Unhooked: Breaking Porn Addiction Podcast

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This week's episode is a conversation I had on the Enter the Lionheart podcast with host Lawrence Dunling. Lawrence was kind enough to let us reshare it here on Unhooked.
We get into my own unusual path: leaving a PhD program at Duke, training as a Buddhist monk in Myanmar, and eventually building my coaching practice in Thailand. From there we dig into the trap almost all of us fall into, the belief that the next zero in the bank account, the next win, the next relationship will finally make us happy, and why that chase never actually delivers.
We talk through some core Buddhist concepts and how they apply to everyday life: the bliss of blamelessness, the eight worldly winds, and the middle path between renouncing everything and chasing pleasure. And we spend real time on porn and compulsive behavior specifically: why the consequences are often subtle and easy to miss, how it rewires your brain's relationship to novelty and intimacy, and the Rat Park experiment, one of the clearest illustrations out there of why addiction is about an unmet need, not a moral failing.
We also get into modern dating, OnlyFans, the loneliness underneath a lot of it, and why community and close male friendships matter more than most guys realize.

Resources:
Unhooked Academy: unhookedacademy.com
14-Day Slip Reset: unhookedacademy.com/reset

Connect with Jeremy:

🌍 Website: JeremyLipkowitz.com

📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/

🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyLipkowitz

📩 Email: jeremy@unhookedacademy.com

Jeremy’s Online Course: Unhooked – Step-by-Step Guide to Quitting Porn: https://www.unhookedacademy.com/

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This week, I'm bringing back one of my favorite episodes because its message is just as relevant today as when I first recorded it.

In this episode, I share the Five Wise Daily Reflections from Buddhist teachings and explore how they can help you overcome addiction, let go of attachment, take ownership of your actions, and live with greater purpose. These simple reflections have profoundly shaped the way I approach recovery and continue to remind me what truly matters.

What would change if you spent just a few minutes each day reflecting on what really matters most?

If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who could benefit from it, and subscribe for more conversations on recovery, mindfulness, and building a life you don't want to escape from.
Chapters:
00:00 Intro
02:01 The Five Wise Daily Reflections
03:06 Aging, Illness, and Death
07:29 Letting Go of Attachment
09:23 Why Your Actions Shape Your Future
12:03 How to Practice These Reflections
12:35 Living Beyond Addiction

Resources:
Unhooked Academy: unhookedacademy.com
14-Day Slip Reset: unhookedacademy.com/reset

Connect with Jeremy:

🌍 Website: JeremyLipkowitz.com

📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/

🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyLipkowitz

📩 Email: jeremy@unhookedacademy.com

Jeremy’s Online Course: Unhooked – Step-by-Step Guide to Quitting Porn: https://www.unhookedacademy.com/

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This episode is a rebroadcast of a conversation I had with Todd Rennebohm on the Bunny Hugs podcast. Todd runs a mental health show that isn't afraid to go into the territory most podcasts avoid, and this conversation went deep.
We covered my personal story from the beginning. How it started innocent enough, looking at lingerie catalogs as a kid, and slowly escalated over years into a daily habit that was quietly rewiring my brain. By college, I was logging on every night for an hour, sometimes two. And even though my life looked great on paper, I felt completely empty inside.
In this episode we talk about:
The moment I realized I was a slave to lust, and what it actually felt like from the inside
How porn hijacks the dopamine system and why the "hunt" is more addictive than the content itself
The realm of hungry ghosts, a Buddhist concept that perfectly describes what addiction feels like
Why porn addiction is uniquely hard to break free from compared to alcohol or substances
How I went from PhD student at Duke to Buddhist monk to meditation teacher to recovery coach
Why the shame-based, willpower-driven approach almost always backfires
What neuroplasticity actually means for your recovery, and why it's good news
How to meditate without falling asleep (and why falling asleep isn't actually the problem)
AI companions, escalation, and where all of this is headed
This is one of the more wide-ranging conversations I've had. If you're new to this work, it's a good place to start. If you've been around for a while, I think you'll still find something in it.

