How To GET THE GIRL - An Ask Women Podcast

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What makes a woman choose ONE guy over the thousands competing for her attention?

Today I'm sitting down with Kit Barrus — a top 0.1% OnlyFans creator with degrees in mathematics and psychology. She gets hit on thousands of times a day. Literally thousands. And she's tracked the data on what makes her lean in versus instantly lose interest.

Most men think attraction is about looks, money, or the perfect line. So they try to impress. They compliment. They show interest. And then... nothing. She pulls away. She picks the other guy. And they have no idea why.

The truth? Most men are doing things that actively push women away — and they're completely blind to it.

In this episode, Kit and I break down the specific behaviors that create attraction versus the ones that kill it instantly. We talk about the biggest mistakes men make when approaching women, signs of interest most guys miss completely, and what actually makes a woman want you — none of which has anything to do with your age, your looks, or your bank account.

If you've ever wondered what the guy who "gets the girl" is doing differently than you, this episode will open your eyes

IN THIS EPISODE:

✅ What a woman who gets hit on 1000's of times per day actually responds to

✅ The biggest mistakes men make when trying to attract women

✅ Signs of interest most men completely miss

✅ What creates instant attraction vs. instant rejection

✅ Why looks and money matter way less than you think

✅ What to say to women that makes them lean in and want more

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🔥 FREE: Flirting Cheat Sheet — The exact tactics that make women feel attracted to you: 👉 https://winggirlmethod.com/kit

📺 Watch this episode on YouTube → https://youtu.be/Fd8bOguTFpM

What makes a woman choose ONE guy over the thousands competing for her attention?

Today I'm sitting down with Kit Barrus — a top 0.1% OnlyFans creator with degrees in mathematics and psychology. She gets hit on thousands of times a day. Literally thousands. And she's tracked the data on what makes her lean in versus instantly lose interest.

Most men think attraction is about looks, money, or the perfect line. So they try to impress. They compliment. They show interest. And then... nothing. She pulls away. She picks the other guy. And they have no idea why.

The truth? Most men are doing things that actively push women away — and they're completely blind to it.

In this episode, Kit and I break down the specific behaviors that create attraction versus the ones that kill it instantly. We talk about the biggest mistakes men make when approaching women, signs of interest most guys miss completely, and what actually makes a woman want you — none of which has anything to do with your age, your looks, or your bank account.

If you've ever wondered what the guy who "gets the girl" is doing differently than you, this episode will open your eyes

IN THIS EPISODE:

✅ What a woman who gets hit on 1000's of times per day actually responds to

✅ The biggest mistakes men make when trying to attract women

✅ Signs of interest most men completely miss

✅ What creates instant attraction vs. instant rejection

✅ Why looks and money matter way less than you think

✅ What to say to women that makes them lean in and want more

👋 Follow Marni: Instagram: @winggirlmethod

youtube: youtube.com/marnikinrys
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Most men know that confidence is the key to attracting women. But here's the problem — confidence is almost impossible to fake. Women see right through it instantly.

So what do you do if you're just... not there yet?

In this episode, you'll hear from Marcel — a man who walked into my Inner Circle program without an ounce of real confidence. And I could feel it. I'll be honest with you — when I first met him, I felt superior to him. Which is something I feel with most men who come to me for help.

But then something happened.

Just 5 weeks into the 8-week program, Marcel shifted. The man I was looking at wasn't the same guy who showed up on day one. Suddenly I was seeing him as an equal — as a man any woman could feel genuine attraction for.

Not fake confidence. Not "techniques." A real, internal transformation that changed how women experienced him.

In this conversation, Marcel walks you through exactly what shifted — the mindset changes, the inner work, and how he went from feeling small and unnoticed to believing in his core that he's a great catch.

If you've ever wondered whether real confidence is something you can actually BUILD (not just fake), this episode will show you it's possible — and faster than you think.

🎁 FREE DOWNLOAD: "Name Your Animal" Exercise: https://winggirlmethod.com/grrr

This is the same exercise I give to every man in my Inner Circle program. It's designed to help you identify and step into your most confident, authentic masculine energy — so you can show up with presence and power in every interaction with women.

📞 Ready for your own transformation? Book a FREE call with Marni and her team of Wing Girls → https://coachingwithmarni.com/application

👋 Follow Marni: Instagram: @winggirlmethod

YouTube: youtube.com/marnikinrys

IN THIS EPISODE YOU'LL LEARN:

✅ Why faking confidence never works — and what to do instead

✅ The internal shift that transforms how women experience you

✅ How Marcel went from feeling invisible to choosing the women he wants

✅ What actually changed in just 5 weeks (it's not what you think)

✅ The difference between surface-level techniques and real confidence

✅ How to believe in your core that you're a great catch
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🎁 FREE DOWNLOAD: "Name Your Animal" Exercise: https://winggirlmethod.com/grrr

📞 Ready to get personal help? Book a FREE call with Marni and her team of Wing Girls → https://coachingwithmarni.com/application

📺 Watch this episode on YouTube → https://youtu.be/jpyiooEg9qo

Most men know that confidence is the key to attracting women. But here's the problem — confidence is almost impossible to fake. Women see right through it instantly.

So what do you do if you're just... not there yet?

In this episode, you'll hear from Marcel — a man who walked into my Inner Circle program without an ounce of real confidence. And I could feel it. I'll be honest with you — when I first met him, I felt superior to him. Which is something I feel with most men who come to me for help.

But then something happened.

Just 5 weeks into the 8-week program, Marcel shifted. The man I was looking at wasn't the same guy who showed up on day one. Suddenly I was seeing him as an equal — as a man any woman could feel genuine attraction for.

Not fake confidence. Not "techniques." A real, internal transformation that changed how women experienced him.

In this conversation, Marcel walks you through exactly what shifted — the mindset changes, the inner work, and how he went from feeling small and unnoticed to believing in his core that he's a great catch.

If you've ever wondered whether real confidence is something you can actually BUILD (not just fake), this episode will show you it's possible — and faster than you think.

🎁 FREE DOWNLOAD: "Name Your Animal" Exercise: https://winggirlmethod.com/grrr

This is the same exercise I give to every man in my Inner Circle program. It's designed to help you identify and step into your most confident, authentic masculine energy — so you can show up with presence and power in every interaction with women.

📞 Ready for your own transformation? Book a FREE call with Marni and her team of Wing Girls → https://coachingwithmarni.com/application

👋 Follow Marni: Instagram: @winggirlmethod

YouTube: youtube.com/marnikinrys

IN THIS EPISODE YOU'LL LEARN:

✅ Why faking confidence never works — and what to do instead

✅ The internal shift that transforms how women experience you

✅ How Marcel went from feeling invisible to choosing the women he wants

✅ What actually changed in just 5 weeks (it's not what you think)

✅ The difference between surface-level techniques and real confidence

✅ How to believe in your core that you're a great catch

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Do you know the one thing that turns a woman on… MORE than anything else? It’s NOT status, money, height or good looks. In fact, it’s NOT even confidence, sense of humor, intelligence or game.

Those are all nice. But the single biggest turn on for women is something very specific… that 99% of men are completely unaware of.

Once you know this secret, you will be able to attract more women than ever before. You will instantly multiply your dating options and have women craving to be with you. And that’s a guarantee.

In this episode, Marni reveals the biggest female turn on of all time — and how you can use that to attract the women you desire.

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Top dating advice for men coming directly from a woman! Marni is now your personal Wing Girl and she's going to tell you how to attract women, date women, seduce women and get any woman you want. She's helped 100's of thousands of men around the world be more confident with women so they can make women want them. Now she'll do the same for you!

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