Ask Kati Anything

Eating disorder shapeshifting explained, therapy dissociation tips, no contact with adult child response, self-acceptance after weight gain, feeling unseen or outcast, skin picking dermatillomania, broken UK NHS mental health system, social anxiety in sessions, neurodivergent experiences, body image struggles, anxiety after injury, DSM vs ICD-11 differences, parasocial relationships advice. Licensed marriage and family therapist Kati Morton answers your real questions in this Ask Kati Anything episode—get expert insights on coping, recovery, and feeling seen.

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Audience questions:

0:47 - Q1: Mind goes blank when therapist asks 'what do you need?' (social anxiety, dissociation)

6:16 - Q2: Why eating disorders shapeshift from restricting to bingeing (neurodivergent impact)

15:17 - Add-on: Self-acceptance vs weight loss first mindset in ED recovery (body image fears)

21:03 - Q3: Anxiety, depression after injury and loss of independence (positive mindset tips)

29:05 - Q4: Key differences between DSM and ICD-11 for diagnosing mental illnesses

34:05 - Q5: Feeling like an outcast or invisible - how to build inclusion and connections

43:20 - Q6: Dermatillomania (skin picking) - causes, tips, and tricks to stop

47:35 - Q7: Navigating broken mental health systems and feeling unhelpable

54:21 - Q8: Best response when an adult child goes no contact (with compassion and respect)

1:01:04 - Q9: Navigating parasocial relationships with content creators and celebrities

MY BOOKS

Why Do I Keep Doing This? https://geni.us/XoyLSQ

Traumatized https://geni.us/Bfak0j

Are u ok? https://geni.us/sva4iUY

ONLINE THERAPY? Enjoy 10% off your first month:

While I do not currently offer online therapy, BetterHelp can connect you with a licensed, online therapist: https://betterhelp.com/kati

PARTNERSHIPS

Nick Freeman | [email protected]

DISCLAIMER

The information provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical or mental health advice. It should not be used to diagnose or treat any health problem or disease. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional for diagnosis and treatment. Viewing this content does not establish a therapist-client relationship.

Ask Kati Anything ep. 303 | Your mental health podcast, with Kati Morton, LMFT
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Whether you are struggling with depression, addiction, or seeking motivation, Justin’s story is a roadmap for anyone feeling lost in the dark. "I was the youngest heavyweight in the country, and I was losing the only fight that mattered." In this powerful episode Kati speaks with Justin Wren for a raw conversation on mental health, resilience, and the recovery journey. Justin pulls back the curtain on a life of extreme highs and devastating lows, from the "merciless" bullying he faced as a child in Texas to the secret OxyContin addiction that haunted his professional MMA career. We dive deep into the "living nightmare" of substance abuse, where Justin managed a massive intake of pills while fighting on the world’s biggest stage. He shares the heartbreaking moment he hit rock bottom after missing his best friend's wedding and the moment in Tulum that gave him a second chance at life. Justin also discusses his work with Fight for the Forgotten, his nonprofit dedicated to providing clean water and land rights to the Mbuti Pygmy people in Uganda and Eastern Congo. He shares the beautiful, life-altering lessons he learned about community, grief, and Post-Traumatic Growth (PTG) that helped him find true healing.

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In this episode:

00:00 – Meet guest Justin Wren

01:41 – The "merciless" bullying Justin faced in grade school

08:34 – Moving schools and finding mentorship through Olympic wrestling coaches

13:54 – Discovering the UFC

18:18 – Learning to "swim in the deep end" by wrestling 200 matches a year

18:49 – Finding purpose by speaking in over 100 correctional facilities

26:54 – The freak injury that led to a massive opioid addiction

33:07 – Rock bottom: "I can't believe you missed my wedding."

34:10 – The attempt to end it all in Tulum and the miracle survival

44:48 – Understanding Post-Traumatic Growth (PTG) with Dr. Daniel Amen

49:32 – The cycle of "dry drunk" vs. real recovery

53:51 – Fight for the Forgotten: Deep work on land rights and sustainable water

01:04:13 – Explaining depression to a culture that has no word for "suicide."

01:17:08 – The Statue of Responsibility and giving a "hand up," not a "handout."

JUSTIN WREN

https://www.fightfortheforgotten.org/

Ask Kati Anything ep. 302 | Your mental health podcast, with Kati Morton, LMFT

MY BOOKS

Why Do I Keep Doing This? https://geni.us/XoyLSQ

Traumatized https://geni.us/Bfak0j

Are u ok? https://geni.us/sva4iUY

ONLINE THERAPY (enjoy 10% off your first month)

While I do not currently offer online therapy, BetterHelp can connect you with a licensed, online therapist: https://betterhelp.com/kati

PARTNERSHIPS

Nick Freeman | [email protected]

Disclaimer:

The information provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical or mental health advice. It should not be used to diagnose or treat any health problem or disease. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional for diagnosis and treatment. Viewing this content does not establish a therapist-client relationship.
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In this episode of Ask Kati Anything, licensed marriage and family therapist Kati Morton addresses eight deeply personal mental health questions from the community. From navigating chronic suicidal ideation to coping with hearing voices while trying to study, Kati provides clinical insight with compassion and practical guidance.

