a lifetime, and few understand this better than Marissa Peer, a world-renowned Psychologist, Best-selling Author, and the Founder of Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT). Today, you’ll hear about her journey from teaching aerobics for Jane Fonda to becoming a sought-after therapist for high-profile clients like the late Princess Diana. Marissa reveals how her revolutionary RTT approach moves beyond conventional therapy, focusing on immediate, deep-seated change that reshapes lives. If you’ve ever wondered how your own beliefs might be affecting your physical health and well-being, you’re about to get some eye-opening answers.  Marissa doesn’t just talk about mind-over-matter; she shows how beliefs can change the way our bodies function, sometimes even causing physical pain or making it harder to conceive. She shares her take on emotional blocks, the ones we barely realize we carry but that impact us in ways we might not expect. Her approach invites us to empower ourselves by questioning what we’ve been told and taking charge of our own healing. By the end, you’ll have practical ways to start making those shifts yourself. Whether you’re struggling with something specific or just curious about the mind-body connection, Marissa’s wisdom will feel like a gentle wake-up call. This conversation is all about how we can start healing from the inside out, challenging old stories, and taking back the power to create real, lasting change in our lives. Key Takeaways: [00:01:02] Impact of eating disorders. [00:06:17] Fertility myths and realities. [00:11:47] Role of migraines and illness in healing. [00:19:46] Think better thoughts, heal the body. [00:27:02] Decode and rewire beliefs. [00:32:24] Negative expectations of motherhood. [00:35:42] Baby blocks and fears. [00:44:39] Soulmate blockers and imprints. [00:45:41] Relationship beliefs shape outcomes. [00:50:23] Fear of rejection in relationships. [00:55:51] Social media and happiness impact. [00:56:12] Flaws in relationships. [01:01:44] Spirituality vs. Psychology in Healing. [01:11:01] Fertility begins in the brain. [01:16:09] Worthiness of love and self-acceptance. [01:19:21] Attracting and manifesting love. Memorable Quotes: "If you can just think better thoughts all the time, your body is doing its job of making your thoughts real. Your job is to think better thoughts so your body can make those real." – Marisa Peer "Imagination is more powerful than knowledge. And about having logic and emotion, emotion always wins. And every thought you think is a blueprint, and here's one more, the strongest force in you is you must act in a way that lines up with how you identify you." – Marisa Peer Where to Find Our Guest: Website: https://marisapeer.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marisapeertherapy/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMarisaPeer Twitter: https://x.com/MarisaPeer YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/MarisaPeer1 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@themarisapeer To stay connected and to learn more about Vishen and Mindvalley, click on the links below:  Website: https://www.mindvalley.com/about YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/vishenlakhiani Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mindvalley/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vishen/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mindvalley Subscribe to 'Mindvalley Membership' to discover 65+ transformational Mindvalley programs – at a surprisingly low annual fee here 👉 https://go.mindvalley.com/NOW  Produced by Evolved Podcasting: www.evolvedpodcasting.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices