Order of Man

In this AMA episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle a wide range of listener questions-from AI and authenticity to divorce, brotherhood, and extreme ownership. Ryan shares lessons from his own divorce about reflection, accountability, and rebuilding your life after a major setback. The conversation also dives into why authenticity builds trust, the danger of labeling words as violence, and how men can start building strong brotherhoods even if they've spent most of their lives alone. If you're feeling stuck in your career, isolated in life, or unsure how to take the next step forward, this episode offers practical guidance and honest perspective.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:04 - Introduction and lacrosse tournament story
03:46 - Listener question: AI and content creation
17:57 - Navigating divorce and staying afloat emotionally
30:17 - New Order of Man merchandise designs
32:14 - Ideals worth fighting or dying for
35:15 - Violence, language, and societal perception
42:16 - Building brotherhood from scratch
51:22 - Extreme ownership when stuck in a job
59:24 - Reflecting on advice given years earlier
59:50 - Episode closing remarks
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My good friend Kipp Sorensen interviews me. I'm on the hot seat today and very excited to be talking with you about all things Order of Man, including the origin story of Order of Man, why we need to be careful of falling into the comparison trap, but how it can actually help you by comparing yourself in healthy ways to others. We talk about having healthy relationships with delayed gratification. Any misconceptions about what order of man does what we're doing now and into the future, how we've grown the movement, and how we continue to innovate and come up with new ideas. We talk about some of the tactics and strategies.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 Cold Open & Fight Talk
03:12 Reversing the Roles — Ryan on the Hot Seat
05:30 The Origin of Order of Man
11:20 Launching the Iron Council
13:50 Commitment and Delayed Gratification
19:28 Why Ryan Never Quit the Mission
22:00 Lessons From Personal Struggles and Divorce
28:00 Commitment to the Mission vs Results
30:20 The Trap of Always Chasing "What's Next"
34:28 Dealing With Pressure and Escapism
40:32 Handling Leadership Pressure
43:07 The Danger of the Red Pill Movement
48:00 The Problem With Modern Masculinity Influencers
50:53 The Real Men We Should Look Up To
53:25 What Men Often Get Wrong About Masculinity
54:47 The Intangible Side of Protect, Provide, Preside
01:00:37 Tactical vs Strategic Leadership as a Father
01:14:17 Being an Introvert With a Massive Audience
01:15:41 The Impact of Listener Stories
01:22:26 Call to Action for Men
Battle Planners: Pick yours up today!
Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.
For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.
Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Ryan Michler challenges the cultural myth of the "lone wolf" man and explains why isolation is quietly destroying modern men.
While movies, social media, and modern culture glorify the rugged individual who needs no one, the truth is the opposite - men were built for brotherhood, tribes, and shared struggle.
Ryan breaks down why modern systems incentivize isolation, how loneliness leads to mediocrity and addiction, and what men can do to build real brotherhood again.
From historical examples of men organizing to modern distractions that keep men disconnected, this episode is a powerful reminder that the strongest men aren't lone wolves - they're leaders of packs.
Ryan also shares practical ways to build connection, including where brotherhood naturally forms and how to take the first step in creating it.
In This Episode
Why the "lone wolf" myth is a lie

What actually happens to lone wolves in nature

How isolation is affecting modern men

Why systems and incentives push men toward loneliness

How technology simulates brotherhood without delivering it

The dangers of losing accountability and perspective

Why strong men throughout history built tribes

Practical ways to build real brotherhood today

The three environments where men improve together

Why shared struggle builds deeper bonds than conversation

Resources & Links
Iron Council Brotherhood https://orderofman.com/ironcouncil
The Men's Forge Event https://themensforge.com
Montana Knife Company https://montanaknifecompany.com Code: ORDERMAN
Battle Planners: Pick yours up today!
Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.
For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.
Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

In this week's Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp tackle powerful questions from the brotherhood. They discuss what lessons they are intentionally teaching their children, why so many men feel life is out of their control, and how to balance purpose with financial opportunity.
They dive into navigating raises, friendships strained by marriage dynamics, changing your mind when confronted with new evidence, and what role men should play in addressing corruption and cultural issues. As always, this episode blends practical advice with direct challenges to step up, take ownership, and live intentionally.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Fireplace Story & Technology Comforts
07:06 - Teaching Kids What We Didn't Learn
14:10 - Control vs Victim Mentality
24:33 - Purpose vs Money
29:48 - Changing Your Mind
37:18 - Investing for Your Kids
41:24 - Asking for a Raise
49:11 - Friendship & Marriage Boundaries
53:35 - Epstein Issue & Civic Responsibility
58:05 - Stop Talking. Start Acting.
Battle Planners: Pick yours up today!
Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.
For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.
Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

What does it mean to manufacture "do or die" intensity in a world that's built for comfort? How do you improve your position always — not just tactically, but physically, mentally, and spiritually? In this episode, we dig into conditioning as a way of life, why wind is everything, why over-specialization weakens men, and how to build true work capacity through skill, strength, and nervous system development. We talk about leading from the front, refusing to put men on pedestals, removing the mask, and confronting the quiet war of self-deception and self-worth that so many men fight in silence.
To unpack it, I'm joined by Rudy Reyes — Force Recon Marine, warrior-athlete, conservationist, and a man who has lived these principles from jungle warfare to rebuilding coral reefs with Force Blue. Rudy brings a rare blend of intensity and benevolence, tactical precision and spiritual depth. This conversation is about becoming dangerous in the right way — stronger for your family, clearer in your identity, and grounded in the truth that you may never be "enough"… and why that's liberating.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Introduction
01:26 - Improve Your Position Always
05:56 - Conditioning vs. Strength
14:20 - The Importance of Wind (Endurance)
20:43 - Position in Space & Neurological Health
22:05 - Rudy's 3-Part Training Philosophy
30:50 - The True Meaning of "Fitness"
32:28 - The Danger of Over-Specialization
38:40 - Sergeant Reyes vs. The Real Rudy
42:53 - Respecting the Recruits on Special Forces
51:38 - How to Lead Men Effectively
56:14 - Taking Off the Armor After Service
01:00:03 - Dropping the Mask & Rebuilding Life
01:04:02 - Shame, Identity & Never Being Enough
01:07:22 - Changing How We Talk to Ourselves
01:11:15 - Building Impact Over Income
01:13:34 - The Man in the Mirror Standard
Battle Planners: Pick yours up today!
Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.
For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.
Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready