The Neurodivergent Connection / The Curious Storyteller

Seeing Ourselves in Fiction: Neurodivergent Characters That Actually Feel Real with Author Luna Westish
Representation isn’t just about labels—it’s about feeling seen. Today, I sit down with debut author Luna Westish to explore how fiction can shift how we understand Autism, ADHD, anxiety, and ourselves.
You’ll hear how Luna wrote a character readers either relate to deeply or find frustrating and why both reactions matter. I reveal the surprising moments that made me rethink labels, we compare “token” characters to fully human ones, and you’ll discover how inner monologue, sensory detail, and own voices storytelling can change empathy without turning pain into plot armor.
We also talk about growth that doesn’t erase struggle, the lines between honest depiction and drama, and why reading outside our comfort zones prepares us for real life at home, in classrooms, and in community.
If you’ve never seen yourself on the page, this conversation offers a starting point and a few questions that might change what you pick up next

About the Guest
Luna Westish is the author of Meet Me at the Ruins, a character-driven novel that threads anxiety, relationships, and messy growth with care. She’s also taught business to kids and adults, worked in federal policy, and made jewelry because one lane was never going to cut it.

Key Timestamps
0:03 – Why fiction can change how we see our own minds

2:06 – The first time a character felt “too familiar”

6:49 – What representation gets wrong (and what’s finally improving)

10:01 – Sensory layers that make characters believable

11:22 – Real vs. tokenized: the role of inner life

13:07 – Do labels help—or do subtleties matter more?

15:19 – Writing Meet Me at the Ruins: when representation found her

19:10 – Writing as healing (and why it can feel like therapy)

24:27 – Honoring struggle without exploiting it

29:04 – Showing growth without minimizing the hard stuff

32:50 – Why “just a story” isn’t just a story

44:14 – Readers who felt seen—and why that matters

51:46 – Where to find Luna’s book and connect

Resources: lunawestish.com • bookshop.org • Available via libraries on Hoopla and Libby
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Executive Function Isn’t Laziness: Rethinking “Motivation,” Shame, and Support with Coach Carrie Bonnet
Executive function isn’t laziness—it’s a brain thing. In this episode, I sit with coach Carrie Bonnet to reframe the struggle.
If you’ve ever wondered why smart kids (and adults) still miss deadlines, lose steam, or freeze at “start,” this conversation will feel like a breath out. I ask Carrie Bonnet—Executive Function Coach, veteran teacher, and adjunct instructor at the University of Portland—what this actually feels like from the inside and what support looks like when we remove shame and lead with the brain.
You’ll hear why paper beats apps when you’re new to planning, how time blindness fuels the last-minute cycle, and the key shift parents and teachers can make that changes everything. We also get into the messy middle: boredom that feels like torture, the myth of “I work best under pressure,” and why “not caring” often isn’t the story at all.

I reveal where I’ve struggled too, and Carrie shares simple, sustainable ways we can make the invisible visible—without giving a full step-by-step here. By the end, you’ll be asking different questions and seeing different outcomes.
Questions to listen for: What makes task initiation so hard? How does shame sneak in? And what small moves reduce overwhelm today?

About the Guest
Carrie Bonnet is an Executive Function Coach, veteran middle and high school teacher, and adjunct instructor at the University of Portland. She works with students, families, and early-career teachers. Carrie lives in Oregon and is a mom to two teens.

Key Timestamps
0:02 – Welcome and who Carrie is

2:11 – The sixth grader who changed how we saw “late work”

5:10 – When it clicked: not laziness, not a moral failing

9:23 – Life skills don’t teach themselves (and why that matters)

12:00 – Paper vs. digital calendars: which one first?

15:20 – Backward planning a massive project without burning out

18:08 – “I work best under pressure”… or do I?

19:59 – What executive function challenges feel like from the inside (“borchure”)

23:13 – Overwhelm, time blindness, emotional flooding

25:16 – Dopamine, tiny wins, and the short timer spark

26:41 – Not caring vs. not being able

28:13 – The parent shift: replace judgment with curiosity

30:35 – No-shame, brain-first: where shame sneaks in

34:40 – Why it can take longer to read, grasp, and process

36:49 – “Strategy shopping” and the wallet solution

47:49 – The missing link in schools

50:54 – When the system isn’t a fit for the brain in front of us

52:53 – Make the invisible visible: classroom wins

55:20 – Why it’s harder for some brains (and what to remember)

58:01 – For anyone who feels broken: you’re not

58:54 – Where to find Carrie’s resources

Resources: Grab Carrie’s Task Initiation Toolkit: carriebonnet.com/toolkit
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Non-Speaking Is Not Non-Understanding: Autism-Affirming Inclusion with Amanda Toren
Non-speaking doesn’t mean non-understanding. In this episode, I sit down with Amanda Toren to rethink communication and real inclusion.
Amanda is an autism mom, speech and behavioral therapist, clinical autism specialist, and inclusion specialist who runs an inclusive martial arts academy. Together, we get honest about what belonging looks like beyond words—and what schools and programs often miss.
You’ll hear how Amanda builds autism-affirming environments where communication is a human right, why regulation comes before compliance, and how small wins add up to big change. I also press into the question so many parents and educators ask: What does success look like for a non-speaking student—and how do we know it’s happening?
I reveal the shift that changes outcomes in both the dojo and the classroom, and you’ll discover the first small step any educator can put in place tomorrow. We also talk about the quiet grief parents carry, what to say instead of “I’m sorry,” and the moment a single bow on the mat changed everything.
If you’ve wondered how AAC fits into sports, what “autism-affirming” really looks like, or why inclusion isn’t just “sharing a room,” this one’s for you.

