Love-Listen-Talk-Repeat Podcast with Wendy Capewell

INTRO   Adrian Huxley is a counsellor and psychotherapist living in beautiful West Somerset. He is also the owner of West Somerset Counselling which he formed some eight years ago CONTENT Both Adrian and I have talked to many clients who have been taken care of as children, in as much as they have been fed and clothed,but they have missed out on their emotional needs – they haven’t been loved in the way they should have. This has impacted their adult relationships, because they just don’t know how to do it. They close up, they find it difficult, or they act inappropriately, believing sex equals love for example. But the bottom line is – it’s not your fault, listen in to hear the reasons why. BIO After a life where I had known dark and unhappy times, I arrived in West Somerset 14 years ago. I met my second wife soon after arriving and we settled down together and had 12 happy years of marriage. I sadly lost her in 2020 but I was lucky to have the support of special friends and family. I am now beginning the next stage of my life, I'm not sure what that will involve but then, finding out is what will make it fun.  CONTACT DETAILS / LINKS Website - https://westsomersetcounselling.co.uk/ Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/adrianhuxley/ Facebook -https://www.facebook.com/adrianhuxley/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/adrian25853   ABOUT WENDY CAPEWELL Wendy is a Psychotherapist and Counsellor, living in Hampshire, she has been helping and supporting individauls and couples who are struggling, feeling lost, or helpless for over 18 years. She understands that people need a safe space to be heard without judgement.  And understands how frightening and lonely it can be out there, having  been there herself.  Connect with Wendy Here...... Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Copewelltherapies Linked in - https://www.linkedin.com/in/wendycapewell/ YouTube Channel -  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUovcqsmI_c3rQ5oGUbiZtA Website - https://www.wendycapewell.co.uk/ Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/wendycapewell/ Book –‘From Surviving to Thriving in a Romantic Relationship’- Link to Amazon Email – [email protected] Sign up for my Newsletter -  http://bit.ly/2RpjY8g If you have enjoyed this show then please leave a review.      

INTRO         Elizabeth Payce and her business ‘Payce Your Change’ focuses on supporting women in ther 40s and 50s to have the space and permission to face issues head on and to move forward with authenticity.    CONTENT Elizabeth began by talking about how women often get to a certain age where they feel invisible. They have beencaring for everyone else, their partner,their children, grandchildren, other  r relatives, giving them drive and purpose. But then they are no longer needed, leaving ahuge void in their lives. Others in their lives stop seeing them as a person, instead the label they have worn. Elizabeth says this is a time to for women to find themselves,and what they really want.  BIO Elizabeth Payce is a dedicated coach and NLP practitioner having qualified  in 2011 with diplomas in both through The Coaching Academy.  In 2022 Elizabeth established ‘Payce Your Change – Be Authentically You’ coaching.  Since then she has focused on evolving coaching, NLP and mentoring practices to support women through midlife.  In her 50s herself, Elizabeth has experienced a wide range of personal issues which through coaching and mentoring she has been able to face head on.  In turn with her coaching and mentoring experiences she wants to empower women to focus on their needs and to put themselves first in their lives.   She advocates for women to be visible and to be heard.  Her coaching offer grows around each woman she talks with.      She is also now a podcaster, creating ‘Fabulous Women Kickass’ with two other amazing coaches.  The honest conversations between the three women all in midlife gives insight into the pressures, challenges and opportunities for women.   Prior to this Elizabeth worked in the museum sector after her academic journey saw her gain a Postgraduate Diploma in Heritage Studies at Nottingham Trent University.  From 1995 she worked in a range of museums, in Chichester, Weston-super-Mare, Romford then in a support role across Bath, Somerset and Swindon.   Working in museums gave Elizabeth exposure to ideas of how to support people to connect with their heritage.  She produced a wide range of exhibitions utilising the breadth of collections in each museum.  One project she is particularly proud of is ‘Then and Now - Teens through the Time Warp’.  This saw a group of young people manage this exhibition project whereby they researched and produced an exhibition on youth culture from the 1950s.  It was in top three projects for young people funded by the National Lottery Heritage Fund in 2007 and was featured on national television.   Elizabeth remains a dedicated supporter of Museums.  She is now a trustee of the Royal Crown Derby Museum and Tiverton Museum of Mid Devon Life.    Outside of her business Elizabeth loves walking and photography, two complementary activities.  She is an avid listener to crime thriller audio books as well as a reader of non-fiction works to keep her up to date with current practice.   Her time is also spent with her wonderful Greek partner Alex and her beautiful cats, Kes and Pixie.   CONTACT DETAILS / LINKS Website - www.payceyourchange.co.uk   Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/elizabeth-payce/   Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Elizabethpaycecoaching/   Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/payce_your_change/   ABOUT WENDY CAPEWELL Wendy is a Psychotherapist and Counsellor,  living in Hampshire, helping and supporting individauls and couples who are struggling, feeling lost, or helpless. Who need a safe space to be heard without judgement.  She understands how frightening and lonely it can be out there, as she’s been there herself.  Connect with Wendy Here...... Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Copewelltherapies Linked in - https://www.linkedin.com/in/wendycapewell/ YouTube Channel -  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUovcqsmI_c3rQ5oGUbiZtA Website - https://www.wendycapewell.co.uk/ Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/wendycapewell/ Book –‘From Surviving to Thriving in a Romantic Relationship’- Link to Amazon Email – [email protected] Sign up for my Newsletter -  http://bit.ly/2RpjY8g If you have enjoyed this show then please leave a review.      