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TOPICS COVERED

0:00 - Introduction

1:19 - Living with chronic suicidal ideation and finding hope when treatments haven't worked

7:04 - Distinguishing between personality and mental health symptoms (especially when medication changes)

18:30 - Grieving a version of yourself you never got to know

27:15 - Eating disorder relapse and navigating inadequate care systems

35:42 - What to say when therapy isn't the right fit

42:08 - How clinicians approach weight changes and honesty in eating disorder treatment

47:51 - Shame, self-doubt, and dissociative identity disorder (DID)

52:36 - Coping with hearing voices while studying in college

RESOURCES MENTIONED

• VNS (Vagus Nerve Stimulation)

• Ketamine treatment

• ECT (Electroconvulsive therapy)

• EMDR therapy

• DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy)

CRISIS RESOURCES

• National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988

• Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741

• International resources: http://findahelpline.com

CONNECT

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Ask Kati Anything ep. 301 | Your mental health podcast, with Kati Morton, LMFT

ONLINE THERAPY (enjoy 10% off your first month)

While I do not currently offer online therapy, BetterHelp can connect you with a licensed, online therapist: https://betterhelp.com/kati

PARTNERSHIPS

Nick Freeman | [email protected]

Disclaimer

The information provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical or mental health advice. It should not be used to diagnose or treat any health problem or disease. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional for diagnosis and treatment. Viewing this content does not establish a therapist-client relationship.
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In this episode of Ask Kati Anything, Kati is joined by Jen Birn, editor of Austin Lifestyle magazine. Jen has built a life on her own terms, parlaying her high-octane success in the celebrity journalism scenes of New York and Los Angeles into a career that is currently transforming the landscape of Austin.

Jen’s path was built on pure grit and "fake it 'til you make it" scrappiness. From waitressing in a music bar where she convinced the Gin Blossoms to give her an interview that launched her career, to navigating family crisis, Jen has faced the kind of relatable struggles that define a survivalist spirit.

Along the way she shares stories from a career spent crossing paths with figures like Richard Branson, Johnny Depp & David Arquette, transitioning from the 24/7 hustle to finding balance, biohacking for longevity, and reclaiming your time. Jen Birn is an inspiration who proves that success isn't about having a perfect start—it's about the resilience to keep chasing the sunset until you find home.

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MORE JEN

Chasing Sunsets Down I-80 https://amzn.to/3LHpVgU

https://citylifestyle.com/austin/issues

MY BOOKS

Why Do I Keep Doing This? https://geni.us/XoyLSQ

Traumatized https://geni.us/Bfak0j

Are u ok? https://geni.us/sva4iUY

ONLINE THERAPY (enjoy 10% off your first month)

While I do not currently offer online therapy, BetterHelp can connect you with a licensed, online therapist: https://betterhelp.com/kati

PARTNERSHIPS

Nick Freeman | [email protected]

Ask Kati Anything ep. 298 | Your mental health podcast, with Kati Morton, LMFT
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What if your best days haven't even happened yet? In this episode of Ask Kati Anything, I’m joined by the incredible Amy Edwards—CEO, author, and host of The Amy Edwards Show. At 53, Amy is the happiest she’s ever been, but getting here required walking through some of life’s darkest valleys.

We dive deep into the messy, complicated, and ultimately beautiful process of transformation. Amy opens up about the stigma of being twice-divorced, the "blackout" period of losing her voice during a legal battle, and her unconventional journey through psychedelic healing and sobriety.

Whether you are struggling with a "failed" relationship, feeling stuck in a cycle of rumination, or wondering if it's too late to start over, this conversation is a reminder that you don't need anything outside of yourself to access hope.

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Chapters

00:00 – Meet Amy Edwards

03:04 – Becoming the "Matriarchs" after losing parents

04:29 – Religious differences and choosing love over judgment

09:35 – The reality of divorce at 25 vs. later in life

13:57 – A perfect storm: Pregnancy, losing a mother, and a broken leg

17:46 – The "Rebound Marriage" and learning to stand up for yourself

21:14 – Why "Staying for the Kids" can be the real failure

26:42 – Modeling resilience: Showing children that women can do anything

30:12 – Mental health tools: The "Don't Drink the Drano Today" logic

36:32 – Psychedelics and Ego Death: Rewiring the brain

40:32 – Ketamine therapy and clearing the "ruminating sand"

43:10 – The road to sobriety and finding a growth-mindset partner

54:19 – The "Table" Metaphor: Breaking the cycle of transactional love

01:03:16 – Losing your voice: When the body forces you to slow down

01:07:37 – Radical Self-Love: doing mirror work

01:15:45 – Your best days haven't happened yet

MORE AMY

https://www.youtube.com/@TheAmyEdwardsShow The Trouble with Becoming a Witch: A Novel by Amy Edwards https://amzn.to/4ahkoFU

https://www.instagram.com/realamyedwards/

MY BOOKS


Why Do I Keep Doing This? https://geni.us/XoyLSQ


Traumatized https://geni.us/Bfak0j


Are u ok? https://geni.us/sva4iUY

ONLINE THERAPY (enjoy 10% off your first month)

While I do not currently offer online therapy, BetterHelp can connect you with a licensed, online therapist: https://betterhelp.com/kati

PARTNERSHIPS

Nick Freeman | [email protected]

DISCLAIMER

The information provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical or mental health advice. It should not be used to diagnose or treat any health problem or disease. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional for diagnosis and treatment. Viewing this content does not establish a therapist-client relationship.

Ask Kati Anything ep. 300 | Your mental health podcast, with Kati Morton, LMFT
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