About the Guest
Amanda Toren is an autism mom and a speech and behavioral therapist with 14+ years of experience. She’s a clinical autism specialist and inclusion specialist who owns an inclusive martial arts school focused on AAC, regulation, and strengths-based coaching for neurodivergent kids.

Timestamps
0:02 – Welcome and who Amanda is

1:12 – The early emotions of parenting a non-speaking child

3:03 – Behavior as communication and the role of AAC

6:31 – Support gaps and what to say instead of “I’m sorry”

12:19 – Why martial arts and what it builds beyond kicks and punches

16:33 – Honoring communication beyond words

18:08 – Autism-affirming inclusion in practice

20:29 – What well-meaning programs often get wrong

26:37 – Regulation before compliance: the shift

29:23 – A small step educators can use tomorrow

30:55 – The power of small wins: one student’s breakthrough

38:23 – Taking inclusion beyond one academy (Amanda’s e-book)

41:46 – Where to find Amanda

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Late-Diagnosed at 65: Creativity, Compassion, and Coming Home to Yourself with Caroline Carey
I sit down with Caroline Carey, a creative, author, and grandmother who was diagnosed with AuDHD in her mid-60s—and everything started to make sense.

In this conversation, I open up about my own assessment experience while Caroline shares how a “you’re not depressed, you’re overwhelmed” moment changed her path. You’ll discover how she re-framed decades of school struggle, why dance became her nervous system’s anchor, and the unexpected support that finally let her ask for help in her business.

I reveal the questions I ask late-identified adults to spot patterns, while Caroline explains how she now sees rejection sensitivity, travel anxiety, and masking through a new lens. We also tease the spiritual thread that runs through her work—and the book she wrote once she realized what she’d been writing about all along.

By the end, you’ll be thinking about overwhelm vs. depression, what real support can look like, and how to tell when you’re “being you” versus blending in. And you might walk away asking: What if the world is finally coming to meet you?

About the Guest
Caroline Carey is a UK-based creative, author of “The Neurodivergent Soul,” soul cartographer, and longtime movement facilitator. She supports artists, writers, and difference-makers to express their stories with compassion and clarity.

Key Timestamps
0:02 – Welcome and late diagnosis at 65

5:08 – “Not depressed—overwhelmed” and the assessment that followed

9:21 – Who Caroline was 30 years ago and the dance that kept her steady

19:23 – What life felt like on the inside: love, exhaustion, overwhelm

23:26 – Masking, people-pleasing, and choosing authenticity

27:28 – The moment autism “clicked” and polarity made sense

30:32 – Writing “The Neurodivergent Soul” and naming the real story

40:12 – Travel anxiety, planning, and why “just relax” doesn’t help

53:22 – The UK grant that changed her business support

58:57 – Where to find Caroline’s work

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Explore Caroline’s work: middleearthmedicine.com
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Dana’s journey into the world of parenting a nonverbal autistic child began with a heavy sense of uncertainty, realizing in a little gym class that her daughter wasn’t meeting the same milestones as the other kids. At first, she tried to brush off her worries, chalking it up to first-time parent nerves and hoping her daughter was just a late bloomer. But those feelings of doubt grew stronger as she watched other children play and interact, while her own daughter struggled to sit up or show interest in toys. The weight of not knowing what the future held was overwhelming, but Dana’s love for her daughter pushed her to embrace the unknown. She dove into therapies, from aquatic to horseback riding, and learned to see the world through a new lens—one where every small victory was hard-won and deeply meaningful. Through her daughter’s silence, Dana discovered a voice of determination within herself, vowing to advocate, connect with other families, and transform her own challenges into hope for others.,When Dana first noticed her daughter’s delays, the realization hit her during a simple gym class surrounded by other parents and babies. While everyone else seemed to be moving forward, she felt stuck in a swirl of worry and self-doubt, unsure if she was overreacting or missing something important. The fear of not knowing how to help her child, or what her daughter’s future might look like, weighed on her every day. Yet, instead of shutting down, Dana became fiercely observant and resourceful, trying every therapy she could find and learning to pick up on even the smallest cues from her nonverbal daughter. This experience didn’t just change her parenting—it changed her entire perspective, making her more compassionate, resilient, and determined to build supportive spaces for families like hers. Dana’s story is about finding meaning in the unknown, and letting her daughter’s unique journey inspire her to help others navigate this path with empathy and hope.

Dana Garrett offers a unique blend of insight and empathy as both a devoted autism mom and an outspoken advocate for neurodivergent children. Living in South Louisiana, Dana’s journey has been shaped by her experiences raising a nonverbal daughter, which led her to dive deep into therapies like aquatic and sensory integration. She’s not just a parent—she’s also a children’s book author who uses storytelling to foster understanding and acceptance for kids with special needs. Dana’s approachable style and willingness to talk about the hard moments make her relatable to parents feeling overwhelmed or alone. Through her support groups and creative projects, she’s created a real sense of community for families navigating similar challenges, always emphasizing the value of listening, learning, and letting every child shine in their own way.

Dana's Resources:
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Look for Dana Garrett’s books on IngramSpark for wider store availability.

Attend Dana Garrett’s local book signings and sensory night events.

Danagarrett.com

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