Abraham's Wallet

Miscarriage is often talked about as a woman’s experience—but what about fathers? In this conversation, we open up an honest, faith-centered discussion about pregnancy loss, grief, and the often-overlooked emotional journey men walk through. Whether you’ve experienced miscarriage or want to better support someone who has, this episode will help you understand what it really looks like to navigate loss as a family.

In this episode, Mark shares his family's deeply personal story of an unexpected pregnancy—one that brought surprise, joy, and hope—followed by the sudden heartbreak of miscarriage. What unfolds is an unfiltered look at grief, confusion, and the spiritual questions that come with loss. From wrestling with “why” to dealing with isolation and unspoken expectations, this conversation sheds light on emotions many men feel but rarely express.

Mark is joined by Eric Schumacher, who has walked through multiple miscarriages with his own family and now ministers specifically to fathers in this space. Together, they explore the unique challenges dads face—feeling overlooked, unsure how to process grief, and struggling to support their wives while carrying their own pain. This episode offers clarity, validation, and practical encouragement for anyone impacted by miscarriage, directly or indirectly.

Resources mentioned:

Book - "Ours: Biblical Comfort for Men Grieving Miscarriage"

Book - "Dads Hurt Too"

Eric's Website

Topics covered:

How miscarriage impacts fathers emotionally and spiritually

Processing grief when you don’t feel “allowed” to grieve

Supporting your wife while navigating your own loss

Common lies and isolation men experience after miscarriage

Why miscarriage is a community issue, not just a private one

Faith, suffering, and asking hard questions in loss

Practical ways to support families going through miscarriage

Timestamps:
00:00 Unexpected introduction and guest setup
00:16 Why miscarriage became a personal issue for this family
01:22 Why this conversation matters—even if you haven’t experienced loss
02:09 Introducing Eric Schumacher and his ministry to fathers
02:50 Steven shares his family’s pregnancy story
03:23 The surprise of pregnancy later in life
04:05 Joy, hope, and envisioning a new season of parenting
05:09 Navigating uncertainty and early pregnancy concerns
05:43 The moment everything changed—loss and grief
06:13 Processing deep emotional pain and spiritual questions
07:13 Unique challenges of miscarriage later in life
07:44 Isolation, lies, and how grief affects men differently
08:23 A simple act of care that made a big impact
09:18 Why men need support too—and how to offer it
10:01 Why this episode took time to share publicly
10:31 Eric responds and reflects on the miscarriage experience
11:47 Eric’s personal story and journey through multiple miscarriages
13:45 The complexity of grief, silence, and community dynamics
16:22 Turning pain into ministry for fathers

Transcript (first few minutes):

Hey guys, I’m joined today by Eric Schumacher—and I have to tell you, he came across my radar because something that had never really crossed my mind until about three months ago became a central issue in our family. And that topic is miscarriage.

I had known people that had been impacted by this, and my thoughts were mostly that this is really hard for women to go through—and husbands need to support their wives. But I have a 16-year-old a...

Chapters

(00:00:02) - A Father's Miscountation on The Abraham's Wallet Podcast
(00:07:56) - Eric and Mark on Grief
(00:09:46) - How to Talk About Miscarriage in the Church
(00:17:37) - What Are the Common Experiences of Miscarriage?
(00:19:51) - How to Help a Dad Through a Miscarriage
(00:26:25) - How Long Should a Miscarriage Gave Me Grief?
(00:32:43) - How to Grieve a Miscarriage
(00:41:21) - Understanding Suffering in the Christian Life
(00:46:23) - How to Be a Good Friend to Men Who've Lost a Baby
(00:52:03) - Grief and the Abraham's Wallet
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If you’re a Christian father trying to lead your home with wisdom, humility, and biblical conviction—this conversation will challenge you in the best way. We talk honestly about tone, self-awareness, and how your leadership actually feels to your wife and kids.

This episode dives into a tension many dads don’t think about enough: not just what you say, but how you come across at home. Through real-life stories and reflections, we unpack how wives and children often act as a “temperature gauge” for a father’s leadership—and why ignoring that feedback can quietly damage your influence.

A key moment in the conversation centers around the book Unoffendable by Brant Hansen, which sparks a deeper discussion about defensiveness, humility, and the subtle ways pride shows up in family leadership. We explore how easily fathers can justify their tone, miss what God might be revealing through others, and overlook opportunities to grow. This is a practical, grounded conversation about biblical fatherhood—not in theory, but in the day-to-day moments that shape your home.

Topics covered in this episode:

How your tone as a father shapes the culture of your home

Why your wife is often the clearest feedback source for your leadership

Parenting teenagers and handling their honest (and sometimes hard) feedback

Recognizing when God is trying to get your attention through repeated situations

Lessons from Unoffendable and overcoming defensiveness as a Christian man

The difference between being right and leading well in your family

Building humility and self-awareness in biblical fatherhood

Timestamps:
00:00 – Intro - Why this episode even exists
01:10 – Introduction to Unoffendable and why it hits a nerve
03:30 – The problem of defensiveness in Christian men
06:30 – Why being “right” can still damage your home
09:30 – Pride, self-justification, and missing what God is showing you
12:30 – Learning to receive correction without shutting down
15:30 – What humility actually looks like in day-to-day family life
18:30 – How fathers shape the emotional and spiritual tone of the home
21:30 – Recognizing patterns in conflict with your wife and kids
24:30 – Practical ways to grow in self-awareness as a dad
27:30 – Letting go of control and leading with grace instead of force
30:00 – Encouragement for fathers trying to lead biblically
33:00 – Final thoughts: becoming unoffendable and leading well
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Every few seconds, another American becomes a victim of identity theft. But what most parents don't realize is that their children are often the biggest targets. 

In this episode, we explain why kids are so vulnerable and share simple, free steps you can take in just one afternoon to help protect your family's financial future.

If you're serious about stewarding and protecting your household, this conversation is one every dad needs to hear.

Links in this Episode
https://www.equifax.com/personal/credit-report-services/credit-freeze
https://www.irs.gov/identity-theft-fraud-scams/get-an-identity-protection-pin
https://www.annualcreditreport.com
https://www.optoutprescreen.com
https://www.identitytheft.gov
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Chapters

(00:00:00) - Abraham's Wallet
(00:00:57) - Heads Up, Texas: Heat Is Coming
(00:04:20) - Protect Your Family's Name From Identity Theft
(00:07:15) - Are We Ready for Identity Fraud?
(00:08:58) - Free Ways to Lock Up Your Credit
(00:15:28) - Credit Cards and Your Score
(00:22:05) - Credit Score and Credit Cards
(00:23:03) - 3 Ways to Lock Down Your Accounts
(00:28:14) - 3 Ways to Protect Yourself From
(00:31:30) - How to Lock Down Your Credit
(00:37:10) - Identity Theft and How to Prevent It
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Every dad has been there. Your child says something disrespectful. Your spouse reacts in a way you didn't expect. Stress builds at work, and before you know it, you're responding out of emotion instead of wisdom. But what if there was a simple framework that could help you slow down, take ownership of your thoughts, and respond in a way that honors God?

In this episode, we're joined by James Lenhoff to unpack the powerful CTFAR method—a practical tool that's helped countless people navigate conflict, parenting, marriage, work, and even financial decisions with greater clarity and self-control. If you've ever wished you could respond more intentionally instead of reacting in the moment, this conversation will give you a framework you'll use for years to come. Links In This Episode

Emotion Wheel: https://abrahamswallet.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/07/Emotion-Wheel-1.jpg

CTFAR Model Questions: https://abrahamswallet.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/07/Unknown.pdf

WealthQuest: https://www.wqcorp.com/

GoodSense: https://goodsensemovement.org/ 

FreedUp App: https://getfreedup.com/ 

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Chapters

(00:00:00) - How to Get Through a Conflict With Yourself
(00:00:46) - Take Control of Your Wallet
(00:01:44) - A Christian Financial Planner on Abraham's Wallet
(00:03:36) - Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
(00:11:16) - How to Get Through a Conflict With My Wife
(00:17:14) - The Real Cost of Blaming Your Partner
(00:24:46) - Boundaries for Relationships
(00:30:45) - How to Talk About Abusive Relationships
(00:33:47) - The Woe and the Money
(00:41:12) - The Problem of Spending Too Much
(00:45:07) - How to Get Through Anger Issues in Guys
(00:48:27) - Share the Emotion Wheel With Others
(00:51:56) - C2 is a hard verb
(00:52:14) - Good Sense: What's Going On There?
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What if the next great family business wasn't a business at all—but a car? Self-driving vehicles are arriving faster than most people realize, and they may completely change how families think about transportation, income, and stewardship.

In this episode, we explore why autonomous Teslas could become one of the most practical business opportunities available to ordinary families. Imagine a vehicle that can run errands, take Grandma to church, drive the kids to practice, handle airport runs, and potentially earn income while you're at work or asleep. It sounds futuristic, but the future may be closer than you think. Join us as we discuss the opportunities, challenges, and implications of a world where your next employee might be a car.

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Chapters

(00:00:00) - How to Manage a Six-Child Household
(00:00:21) - Abraham's Wallet: Cutting-Edge Technology
(00:02:18) - Abraham's Wallet Camp
(00:06:23) - Cars and Small Business
(00:07:21) - Tesla's Full-Self-Driving Service
(00:12:24) - Full-Self Driving For One Hour
(00:15:35) - Robo Taxi: Elon's Big Idea
(00:21:08) - Tesla's CyberCab
(00:26:24) - Robot Taxi: The CyberCab
(00:29:34) - Tesla to Sell Cyber Cabs to Individuals
(00:30:50) - Imagine Driving Your Child Around In a Robotic Car
(00:34:56) - Do You Need A Car to Drive?
(00:37:23) - A Tesla for the Family?
(00:41:28) - Cyber Cab
(00:43:28) - Abraham's Wallet: Retreat Announcement
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