The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose

In this episode, Dr. Sara Kuburic discusses how to discover yourself, one decision at a time. Questions like: Who are you beyond your job, your relationships, and the roles you fill? Drawing from her book, It’s on Me: Accept Hard Truths, Discover Yourself, and Change Your Life, Sara shares how she lost touch with herself while building a life that looked good from the outside. She also explores why understanding your past is only part of creating change, how taking responsibility differs from blaming yourself, and how small, intentional choices can help you build a life that feels like your own.

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Key Takeaways:

How living according to what you think you should want can leave you disconnected from yourself.

Why understanding the roots of your behavior doesn’t automatically change it—and how everyday choices help turn insight into action.

How to take responsibility for your healing without blaming yourself for what happened to you.

Why discovering yourself is an ongoing practice, rather than a single breakthrough.

How recognizing the choices behind familiar obligations can restore a sense of freedom and agency.

Why authenticity sometimes means making an uncomfortable decision that aligns with your values.

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If you enjoyed this conversation with Sara Kuberic, check out these other episodes:

Finding Your Way to Healing, Hope, and Peace with Seth Gillihan

How to Own Our Struggles and Find Healing with Minaa B.

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In this episode, David Epstein explores why doing more can leave us overwhelmed, and how the right constraints can help us focus and make meaningful progress. Drawing on his book, Inside the Box: How Constraints Make Us Better, David shares why unlimited freedom can be surprisingly paralyzing and why adding another self-improvement habit isn’t always the answer. He and Eric discuss how to protect your attention, stop endlessly preparing, and make room for what matters before your to-do list is finished.

Feeling overwhelmed in your life? Check out ⁠⁠Overwhelm is Optional ⁠⁠— a 4-week email course that helps you feel calmer and more grounded without needing to do less. In under 10 minutes a day, you’ll learn simple mindset shifts (called “Still Points”) you can use right inside the life you already have. ⁠⁠Sign up here for only $29!⁠

Key Takeaways:

Why limits can spark creativity by pushing us beyond our most familiar ideas

How simple routines and clear boundaries reduce the burden of constantly deciding what to do next

Why making progress often requires removing a commitment before adding something new

How frequent task switching fragments attention and increases stress—even when we feel busy

Why identifying the real bottleneck can accomplish more than optimizing everything else

How to “consolidate your caring” by choosing commitments that reflect your values and fit your finite capacity

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If you enjoyed this conversation with David Epstein, check out these other episodes:

From Overwhelm to Empowerment: Harnessing Tiny Shifts for Emotional Resilience with Elisha Goldstein

Are You Playing a Game You Actually Want to Win? | Seth Godin

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In this episode, Eric joins Dr. Laurie Santos on The Happiness Lab to explore why lasting change takes more than willpower—and how to develop the skills that make it easier. Drawing on his recovery from addiction and his book, How a Little Becomes a Lot, Eric shares how manageable actions help us build momentum and regain trust in ourselves. They also discuss how to choose goals that reflect what matters to you and keep making progress when motivation fades.

Free Guide: Outsmart the Hidden Saboteurs of Self-Control. What’s been holding you back lately? In this free guide, Eric shares the six common saboteurs that quietly derail our best intentions—like autopilot behavior, self-doubt, and emotional escapism—and offers practical strategies to help you regain control and move forward. Download your free copy at ⁠oneyoufeed.net/ebook.⁠

Key Takeaways:

Why struggling to change doesn’t mean something is wrong with you—and how treating change as a skill opens up new possibilities

How starting smaller than you think you should can build motivation and confidence

Why resistance can persist even when an activity consistently makes you feel better

How to distinguish your own values from desires shaped by comparison and your surroundings

How specific plans and small adjustments to your environment make following through easier

Why planning for setbacks and asking for support help you sustain change over time

To learn more, ⁠click here!⁠

If you enjoyed this conversation with Eric Zimmer and Dr. Lauri Santos, check out these other episodes:

Small Steps to Happiness: The Science of Mindful Living with Laurie Santos

How a Little Becomes a Lot: A Conversation with Eric Zimmer and Sahil Bloom

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In this episode, Dr. Zaldy Tan explores how to live well with memory loss and what an Alzheimer’s diagnosis means for individuals and the people who love them. Drawing on his own experience caring for family members with Alzheimer’s, he discusses the questions many of us carry about forgetfulness, aging, and the fear of losing our independence. Together, they discuss how to stay connected as memory changes, make important decisions early, and approach caregiving with compassion—including for yourself. His new book is What to Remember When You Are Forgetting: How to Live and Thrive with Memory Loss, Alzheimer's, and Other Dementias

Free Guide: Outsmart the Hidden Saboteurs of Self-Control. What’s been holding you back lately? In this free guide, Eric shares the six common saboteurs that quietly derail our best intentions—like autopilot behavior, self-doubt, and emotional escapism—and offers practical strategies to help you regain control and move forward. Download your free copy at oneyoufeed.net/ebook.

Key Takeaways:

How to distinguish everyday forgetfulness from changes that warrant a closer look

What Alzheimer’s blood tests and genetic testing can—and can’t—tell us

Why addressing health risks in midlife matters for long-term brain health

How honest conversations about a diagnosis can help preserve friendships and meaningful activities

Why familiar routines and reassurance can help when reasoning with someone with dementia doesn’t

How caregivers can prepare for changing needs and find support before reaching exhaustion

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If you enjoyed this conversation with Zaldy Tan, check out these other episodes:

Eating for Brain Health with Lisa Mosconi

The Science of Emotions: How Your Brain Predicts Your Feelings with Lisa Feldman Barrett

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Are you playing a game you actually want to win? In this episode, Seth Godin explores how to make intentional choices about the life you’re building—and recognize when someone else’s definition of success is steering you off course. Drawing on his book, This Is Strategy, Seth shares why chasing more can distract us from what matters, how the systems around us shape our behavior, and why a disappointing outcome doesn’t necessarily mean we made a bad decision.

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Key Takeaways:

Why strategy matters in everyday life, beyond business and career goals

How to recognize the systems shaping your choices—and find opportunities to act differently

Why measuring the wrong things can pull you away from the change you want to make

How to shift your attention from achieving more to doing work that matters

The difference between a good decision and a good outcome

How to think about whether to keep going or change your approach

Why community helps us sustain meaningful change

How today’s choices shape the person you’re becoming

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⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠How a Little Becomes a Lot: The Art of Small Changes for a More Meaningful Life⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ is available now! Order your copy today!

If you enjoyed this conversation with Seth Godin, check out these other episodes:

How to Integrate Behavior Change with Your Values with Spencer Greenberg

How to Get Unstuck with Adam Alter

How to Think More Clearly and Make Better Decisions with Shane Parrish

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