00:00 Empty Chase
00:50 Meet Jeremy
01:37 How It Started
03:15 Daily Habit
04:59 Control And Coping
06:07 Brain Rewiring
07:15 Novelty Escalation
09:20 Seeing The Future
11:10 Hungry Ghosts
13:33 Neuroplasticity Lust
15:10 Gratitude Training
18:29 Desire Vs Craving
20:31 Meditation Skills
23:11 Tech And AI Risks
24:57 Is It Ever Good
27:14 AI Companions Dystopia
28:30 Moderation Debate
28:37 Moderation vs Abstinence
30:11 Ethics of Porn Industry
33:02 Why Porn Hooks Dopamine
37:15 Rock Bottom Realization
42:43 Finding Happiness Through Mindfulness
46:09 Non Shame Recovery Approach
50:11 Meditation Basics That Work
54:02 Grounded Not Woo Woo
54:49 Where to Find Jeremy
55:26 Final Wrap and Support

Check out Todd's show, Bunny Hugs, at bunnyhugspodcast.com
Resources mentioned:
Unhooked Academy: unhookedacademy.com
14-Day Slip Reset: unhookedacademy.com/reset

Connect with Jeremy:

🌍 Website: JeremyLipkowitz.com

📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/

🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyLipkowitz

📩 Email: jeremy@unhookedacademy.com

Jeremy’s Online Course: Unhooked – Step-by-Step Guide to Quitting Porn: https://www.unhookedacademy.com/

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This week, I'm resharing a conversation I had with Breanne Wilson on the Adventures in Adversity podcast because I think this message is more important than ever.

We talk about my journey from porn addiction to recovery, how addiction rewires the brain, why shame keeps so many people trapped, and what it really takes to build a life of integrity, purpose, and freedom. We also explore mindfulness, neuroplasticity, healthy masculinity, and why lasting recovery isn't about willpower, it's about creating a life you no longer want to escape from.

Whether you're struggling with porn, another compulsive habit, or simply searching for deeper fulfillment, I hope this conversation reminds you that change is possible.

What's one area of your life where you're ready to stop escaping and start healing?

If this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who could benefit from it, and subscribe to the podcast so you don't miss future conversations on recovery, self-mastery, and living with purpose.

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Connect with Jeremy:

🌍 Website: JeremyLipkowitz.com

📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/

🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyLipkowitz

📩 Email: jeremy@unhookedacademy.com

Jeremy’s Online Course: Unhooked – Step-by-Step Guide to Quitting Porn: https://www.unhookedacademy.com/

Connect with Breanne Wilson

🌍 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adventuresinadversitypodcast/
🎙️ Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/adventures-in-adversity-an-inspirational-podcast/id1727019294

Timestamps:

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Why do so many people struggle to quit porneven when they genuinely want to stop?

In this interview with Tim Tedder on The Affair Recovery Room Podcast, I share my personal journey from years of porn addiction to finding lasting recovery, and the lessons I learned along the way.

We talk about how porn rewires the brain, why novelty keeps people trapped in the cycle, how shame silently fuels addiction, and why recovery isn't about relying on willpower alone. We also discuss mindfulness, healthy relationships, community, and the inner work required to build lasting freedom.

In this episode you'll learn:
What porn addiction really is
How porn changes your expectations of intimacy
Why shame keeps people stuck
Why willpower isn't enough
The role of mindfulness in recovery
Why community accelerates healing
How to build a life you don't need to escape from
Whether you're struggling yourself or supporting someone you love, I hope this conversation gives you hope and practical insight for the journey ahead.

If this episode helped you, share it with someone who needs it and subscribe for more conversations on recovery, self-mastery, and creating lasting freedom.
🔹 Want to break free? 
Join Unhooked Academy now:
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Connect with Jeremy:
🌍 Website: JeremyLipkowitz.com
📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/
🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyLipkowitz
📩 Email: jeremy@unhookedacademy.com

Jeremy’s Online Course: Unhooked – Step-by-Step Guide to Quitting Porn: https://www.unhookedacademy.com/

Connect with Tim Tedder
🌍 Website: https://www.affairhealing.com/
🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Tim-Tedder
🎙️ Podcast: https://www.affairhealing.com/podcasts
https://open.spotify.com/show/54DlIhDCxb3a4gpFCJrRPu
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-affair-recovery-room/id1116458007

Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction
01:27 What Porn Addiction Really Is
04:25 The Hidden Signs of Addiction
06:03 How My Addiction Started
14:29 Why Real Relationships Feel Harder
20:44 What Finally Helped Me Recover
26:36 Why Shame Keeps Men Stuck
29:26 Porn Isn't the Real Problem