Defeat Postpartum Depression | Postpartum Anxiety, Postpartum Psychosis, Postpartum OCD

This episode includes a discussion of harm-themed intrusive thoughts. If you are experiencing thoughts like this, Arielle encourages you to listen, because she believes it will help you feel less alone and know what to do.

"I made my mom sleep on the outside of my sons' bunk bed so she could stop me from murdering my family in my sleep, and I wish I was kidding."

Arielle opens up about the intrusive thoughts she experienced after having her baby: the fear that she could lose control, sleepwalk, and hurt the people she loves most. She walks through the lengths she went to in order to keep everyone safe, including moving out of the bedroom, taking anti-anxiety medication to fall asleep, and having her mom (who worked in a prison for over 10 years and is now a therapist) sleep on the outside of the bed.

You'll hear:
- The first intrusive thought she ever had, while pregnant with her second son, and what happened when she told her doctor
- Why sleep started to feel like the most dangerous thing she could do
- What it was like to barely sleep, to question her faith, and to feel unable to tell anyone the whole story
- How every "safety" move she made was actually strengthening the OCD cycle
- Why an intrusive thought on its own doesn't mean anything, and what changes when you give it meaning
- How to experience peace in the middle of the storm, even while the thoughts are still there

If you are a Christian mom dealing with scary intrusive thoughts, whether you're newly postpartum or years out, Arielle would love to walk you through her path to peace. Text the word PEACE to 404-692-3754.

There was a point in my postpartum experience where I wasn’t just questioning my thoughts.
I was questioning everything.
I questioned whether I was really a Christian. Whether I had ever actually been saved. Whether Christianity itself was true. Why God was allowing me to suffer. Why He wasn’t healing me. Why I could open my Bible and feel absolutely nothing.
Today we’re talking about Step 5 of The Unafraid Method: ANCHOR.
In this episode, I’m sharing one of the deepest parts of my own story and what it looked like when postpartum anxiety and intrusive thoughts started affecting my faith too.
We talk about:
Religious intrusive thoughts and the fear of committing the unforgivable sin
Questioning whether I was ever really saved
Watching The Case for Christ because I was questioning what I believed
Wondering why God would allow me to suffer instead of healing me
Reading the Bible and feeling nothing
Using feelings as proof of whether God was close
The moment I looked in the mirror and said, “God, if You’re real, I need You to do something.”
The difference between faith and certainty
How prayer and Scripture can sometimes become part of certainty-seeking
What it means to stay anchored when you don’t understand what God is doing
Why being anchored doesn’t mean never questioning, doubting, or feeling afraid
One of the biggest things I had to learn was this:
God’s presence is not dependent on my ability to feel it.
Being anchored didn’t mean I always felt sure.
Sometimes it simply meant continuing to reach for God when I didn’t feel sure at all.
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Next up in The Unafraid Method: RECLAIM.

One of the hardest parts of postpartum intrusive thoughts is how isolating they can feel.
You may have people who love you deeply and still feel like no one fully understands what it’s like to be scared of your own mind.
Today we’re talking about Step 4 of The Unafraid Method: CONNECT.
In this episode, I’m sharing why community was such an important part of my own story, why being understood can feel so different from simply being loved, and how the people around you can support you without accidentally becoming part of the reassurance cycle.
We talk about:
Why shame and intrusive thoughts can feel so isolating
The difference between people who love you and people who truly understand the experience
Why hearing “me too” can be so powerful
How community can help you notice progress you may miss on your own
The difference between support and reassurance
What helpful support from a spouse, friend, or family member can actually sound like
How to communicate what you need when you’re spiraling
Why reassurance can bring temporary relief but keep you coming back for more certainty
Where professional support fits into a larger support system
A simple way to identify the gaps in your own support circle
Connection isn’t about finding people who will prove every fear wrong.
It’s about having people who can be present, understand what you’re walking through, and help you stay connected to your life when fear gets loud.
I also share why community is such a big part of Peace After Postpartum, my 90-day group program + community for moms navigating intrusive thoughts, anxiety, and OCD postpartum.
If you want more information, text PEACE to 404-692-3754. 🤍
Next up in The Unafraid Method: ANCHOR.

You know you’re spiraling. You know Googling, checking, analyzing, and asking for reassurance aren’t giving you lasting relief.
But then comes the question:
What am I actually supposed to do when the intrusive thought shows up?
Today we’re moving into Step 3 of The Unafraid Method: RESPOND.
In this episode, I’m walking through a simple framework you can use to start creating space between the scary thought and what you do next:
Notice → Name → Don’t Solve → Return
We talk about:
Why trying to get rid of the thought can keep you stuck
How to notice the thought without immediately entering the debate
Naming the pattern instead of analyzing the content
Why “this one is different” is such a powerful trap
Letting a question exist without needing to solve it
Returning to your actual life even when anxiety is still present
How reassurance, prayer, Scripture, and “good thoughts” can sometimes become part of the certainty-seeking cycle
The difference between trust and certainty
Why progress does not mean responding perfectly every single time
A simple exercise to practice responding differently in one real-life situation
The goal is not to make every intrusive thought disappear.
It’s to stop treating every scary thought like a question that has to be answered before you’re allowed to keep living.
I also share more about Peace After Postpartum, my 90-day group program + community for moms navigating intrusive thoughts, anxiety, and OCD.
If you want the founding member details, text PEACE to 404-692-3754 by August 31st. 🤍
Next up in The Unafraid Method: CONNECT.

You have the scary thought.
Then comes the Googling. The checking. The analyzing. The reassurance. The avoiding. The replaying.
And for a little while, you might actually feel better.
So why does the fear keep coming back?
Today we’re diving into Step 2 of The Unafraid Method: RECOGNIZE.
In this episode, we’re talking about the things you may be doing after an intrusive thought because they make you feel safer in the moment, but can become part of the cycle that keeps pulling you back into fear.
We’ll talk about:
Why reassurance can feel so good but never seem to last
The difference between useful research and Googling for certainty
Checking your feelings, reactions, body sensations, and memories
Avoidance and how fear can slowly start making your decisions
Sneaky mental patterns like reviewing, analyzing, testing, and trying to prove a thought wrong
How prayer can sometimes become part of certainty-seeking without us realizing it
How to start recognizing your own patterns without judging yourself
A simple exercise to identify what you reach for when fear shows up
I also answer a question I’ve been getting about how far postpartum you can be and still join Peace After Postpartum. If these struggles began during your postpartum season and you’re still actively navigating them, I don’t want you to automatically assume you’re “too far postpartum” for this to be relevant.
Peace After Postpartum is my 90-day group program + community for moms navigating intrusive thoughts, anxiety, and OCD.
If you want the founding member details, text PEACE to 404-692-3754 by August 31st. 🤍
Next up: RESPOND — what do you actually do when the scary thought shows up?