Ep #26: Secure Situationships Are a Thing - Here’s How to Have One
Can you actually date casually and feel emotionally safe, respected, and secure?Short answer: yes. But most people out here trying to be the “cool girl” in casual dating are actually just abandoning their needs and calling it chill. Let’s clean that up. In this episode, I break down what a secure casual dynamic actually looks like and how to stop treating situationships like a slot machine that might pay out if you just stay cool enough.You’ll learn:The four key ingredients for a secure casual connectionHow to set boundaries without sounding like you're trying to lock them downWhat to do if you catch feelings (without spiralling or people-pleasing)Why you might be secretly performing for love and how to stopExact scripts you can use to express your needs with confidenceWhether you're in your “I just want to flirt and have fun” era, or navigating a situationship that’s starting to feel off, this is the pep talk you need to come back to self and date in a way that actually feels good.💌 Share this with a friend who’s out there trying to act casual but secretly losing her mind after every text. You know the one.🎧 Tune in now! And if this episode resonates, send me a DM on Instagram—I’d love to hear your thoughts! MIMI SOCIAL MEDIACome say hi 👋 (or DM me your biggest takeaway) over on Instagram here!Got something you'd love me to record an episode on? DM me and let me know!
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Ep #25: The Questions Keeping You Anxious in Dating, and What to Ask Instead!
Today’s episode is for the over-thinkers, the self-doubters, and the “was it something I did?” spirallers. If you’ve ever felt triggered after a date and immediately asked “What did I do wrong?” Caught yourself on a mental hamster wheel wondering if you’re too much, not enough, or just cursed in love… Or tried to dissect someone’s texting patterns like it’s a code to crack…this episode is your wake-up call. We’re talking:- Why the questions you ask yourself are the key to your confidence- The difference between a spiral-inducing question vs a self-led one- How to reflect after a date without abandoning yourself- What “asking better questions” actually sounds like in real life- The identity shift that happens when you stop asking “Why didn’t they want me?” and start asking “Did I even feel chosen?”I’m giving you practical tools to redirect your inner world in the moment, so you can stop replaying old patterns and start living into the version of you who feels secure, grounded, and clear as hell in love. This episode will shift the way you think, reflect, and date.🎧 Tune in now! And if this episode resonates, send me a DM on Instagram - I’d love to hear your thoughts! MIMI SOCIAL MEDIACome say hi 👋 (or DM me your biggest takeaway) over on Instagram here!Got something you'd love me to record an episode on? DM me and let me know!
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Ep #24: The Self-Sabotage That Shows Up Right Before You Up-level & How To Overcome It
If you’ve ever hit a point in your healing where you thought, “Why is this happening again?” or “I thought I already worked through this!” this episode is your reminder that healing isn’t a straight line… but every challenge is an invitation to EVOLVE.We’re talking:- How to catch yourself before spiraling into victim mindset- What self-sabotage is really trying to protect you from- A deeply personal story about my most recent PA launch and the shadow it brought up- Why your challenges are a portal to becoming the next version of yourself- How to work with your inner child and nervous system to shift from fear to empowermentPLUS - I take you behind the scenes into a real reprogramming meditation I did with my inner 13-year-old self. I share the fears she brought forward, the words I said to her, and how that single moment of healing created a ripple effect in my external reality.🎧 Tune in now! And if this episode resonates, send me a DM on Instagram - I’d love to hear your thoughts! MIMI SOCIAL MEDIACome say hi 👋 (or DM me your biggest takeaway) over on Instagram here!Got something you'd love me to record an episode on? DM me and let me know!
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Ep #23: Coming Out Later in Life, Queer Dating & Anxious Attachment with Inez Bye
This episode is for every human who’s ever thought: “Am I actually into men… or am I just addicted to their validation?” 😳 …or “I think I might be queer, but I’m terrified of what that means.” Today I’m joined by the brilliant Inez Bye - queer content creator, business coach, and one of my real-life besties, for a no-holds-barred convo on coming out later in life, dating women for the first time, and how anxious attachment still finds a way to sneak in… even when you finally feel like you’ve met “your people.”We’re talking:• That moment when you realise you might be queer (and what happens when you suppress it for years.)• Dating women after only ever dating men and why it can actually bring up more anxiety, not less.• The fantasy of queer dating vs. the reality.• Pedestalling queer women, ignoring red flags, and confusing emotional chaos with connection.• The surprising way dating women changed Inez’s relationship with her body (and why it might do the same for you.)• Rewriting your standards and detaching from the male gaze for GOOD!🎧 Tune in now—and if it speaks to you, send me a DM on Instagram, I would love to hear what landed for you.CONNECT WITH INEZ!Follow her on TikTok: @nezzysparklesFind her on Instagram: @inezbyeMIMI SOCIAL MEDIACome say hi 👋 (or DM me your biggest takeaway) over on Instagram here!Got something you'd love me to record an episode on? DM me and let me know!
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Ep #22: Online Dating, First Dates & Ghosting: Let’s Talk About It All
Today’s episode is a full-on DATING DEBRIEF. If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in dating burnout 🙃, ghosted someone because you weren’t sure how to say “I’m not feeling it,” got ghosted and spiraled hard, or stared at your phone thinking “Do I even want to be dating right now??” 😒 This episode is for you.We’re talking:Why online dating feels so bloody different to meeting someone IRLHow to tell if you actually want to date or if you’re just “should-ing” yourself into itFirst date nerves and how to keep your powerThe ghosting epidemic - why it happens and how to handle it.Getting over the ick (yes, even when he’s wearing marathon sunnies)AND I’m dishing out a little tough love (as always) for my friends who say they want love but can’t even tolerate a slightly awkward voice note. (That’s not an ick, that’s emotional unavailability in disguise and we need to talk.) 🎧 Tune in now! And if this episode resonates, send me a DM on Instagram—I’d love to hear your thoughts! MIMI SOCIAL MEDIACome say hi 👋 (or DM me your biggest takeaway) over on Instagram here!Got something you'd love me to record an episode on? DM me and let me know!
Your go-to space to break free from anxious dating patterns, find your confidence, and feel secure in love, with dating & relationship expert, Mimi Watt.
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