www.linkedin.com/in/piers-cross/INTRO Piers is an author, a coach and a podcast host. He specialises in helping men who are struggling with overwhelm, burnout and relationship issues. And he specialises in working with men who have had some form of trauma or been to boarding school. WHAT WE TALKED ABOUT Piers talks about how his experiences of his time at boarding school,  and the long lasting effects it had on him as an adulthood and into his relationships. How he suffered burn-out, and that amongst other difficult life events was the catalyst to changing a great deal in his life. A fascinating and moving story. BIO I am a transformational coach specialising in working with men who feel stuck in life. I also help men overcome and heal from trauma, boarding school issues, anxiety, depression and live a happier and more fulfilled life. I was originally trained in International Business at universities in France and London. I then worked for several Fortune 500 companies in Paris and London. In 1997, while in London, I started on an internal journey and started to study meditation and different self-healing paradigms. In 2000, I suffered burnout through a combination of my father passing, and leaving my long-term relationship. I eventually left London to work in Africa helping volunteers. Several years later I found myself living in a Buddhist monastery where I took Novice robes and stayed for over 3 years. My years in the monastery were extremely intense – I had a breakdown, and did intense Jungian analysis - healing boarding school trauma and growing up with an alcoholic. I also had Chronic Fatigue during this time. After leaving the monastery in 2005 I started to study with different teachers in differing areas: shamanism, tantra, EFT, NLP, Hypnosis, raw food, metaphysics, Taoism, Qigong… After meeting my wife, Michelle, in 2007, I started to study sacred sexuality and have continued my learning journey about how to awakenhttps://www.instagram.com/anevolvingman/ . ABOUT WENDY CAPEWELL happiness in all areas of life. I now work as a transformational coach, workshop and retreat leader focusing in particular on boarding school syndrome, men's work – trauma, stress, anxiety, sleep problems and developing internal happiness. I am trained as an NLP practitioner, EFT practitioner, Matrix Reimprinting practitioner, and Hypnotherapy practitioner. I live in West Yorkshire and when I am not coaching I volunteer with Scouts, Duke of Edinburgh Award, I like to travel, garden, learn about human potential, play music, be creative and spend time in nature.    CONTACT DETAILS / LINKS Website url https://www.piers-cross.com/ Linkedin url https://www.linkedin.com/in/piers-cross/ Facebook url https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic Twitter url https://twitter.com/PiersCross1 Instagram url  https://www.instagram.com/anevolvingman/ . ABOUT WENDY CAPEWELL Wendy is a Psychotherapist and Counsellor,  living in Hampshire, helping and supporting individauls and couples who are struggling, feeling lost, or helpless. Who need a safe space to be heard without judgement.  She understands how frightening and lonely it can be out there, as she’s been there herself.  Connect with Wendy Here...... Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Copewelltherapies Linked in - https://www.linkedin.com/in/wendycapewell/ YouTube Channel -  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUovcqsmI_c3rQ5oGUbiZtA Website - https://www.wendycapewell.co.uk/ Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/wendycapewell/ Book –‘From Surviving to Thriving in a Romantic Relationship’- Link to Amazon Email – [email protected] Sign up for my Newsletter -  http://bit.ly/2RpjY8g      

INTRO Dr. Marcia Martin M Ed, Ph D – The Heart Healer, is a spiritual empowerment counselor, minister, bestselling author, public speaker, and clairaudient angel communicator specializing in helping people heal their relationship with themselves. CONTENT Dr. Maria Martin shares how she helps people recover from trauma and abuse. She reminds us not to blame or shame ourselves after an abusive relationship, The reasons why we get into unhealthy relationships and the many reasons why we find it hard to leave them. We also discuss why people find it hard to seek help from professionals.  BIO Dr. Marcia Martin helps by healing the heart of al past pain and trauma you’ll be able to establish and maintain healthy relationships with yourself and all others so you can live a successful life. Her unique, heart-centered, energetic, healing approach, the Angel Heart Healing Technique, enables you to build the perfect relationship with yourself and helps you answer the questions, “Who am I? Why am I here? and Where am I going?” Marcia will help you release your greatest fear so you can achieve your biggest dreams as you heal your heart and transform your life.   CONTACT DETAILS / LINKS website - www.mmhearthealer.com  YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/DrMarciaMartintheHeartHealer  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/marciamartinthehearthealer  Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mmhearthealer  Twitter - https://twitter.com/MMHeartHealer  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mmhearthealer  Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/illuminateandtr/spiritual-messages-from-the-heart-healer/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mmhearthealer  Blog: https://illuminateandtransform.wordpress.com/   ABOUT WENDY CAPEWELL Wendy is a Psychotherapist and Counsellor,  living in Hampshire, helping and supporting individuals and couples who are struggling, feeling lost, or helpless. Who need a safe space to be heard without judgement.  She understands how frightening and lonely it can be out there, as she’s been there herself.  Connect with Wendy Here...... Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Copewelltherapies Linked in - https://www.linkedin.com/in/wendycapewell/ YouTube Channel -  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUovcqsmI_c3rQ5oGUbiZtA Website - https://www.wendycapewell.co.uk/ Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/wendycapewell/ Book –‘From Surviving to Thriving in a Romantic Relationship’- Link to Amazon Email – [email protected] Sign up for my Newsletter -  http://bit.ly/2RpjY8g If you have enjoyed this show then please leave a review.