EP 149 Saboteurs in the Boardroom: The Hidden Forces Behind Your Decisions and The Future of Human-Centric Leadership with Jennifer Selby-Long Founder & CEO Selby LLC
Send us a text“Predictability doesn’t make you weak — it’s what frees your brain to lead with strength. The more predictability you build, the more resilient your people become.” JSL.🎙️ Podcast Summary: “Rewiring Resilience: From Surviving to Thriving”In this powerful episode of The Security Circle, Yolanda “YoYo” Hamblen sits down with Jennifer Selby Long, an executive coach and transformation leadership expert who has guided over 300 leaders through the toughest moments of their professional and personal evolution. Together, they unpack the real meaning of resilience — and why it’s not about “soldiering on,” but learning to surf the waves of change.Jennifer explains how our early life experiences shape the neural networks that influence how we lead, react, and recover under pressure. She introduces the concept of inner saboteurs — those self-defeating mental patterns like the Judge or the Hyper-Rational — and shows how leaders can quiet those voices to unlock empathy, creativity, and calm under chaos.The conversation flows from neuroscience to leadership psychology, touching on predictability as a secret weapon for resilience, the importance of silence and self-reflection, and how leaders can turn stress into strength by mastering their inner game first.From personal insights to professional breakthroughs, this episode is a roadmap for anyone ready to rewire resilience, build emotional intelligence, and move from surviving to truly thriving — both in leadership and in life.BIOJennifer Selby Long is the founder and CEO of Selby Group, LLC, a consulting firm dedicated to helping leaders win at transformation and change. The firm has been in business since 1997, when she founded Selby Group as a sole proprietorship. Today Jennifer and a small team of executive coaches partner with technical leaders as well as business leaders who find themselves leading and responding to large-scale change and transformation.Selby Group’s services include:1. For Leaders: Optimize leadership performance through coaching and advisory services2. For Leadership Teams: Build and support well-aligned high-performing leadership teams through team assessments, strategic off-sites, and leadership team-building3. For Organizations: Strengthen management and workforce ability to thrive in continuously-changing times through our tightly-focused workshop curriculumKey Competencies• 30+ years in the global technology sector• 300+ leaders coached• Influenced over 3000 executives, leaders, managers, individuals, and teams through large and small group work• Focus on organizational transformation, leadership, teamwork, self-awareness, strategic thinking, communication, and influence• Veteran of multiple large-scale changes and organizational transformations, often driven by new developments in technologyClient experience includes: Airbnb, LinkedIn, Ciena, Cisco Systems, Nestlé, News Corp, Dow Jones, US Data Security, and many others.https://www.linkedin.com/in/jenniferselbylong/Security Circle ⭕️ is an IFPOD production for IFPO the International Foundation of Protection Officers