Mother Mayhem: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery for Daughters
Heather Gray, LICSW
Welcome to Mother Mayhem: A Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast for Daughters. Join me, Heather Gray, a licensed therapist and expert in narcissistic abuse reco...
82. The Cost of Healing: Grief, Loneliness, and Finding Your True Self
No one tells you that healing isn’t just about feeling better—it’s about losing what no longer fits. The friendships, the coping mechanisms, the family dynamics that kept you small. And while that loss is necessary, it can also feel unbearably lonely.This week, you get to meet a Daughter who has done the hard work—setting boundaries, letting go of toxic relationships, and showing up for herself in ways she never has before. But now, on the other side, she’s feeling the deep loneliness that healing can bring. If you’ve ever felt the weight of healing and grief at the same time, I hope you feel seen and heard today.Question for the show?: [email protected] can always bring it to group.Join Tuesday Group.JoinMayhem Daughters,our private online community for Daughters of narcissistic and emotionally limited mothers.Also mentioned:Simple Scripts for Saying Hard Things
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81. Do I Have to Hate My Narcissistic Mother in Order to Heal?
In today’s episode, we dive into one of the toughest questions many daughters of narcissistic mothers face: Do I need to hate my narcissistic mother in order to heal?
It’s a question that comes with a lot of layers—shame, guilt, anger, and confusion. But the truth is, healing doesn’t have to be built on hatred or resentment. It’s about finding your own path to peace and recognizing the power you have to move beyond the trauma.
Whether you’re struggling with the weight of your mother’s behavior or wondering how to move forward in your own healing, this episode will help you reframe your relationship with your past and find new ways of looking at your future.
Resources Mentioned in this Episode:
Mayhem Daughters – Join our supportive community of daughters who understand what you're going through. We continue the conversation after each episode and share our healing journeys together.
Tuesday Group – If you’re looking for a safe space to talk about these topics, gain support, and learn from others who’ve been there, my Tuesday Group is here for you.
Question for the show? Heather@ DaughtersNPD.com
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80. For the Scapegoated Daughter: How to Find Life and Healing After the Abuse
In this episode of Mother Mayhem, we’re talking about what it means to truly “feel your feelings” and how to start better connecting to yourself—and why it’s more than just a cliché.
For daughters of narcissistic or emotionally limited mothers, connecting with your emotions can feel overwhelming or even unsafe. But this process is essential to healing and finding a life of meaning and connection after the abuse.
Join Our Community: Healing doesn’t happen in isolation—it happens in connection. That’s why I created Mayhem Daughters. We already believe you and you already belong. If you’re ready to lean into support from others who understand your journey, you are welcome to join HERE.
Want to go deeper? Bring it to Group. Join Tuesday Group
Also mentioned: Simple Scripts for Saying Hard Things.
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79. Managing the Fear of Setting Boundaries with Your Narcissistic Mother
Setting boundaries with a difficult or emotionally limited mother can be one of the most challenging steps in your healing journey. The fear of pushback, guilt, or rejection often keeps us stuck in unhealthy dynamics.
In this episode, I walk you through:
Why setting boundaries feels so scary
How to recognize the fear and navigate it with more confidence
Practical tips to stand your ground while staying true to yourself
You deserve relationships that respect your needs. Let’s explore how to set boundaries without letting fear hold you back.
Links mentioned in this episode:
*** If you are on the Mayhem Daughters waitlist, check your email for your Founding Member rate**
Didn't get on the list on time but want to join? Here's how:
Mayhem Daughters, our online community it OPEN!
Bring it to Group: Join Tuesday Group
Simple Scripts for Saying Hard Things
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78. Introducing Mayhem Daughters- You Belong Here.
Introducing Mayhem Daughters: A Healing Community for Daughters of Narcissistic & Emotionally Limited Mothers
In this episode, I’m excited to introduce Mayhem Daughters, a private, online community designed specifically for daughters of narcissistic or emotionally limited mothers. If you’ve felt isolated in your healing journey, this space is built with you in mind.
Mayhem Daughters is more than just another online group. It’s a safe, trauma-informed community where you’ll find connection, support, and the opportunity to heal alongside others who truly understand your experiences. We've created a password-protected space where you can share your story, receive support, and walk alongside other daughters who get it—without the overwhelm of trauma drama.
In this episode, I walk you through:
What Mayhem Daughters is and why it was created.
The structure we’ve put in place to ensure a safe and supportive environment, including spaces like I Want to Be Heard and I Want to Be Helped.
How being a founding member can give you access to special benefits, including a low monthly rate.
Right now, we’re building our group of founding members, and joining the waitlist is the only way to access the special rate of $19.99/month. There’s no commitment required to join the waitlist—it just holds your spot while you decide if this feels like the right place for you.
If you’re ready to take the next step toward healing, connection, and empowerment, join the waitlist today!
Join the Mayhem Daughters Waitlist
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Sobre Mother Mayhem: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery for Daughters
Welcome to Mother Mayhem: A Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast for Daughters. Join me, Heather Gray, a licensed therapist and expert in narcissistic abuse recovery, as I help you heal from childhood trauma.
Listen to the first 8 episodes in order. They provide a paced framework for your healing. Use the resources linked in the show notes.
Understand the impact of your experience. Establish healthy boundaries. Gain a better relationship with yourself and others.
Listener questions are valued. Submit yours. Listen in as I guide fellow daughters. They're in it with you. I am, too.