Coach Lee

Your ex can still love you, miss you, and think about you every day and yet never come back. So what actually makes an ex decide they want to get back together?

On YouTube at https://youtu.be/dk0OO3QkTDc

In this episode, breakup coach Lee explains five powerful factors that can influence whether an ex chooses to return after a breakup. You'll learn why attraction alone isn't enough, how emotional connection can make you difficult to replace, and why your ex may need to experience the reality of losing you before reconsidering their decision.

You'll also discover why chasing, begging, and repeatedly contacting your ex can actually make reconciliation less likely, how the No Contact Rule can change the dynamics after a breakup, and what ultimately has to happen for your ex's desire to return to become stronger than their reasons for staying away.

If you're wondering whether your ex will come back, whether they still have feelings for you, or what might make them reconsider the breakup, this episode will help you better understand the psychology behind that decision.

Resources from Coach Lee:

Get the $7 Reunion Blueprint: https://ReunionBlueprint.com

Book a coaching session: https://MyExBackCoach.com/coaching

Get the free marriage-saving mini-course: https://MarriageRadio.com

Also mentioned: Coach Lee's movie, The Legend of Van Dorn, available on Amazon Prime Video at https://www.amazon.com/Legend-Van-Dorn-Shane-Stanley/dp/B0GZLGLZNZ/

Your avoidant ex may seem completely over you. They may appear cold, detached, and completely certain about the breakup. But what looks like moving on can sometimes be something very different: deactivation.

Watch on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GhzCGxomEJ4

In this episode, Coach Lee explains how avoidant attachment can cause someone to shut down or lose access to feelings that were once very real. He also discusses why pursuing an avoidant ex can reinforce their need for distance, how no contact can change the emotional dynamic, and why memories and feelings may begin to resurface once the pressure is gone.

If your avoidant ex seems unaffected by losing you, don’t assume that what you’re seeing right now tells you the whole story.

Get the Reunion Blueprint at ReunionBlueprint.com

Get the Free Mini-Course on Saving A Marriage at MarriageRadio.com

Book a Coaching Session With Coach Lee at MyExBackCoach.com/coaching

Watch the video version at https://youtu.be/-8c7nsmkbMo

I recently sat down with my good friend, filmmaker Shane Stanley, for a candid conversation about relationships, marriage, life, friendship, filmmaking, and a lot more.

We also talk about Shane's new film 6 Days in Evergreen, as well as The Legend of Van Dorn, which Shane directed and I had the privilege of starring in.

Shane and I have become close friends through making Van Dorn, so this isn't really a traditional interview. It's two friends sitting down and talking openly about movies, relationships, the things we've learned along the way, and life in general.

I really enjoyed this conversation and hope you will too.

For more information about the movie Coach Lee starred in, see The Legend of Van Dorn at https://LegendofVanDorn.com

See Coach Lee's website on saving relationships at https://MyExBackCoach.com

For saving marriage relationships see https://MarriageRadio.com

Have you ever wondered why your ex seems so determined to stay broken up, even if the relationship was meaningful? One of the hardest parts of a breakup is watching someone who once loved you act certain they made the right decision. But what if that certainty isn't the whole story? In this video, Coach Lee explains why many people feel they need to stick with the breakup at first, why relief can be mistaken for certainty, and why trying to convince your ex to come back often has the opposite effect. You'll also learn why time is such an important part of the reconciliation process and how No Contact allows emotions to settle naturally. Whether you're hoping to get your ex back or simply trying to understand what they're thinking, this video will help you make sense of a confusing stage of the breakup process. If this video helps you, please like it, subscribe, and share it with someone who needs encouragement today.

Get more help:

▶ Coaching/Consulting: https://myexbackcoach.com/coaching

▶ $7 Reunion Blueprint at https://ReunionBlueprint.com

▶ Save Your Marriage: https://www.marriageradio.com/

After a breakup, your emotions can feel overwhelming. In fact, your pain may convince you of things that simply aren't true.

It may tell you that your ex is already over you, that you've lost your chance forever, or that you need to do something immediately before it's too late. Those thoughts feel real because the pain is real. But feelings are not always facts.

In this episode, I explain why heartbreak often distorts your thinking, the five biggest lies emotional pain tells you after a breakup, and how understanding those lies can help you avoid mistakes that hurt both your healing and your chances of reconciliation.

If you're struggling with a breakup, wondering if your ex still loves you, considering the No Contact Rule, or simply trying to find peace after heartbreak, this episode is for you.

Topics covered include:

Why your ex may not actually be over you

Why urgency after a breakup is often misleading

The truth about social media after a breakup

Whether you've really lost your chance forever

Why your current pain won't last forever

How to avoid making decisions based on fear instead of reality

If this episode helps you, please consider following the podcast and sharing it with someone who needs encouragement after a breakup.

Learn more and find additional resources:
https://MyExBackCoach.com

If your spouse wants a separation or divorce, you'll also find resources for married couples here.

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