The Best of You

Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: Galatians 5:22–25

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Have you ever left a conversation thinking, That’s not what I meant — and still felt the distance linger?

Do you ever wonder why relationships feel exhausting, confusing, or fragile… even when you genuinely try to do the right thing?

Dr. Alison is joined by counselor and author Debra Fileta for a conversation that names a quiet tension many people live with but rarely articulate.

Sometimes the hardest part of relationships isn’t a lack of love—it’s the gap between what we intend and what others experience.

Together, you'll explore:

Why do the same relational patterns keep repeating?

Why does communication break down so quickly under stress?

Why do good intentions sometimes land as hurt or distant?

Why does love feel like it should be enough… but often isn’t?

If you’ve ever thought, Why does this still feel so hard when I care so much? — this episode creates space to ask better questions, without pressure to already have the answers.

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If you liked this episode, then you’ll love the following:

Episode 179: Building Wise Trust—How to Protect Your Heart Without Closing It Off

Episode 86: Embracing Conflict—Why It's Essential & 4 Simple Ways to Tackle It

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: Exodus 31:1–6

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Episode 192: The Work Only Humans Can Do—Why Connection, Vocation, and Meaning Still Matter in a World of AI

Episode 53: How to Claim Your Strengths & Thrive at Home & Work

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: Matthew 7:15–20

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Episode 178: How to Recognize Toxic Tactics & Stop Taking the Bait

Episode 149: 5 Toxic Behaviors & How to Protect Your Soul

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Welcome to The Best of You Every Day.

Today’s Scripture is: Psalm 42:1–5

Go Deeper:

Episode 77: The Dark Night of the Soul—Why It Happens & What It Means

Episode 99: Exploring a Broken Spirit & the Dark Night of the Soul

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While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only.‍

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