Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples

As the year comes to a close, most couples rush straight into what’s next… without ever pausing to honour what they’ve lived through together.In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as Get Your Sexy Back for Couples), we invite you into a simple, powerful end-of-year ritual designed to help you slow down, feel, and consciously close one chapter before opening another.This isn’t about resolutions or fixing anything.It’s about reflection, compassion, emotional honesty, and intentionally choosing how you want to move forward, individually and as a couple. This episode is a gentle invitation to reconnect, soften, and reignite your bond as you step into the new year together. What You’ll Hear in This EpisodeWhy rushing into the new year without reflection keeps couples stuck carrying unprocessed emotions forward.How conscious reflection helps you honour who you’ve become without judgment, blame, or self-criticism.What is the importance of celebration, and why does acknowledging what you've survived and grown through fuel intimacy and alivenessHow to release old patterns, resentments, and beliefs with compassion rather than force.Why focusing on how you want to feel creates a deeper connection than setting rigid goals or resolutions.How turning reflection into a ritual strengthens devotion, safety, and emotional intimacy in long-term relationships. This end-of-year ritual isn’t about doing more…It’s about being more present with what already is — and choosing each other with intention as you step into what’s next. ✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra  ABOUT US: Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love. What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together. They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts. Follow us below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffinInstagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreatsWebsite - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

We’re taught that real love should feel effortless… but the truth is that long-term love isn’t something you fall into and stay in automatically. It’s something you choose, nurture, and return to — again and again.In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as Get Your Sexy Back for Couples) , Kim & Roberto break down the fairytale myth of effortless love and reveal what actually makes relationships thrive: repair, truth, emotional presence, and the willingness to grow together.They share how old stories, early conditioning, and unconscious patterns shape adult relationships… and how choosing each other through the uncomfortable moments creates deeper safety, connection, and desire.This episode is a powerful reminder that the couples who thrive aren’t the ones who avoid rupture — they’re the ones who repair with intention and love. What You’ll Hear in This EpisodeWhy the belief that love should be effortless sets couples up for disappointment and disconnectionHow childhood stories, family patterns, and early relationships quietly shape what we expect from love as adultsWhy growth triggers old wounds and how those unconscious patterns show up inside long-term relationships.How repair is an erotic superpower and why it strengthens connection far more than avoiding conflict ever couldHow choosing each other again and again creates long-term love that feels grounded, safe, intimate, and wildly fulfilling Love isn’t effortless… It’s chosen. And when you choose each other with intention, your relationship becomes the most powerful place for healing and awakening. ✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra  ABOUT US: Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love. What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together. They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts. Follow us below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffinInstagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreatsWebsite - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

So many people carry the quiet fear that their trauma makes them flawed… broken… or unlovable.In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as Get Your Sexy Back for Couples), we bring a grounded, compassionate truth: trauma doesn’t mean you’re damaged. It means you’re human. It means your nervous system adapted to survive.They share vulnerable stories, body-based insights, and the patterns they see inside couples' work. From the shutdowns, the reactions, the fears, and why these aren’t personality flaws but protective strategies that were never witnessed or supported.This episode is an invitation into self-compassion, emotional truth, and the kind of partnership that makes healing possible. What You’ll Hear in This EpisodeWhy most people misunderstand trauma and assume it only applies to the “big stuff,” missing the emotional paper cuts that shape adult intimacyHow your nervous system creates protective patterns and why shutdown, defensiveness, or reactivity are intelligent survival responsesHow trauma shows up most clearly in relationships through conflict, avoidance, disconnection, and fear of vulnerabilityWhy integration and not erasing the past, create emotional safety, embodiment, and deeper intimacyWhat happens when you finally feel safe enough for your trauma patterns to reveal themselves in partnershipHow conscious couples support each other’s healing through presence, curiosity, grounding, and truth Trauma doesn’t make you damaged… it makes you human — and when held with love, it becomes the pathway to deeper connection. ✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra  ABOUT US: Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love. What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together. They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts. Follow us below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffinInstagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreatsWebsite - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

There’s a cultural myth that desire fades with age… but the truth is far more powerful than that.In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples), we explore what really happens to erotic energy after 40… and why this stage of life can become your most sensual, confident, and pleasure-filled chapter yet.We share vulnerable stories, body-based wisdom, and the exact practices that help women and men release shame, reconnect to their bodies, and rebuild erotic confidence that feels grounded, empowered, and deeply alive.This episode is for anyone who wants their pleasure back… and is ready for a more soulful, embodied sexual connection. What You’ll Hear in This EpisodeWhy desire doesn’t fade with age… it deepens when shame and conditioning begin to fall awayHow early sexual messaging shapes your adult sexual confidence and why reclaiming it requires truth, safety, and nervous system repairFor women: How slowing down, softening, embodiment, and inner permission awaken your erotic fireFor men: How performance pressure, shame, and fear of failure block pleasure… and how presence reconnects them to their masculine erotic energyWhy erotic energy after 40 is more powerful, intuitive, and grounded than anything you experienced in your twentiesHow to rebuild erotic confidence inside long-term relationships through truth, touch, safety, and conscious intimacy practices ✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra ABOUT US: Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love. What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together. They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts. Follow us below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffinInstagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreatsWebsite - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Every couple argues…, but very few couples know how to turn conflict into closeness.In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples), we explore why old hurts resurface, why the same arguments repeat, and how conscious repair brings your relationship into deeper emotional and erotic intimacy.They share vulnerable stories, body-based wisdom, and the exact practices that help couples rebuild trust, stay grounded, and reconnect even when the nervous system wants to shut down or push away.This conversation will support anyone ready to stop avoiding conflict and start healing what’s underneath it. What You’ll Hear in This EpisodeWhy do old hurts linger until they’re witnessed, and why does your body repeat the same patterns in relationshipsWhat actually happens in your nervous system during conflict, and why small triggers create big reactionsHow avoidance builds resentment… and why repair, not time, is what truly softens woundsFor women: Why being heard, not fixed, restores safety and opens the body to deeper intimacyFor men: How fear of failure, rejection, and shutdown shapes the way they respond in conflictHow softening, grounding, and truth turn conflict into connectionWhat are simple, daily practices that help couples repair faster and reconnect more deeply than ever Conflict isn’t a sign something’s wrong… It’s a sign that something deeper is ready to be healed, witnessed, and transformed into love. ✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here  https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra  ABOUT US: Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love. What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together. They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts. Follow us below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffinInstagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreatsWebsite - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com