Mind Bully

What happens when you spend your entire life chasing success, love, and acceptance, only to discover that none of it makes you feel whole?
In this episode of the Mind Bully Podcast, Norense Odiase sits down with actress, singer, and performer Yeena Sung for an honest conversation about identity, rejection, relationships, faith, and finding purpose beyond personal success.
Growing up between South Korea and America, Yeena struggled with feeling like an outsider in both cultures. Acting became her escape, eventually leading her to pursue a career in theater and entertainment in New York City.
But behind the performances and accomplishments were deeper struggles with self-worth, comparison, career uncertainty, and a painful relationship that left her questioning who she was.
Yeena opens up about rediscovering her relationship with Jesus, learning to stop seeking validation from others, and realizing that achieving your dreams means little if you lose yourself along the way.
Together, we explore overcoming negative self-talk, healing after heartbreak, embracing your identity, and finding a purpose greater than success.
TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Introduction to Yeena Sung
02:44 Growing Up in South Korea
04:19 Feeling Like an Outsider in America
06:27 Discovering Her Passion for Acting
19:11 The Loneliness of Moving to America
29:00 Rejection and Feeling Misunderstood
32:02 Navigating Two Different Cultures
35:49 Identity in the Entertainment Industry
40:15 Finding Your Own Path
44:49 Rediscovering Her Relationship With Christ
48:49 How Heartbreak Changed Her Faith
53:10 Losing Your Self-Worth in Relationships
58:40 Learning to Surrender to God
1:00:03 Stop Seeking Validation From Others
1:06:28 Why Resilience Matters
1:08:30 Finding Purpose Beyond Success
1:10:40 Achieving Your Dreams and Still Feeling Empty
1:14:39 Overcoming Negative Self-Talk
1:19:07 What Does Your Dream Life Look Like?
1:21:02 Getting to the Root of Your Problems
1:29:09 Final Reflections
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A podcast for high performers fighting silent battles. Through honest conversations about faith, identity, mental wellness, relationships, and personal growth, we're beating the hell out of the negative voice in your head.
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What happens when you obey God, but everything seems to get harder?
In this episode of the Mind Bully Podcast, Norense Odiase sits down with fashion designer and entrepreneur Tiarra Smallwood for an honest conversation about faith, obedience, career burnout, sacrifice, and starting over.
Growing up in Elyria, Ohio, Tiarra discovered her passion for fashion at an early age. After studying design at Kent State University, she landed a coveted position at Abercrombie & Fitch. But behind the professional success were overwhelming stress, burnout, and the growing conviction that God was calling her to walk away.
She eventually resigned without another job lined up, only to face unemployment, depression, and a season when she felt God had gone silent.
Tiarra shares how she found the courage to move to New York City, accept a lower-level freelance role, sleep on an air mattress, and sacrifice the comfort she once knew while pursuing a bigger vision for her life.
Together, Norense and Tiarra explore faith during uncertainty, overcoming negative self-talk, the hidden cost of pursuing your dreams, and learning to trust God's direction when the destination isn't clear.
**Apologies on the video quality towards the end! We shot the video at night, noted for next time!**
In this episode:
Leaving a successful career to pursue a new direction

Recognizing burnout and knowing when to walk away

Trusting God when He seems silent

Overcoming depression and uncertainty

Starting over in New York City at 30

Sacrificing comfort to pursue your dreams

Building confidence after professional setbacks

Confronting comparison, self-doubt, and negative thoughts

Finding purpose through serving others

Sometimes the greatest sacrifice isn't your success. It's your comfort.
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What happens when your life changes, but your mind is still holding on to who you used to be?
In this episode of the Mind Bully Podcast, Norense Odiase explores the challenges of navigating life transitions, overcoming negative self-talk, and learning to embrace who God has called you to become.
Drawing from his own experience of moving to New York City, Norense shares how uncertainty, past mistakes, unmet expectations, and the pressure to perform can distort the way we see ourselves.
Through Scripture, including Philippians 3, Joshua 1:8, Colossians 2, and Romans 12, he challenges listeners to stop allowing their circumstances and emotions to define their identity.
In this episode:
Navigating uncertainty during life transitions

Letting go of your past identity

Overcoming negative thoughts and self-doubt

Finding your identity in Christ

Renewing your mind through God's Word

Learning to surrender your emotions

Understanding what it means to be a living sacrifice

Moving forward with faith instead of fear

Your feelings are real, but they don't have to have the final say.
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What happens when the pain you experienced as a child becomes the voice you hear as an adult?
In this episode of the Mind Bully Podcast, Norense Odiase sits down with former college soccer player Nina Carlson for a vulnerable conversation about childhood trauma, sexual abuse, bullying, betrayal, identity, faith, and healing.
Nina shares how painful childhood experiences shaped her self-worth, led her to seek validation through achievement and relationships, and influenced the way she spoke to herself.
From navigating rejection in friendships to competing in college athletics and transitioning into life after sports, Nina opens up about the struggle to separate her identity from performance.
Together, Norense and Nina explore the importance of therapy, community, renewing your mind through God's Word, and learning to replace negative self-talk with truth.
In this episode:
How childhood trauma shapes identity and self-worth

Breaking cycles of shame and unhealthy relationships

Bullying, betrayal, and the fear of rejection

Finding validation through sports and achievement

Navigating identity after college athletics

Overcoming perfectionism and fear of judgment

Healing through faith, therapy, and community

Confronting your inner critic with God's Word

Your past may have shaped your thoughts, but it doesn't have to define your future.
Content note: This episode includes discussions of childhood sexual abuse, bullying, abusive relationships, and suicidal thoughts.

The biggest risk in your life right now isn't failing. It's not taking chances on yourself.
Fresh off a weekend at Culture Con at the Brooklyn Navy Yard, where thousands of artists, actors, filmmakers, and creatives packed rooms from keynote to workshop, Norense shares what stood out most. It wasn't a panel. It was a moment in line for a drink, when someone elbowed him out of the way to pitch their accomplishments to the person they thought had power. The executive just pointed her somewhere else. Then sat down and talked with Norense for a long time.
That moment became this episode: a look at how anxiety turns us into a shell of ourselves in the rooms we've worked hardest to get into, why promotion was never going to come from a person, and what it looks like to walk in with dignity, curiosity, and a heart to serve instead of posture.
Then Norense opens Luke 7 and the story of the centurion, a man who understood authority so well that he told Jesus, just say the word.
In this episode:
What Culture Con taught him about anxiety, networking, and showing up as yourself
Why over-explaining and leading with accomplishments isn't attractive, but leading with values is
Promotion comes from God, not from the person you're trying to elbow your way to
Why nobody you put on a pedestal has anything more than you in God's eyes
When you're anxious, you can't see or serve anyone else in the room
The faith of the centurion in Luke 7: authority, submission, and the power of God's spoken word
You can't want the hand of God without submitting to the heart of God
Why faith comes by hearing and hearing, and why repetition is how truth gets in
A daily practice for taking anxious thoughts captive and speaking the Word over them
You may experience anxiety, but it is not who you are
Key Truth: "You may experience anxiety, but anxiety is not your identity. You were made in the image of Almighty God."
Key Verse: Luke 7:7 — Say in a word, and my servant shall be healed.
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