

How to Get Started With BDSM in 2026
12/1/2026 | 15min
#120 Kink curious but overwhelmed?👉 Take the free kink personality type quiz: https://domsubliving.com/quizYou don’t need extreme play, expensive toys, or a dungeon to start BDSM. In this episode, we're sharing a clear, beginner-friendly path to consent, power exchange, starter kinks, first scenes, and building a real Dom/sub dynamic that actually works in real life.Follow the show and listen now.➡️ Fee kink personality type quiz: https://domsubliving.com/quiz➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/120

From Bedroom Kink to Living 24/7 D/s
05/1/2026 | 32min
#119 24/7 D/s isn’t something you jump into overnight. We're breaking down the real phases that take couples from bedroom-only kink into a lived 24/7 power exchange—without rushing, forcing labels, or burning out. If you feel stuck in the middle, this will make the path clearer. Follow the show so you don’t miss what comes next.➡️ Free BDSM contract template: https://domsubliving.com/contract➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/008 ❤️ Join the All-Access Pass for community, coaching, and courses: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess

2025 Broke Me… But It Also Built Me
29/12/2025 | 38min
#118 I almost didn’t release this episode—and that’s exactly why I had to. In this raw episode, I'm sharing the good, bad, and ugly of a tough year: surviving long-distance D/s, facing kink community drama, and the hard boundaries I drew to protect myself and my work. Listen through the end to hear what’s coming next—and why I'm not backing down.➡️ Access the free Resource Library: https://domsubliving.com/free➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/118 ❤️ Join the All-Access Pass for community, coaching, and courses: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess

Kinky vs. Vanilla: Can Your Relationship Survive the Difference?
22/12/2025 | 21min
#117 One of you is kinky, the other... not so much. Is that a deal-breaker—or just a hard conversation you’ve been avoiding? Relationship coach Amanda Dames breaks down how kinky/vanilla couples can talk about desire without shame, translate needs clearly, and decide what’s actually sustainable long-term. No pressure. No fixing. Just honesty. Listen now, then follow Amanda Dames and check out The Kink Consultant podcast for deeper guidance.➡️ Check out Amanda's site: https://www.amandadames.com➡️ Listen to her podcast, The Kink Consultant: https://podfollow.com/1766435920➡️ Download her free workbook, "Speak Your Desires with Confidence": https://www.amandadames.com/Speak-Your-Desires-with-Confidence-opt-in-1

Dirty Talk, Punishment, Trust Issues—Let’s Talk D/s
15/12/2025 | 48min
#116 What do you do when real life and D/s collide?👉 Join the free Dom Sub Living Community: https://domsubliving.com/communityToday Jay and Alesandra answer your biggest Dom/sub questions: long-distance rules, sub drop, fear of judgment, family boundaries, punishment, switching, and even dirty talk styles. Join our Dom Sub Living Community to ask your own questions next episode!➡️ Join the free Dom Sub Living Community: https://domsubliving.com/community➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/116 ❤️ Join the All-Access Pass for community, coaching, and courses: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess



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