Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples

Every January, couples feel the pressure to do better… communicate better… fight less… have more sex… be more intentional.
But most New Year resolutions don’t fail because couples don’t care — they fail because they’re built on pressure instead of capacity.
In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we unpack why real relationship change doesn’t come from trying harder and what actually creates a lasting reset.
This conversation invites couples to move beneath behaviour, habits, and willpower… and into nervous system awareness, embodied truth, and sustainable connection.
 
What You’ll Hear in This Episode
Why most New Year resolutions are rooted in shame, judgment, and pressure, and why they collapse so quickly
How ignoring the nervous system sabotages behaviour change, even when intentions are sincere
Why real transformation begins below the surface, not at the level of habits or communication scripts
The difference between trying harder and building capacity, and why capacity is what relationships actually need
How tantra supports embodied presence instead of self-improvement and why this creates lasting intimacy
Why does one person choosing to go deeper often create safety for the other to follow
 
You don’t need a new version of yourself this year.
You need more capacity to stay present, regulated, and connected when life gets real.
That’s the reset relationships actually need.
 
✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February and April Group Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:
👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats
💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here 
https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call
🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra
 

ABOUT US:
Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.


Follow us below and continue the convo!
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When life hits hard, most couples disconnect - not because they don’t love each other, but because they don’t know how to stay present in the face of shock, stress, or rupture.
In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we share a raw, real-life moment where everything felt destabilized and how tantra became the bridge that brought them back together instead of pulling them apart.
This conversation isn’t theoretical.
It’s lived.
It’s embodied.
And it reveals why this work actually creates lasting change, not by preventing hard moments, but by teaching couples how to return to connection when those moments arrive.
 
What You’ll Hear in This Episode
Why tantra isn’t about staying calm or spiritual… but about learning how to come back when you’re activated or overwhelmed
How shock and stress land differently in each partner’s nervous system, and why understanding this prevents blame and disconnection
What most couples do when life falls apart… and how presence, breath, and containment change the outcome completely
Why repair doesn’t have to be polite or pretty, and how honesty without harm creates real safety
How delayed trauma shows up days or weeks later, and what allows it to complete instead of getting stuck in the body
Why tantra builds capacity for real life, not control over it, and how this deepens trust, intimacy, and erotic connection
What it actually means to choose each other again and again… even when everything feels uncertain
 
Tantra works not because life gets easier… But because you learn how to stay connected when it doesn’t. And that’s the bridge back to each other.
 
✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:
👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats
💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here 
https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call
🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra
 

ABOUT US:
Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.


Follow us below and continue the convo!
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin
Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/
TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats
Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

So many couples quietly fear that desire is gone for good… that stress, aging, or hormones have somehow ruined intimacy.
 
In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we offer a powerful reframe: desire doesn’t die. It goes offline when the body is overwhelmed.
They explore how chronic stress, survival mode, and hormonal shifts shut down pleasure… and how safety, slowing down, and emotional repair bring intimacy back online in ways that feel nourishing instead of forced.
This episode is for anyone who wants to stop blaming themselves or their partner and start understanding what their body is actually asking for.
 
What You’ll Hear in This Episode
Why stress is one of the biggest desire killers and how survival mode overrides pleasure, connection, and libido
How chronic nervous system activation makes intimacy feel like effort instead of rest
Why does desire not disappear
How hormonal shifts in midlife alter the rules of intimacy, inviting presence over performance
Why touch without agenda and connection without pressure are often what reignite desire
How unspoken resentment and lack of repair quietly shut down erotic aliveness
Desire isn’t broken.
Your body is protecting you. And when safety returns, pleasure remembers how to rise again.
 
✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:
👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats
💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here 
https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call
🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra
 

ABOUT US:
Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.


Follow us below and continue the convo!
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin
Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/
TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats
Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

If it feels like you and your partner are stuck in the same argument on repeat… you’re not failing at communication.
You’re touching something deeper.
In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we unpack why certain fights keep resurfacing in long-term relationships even when the topic changes and what’s actually required to interrupt the cycle.
They explore how nervous system activation, unmet needs, and missed repair keep couples looping… and how grounding, curiosity, and conscious repair can finally create safety, understanding, and real intimacy.
This episode is for couples who are tired of circling the same conflict and ready for a different way forward.
 
What You’ll Hear in This Episode
Why repeating the same fight isn’t about the issue at hand… but about an unmet emotional need underneath it
What happens in your nervous system when you’re triggered, and why logic disappears the moment conflict escalates
How avoidance, shutdown, and makeup sex delay repair instead of resolving what’s actually happening
What is the emotional and relational cost of unresolved conflict, and why does resentment build when repair is skipped
Why grounding must come before communication, and what helps you return to your adult self during conflict
How curiosity dissolves blame and opens the door to understanding, safety, and reconnection
Why repair may be the most important love language couples were never taught
 
You don’t keep having the same fight because you’re broken.
You keep having it because something inside you is asking to be seen, met, and healed, and when that happens, intimacy can finally deepen.
 
✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:
👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats
💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here 
https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call
🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra
 

ABOUT US:
Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.


Follow us below and continue the convo!
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin
Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/
TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats
Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

As the year comes to a close, most couples rush straight into what’s next… without ever pausing to honour what they’ve lived through together.
In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as Get Your Sexy Back for Couples), we invite you into a simple, powerful end-of-year ritual designed to help you slow down, feel, and consciously close one chapter before opening another.
This isn’t about resolutions or fixing anything.
It’s about reflection, compassion, emotional honesty, and intentionally choosing how you want to move forward, individually and as a couple.
 
This episode is a gentle invitation to reconnect, soften, and reignite your bond as you step into the new year together.
 
What You’ll Hear in This Episode
Why rushing into the new year without reflection keeps couples stuck carrying unprocessed emotions forward.
How conscious reflection helps you honour who you’ve become without judgment, blame, or self-criticism.
What is the importance of celebration, and why does acknowledging what you've survived and grown through fuel intimacy and aliveness
How to release old patterns, resentments, and beliefs with compassion rather than force.
Why focusing on how you want to feel creates a deeper connection than setting rigid goals or resolutions.
How turning reflection into a ritual strengthens devotion, safety, and emotional intimacy in long-term relationships.
 
This end-of-year ritual isn’t about doing more…
It’s about being more present with what already is — and choosing each other with intention as you step into what’s next.
 
✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:
👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats
💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here 
https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call
🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra
 

ABOUT US:
Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.


Follow us below and continue the convo!
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin
Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/
TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats
Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com